When the sun shines on the earth, I miss you.

When the sun shines on the earth, I miss you.
When the shadow of the moon slowly climbs up, I miss you
When the dust falls on the road in the distance, I can see you
I can also find your figure in the old man I met late at night
When the water waves collide violently , I hear your voice
In the quiet woods where everyone is asleep, I hear your voice
Even in the distance, I am with you, you are with me
The sun goes down, the stars shine
Ah, if you are here Around Me

This poem, full of the romance of life, became familiar to people in the 2005 Korean drama "Wedding" starring Ryu Si-won and Jang Nara.

In that era when the Korean Wave was prevalent, this drama did not match the Korean Wave at that time. A bit niche. There is neither a prince nor a Cinderella. It's just the story of Phoenix Man and Bai Fumei that people tell the most at the moment. Why did I suddenly think of this drama today? It was just because I had read countless articles about Phoenix Man and Bai Fumei on the headlines recently, which made me think of this drama.

When I watched this drama for the first time, I didn’t have much idea. The second time I watched this drama was ten years later in 2015, I was very impressed. I feel deeply about it, and I recommend that married men and women review this drama in detail.

plot introduction

Li Se Na (played by Jang Nara), a wealthy girl who graduated from the piano department, lived a life without worries about food and clothing since she was a child. After graduation, she also engaged in her favorite art planning work. Han Sung-woo (played by Yoo Si-won) grew up in the countryside. His father passed away prematurely and he became an outstanding diplomat through his continuous efforts. Because of business failure, Chengyou's aunt hopes that Chengyou and Se Na will get married on a blind date and pay off their debts. Se Na, who doesn't know the reason, has always been in love with Cheng You after her blind date.

Sung Woo rejected Se Na because he was thinking about his childhood sweetheart Shin Eun Soo. At this time, Shin Eun-soo, who was far away in Japan, had accepted the marriage proposal from Seong-woo's senior, Heo Jin-hee.

Chengyou, who has not seen his lover return for a long time, sees that waiting for Yinxiu is hopeless. Under Seina's true confession, Chengyou is moved and agrees to marry Seina. And the inequality in this blind marriage from the beginning destined it to have a rough road in the future.

Throughout the whole story, what is the most important thing about getting married?

In Se Na's world, she believes that the most important thing in marriage is love, and she regards love as the only thing in life.

Chengyou understands that the most important thing in marriage is happiness. Although he still couldn't forget his childhood sweetheart Yin Xiu, and although he stubbornly believed that he could only have one love in his life, he still chose to marry Se Na. Se Na, who understood all this, convinced her parents and told them with certainty that Chengyou would fall in love with her one day, and this love would last a lifetime.

However, reality and imagination are so dramatic. At the wedding of Seong-woo and Se-na, Eun-soo's fiancé Heo Jin-hee discovered that Se-na was his ex-girlfriend whom he dated for three days in England six years ago. The God of destiny is so ever-changing, no one knows who will appear in our lives at the next moment. Sung Woo and Se Na, Heo Jin Hee and Shin Eun Soo, the two current couples were once each other's old lovers. Who would have thought that they would have such an inextricable relationship today. In order to maintain their friendship and protect their emotional lives, the two current lovers carefully live with their own secrets.

However, who can guarantee that you will never be stepped on a landmine? As the secrets of the past are revealed bit by bit, the friendship and love of the four people are intersected by scars. They slowly grow and fade while torturing and hurting each other, and understand marriage. Life, understanding the true meaning of marriage, and finally each has a happy home.

The most touching part of the whole drama

Chengyou said: "Marriage is about having a person who shares the joys and sorrows together, reading a book and chatting together, holding hands for a walk at night, talking about how your day was, and my wife holding an umbrella when it rains. Come pick me up, and the two of us will grow old like this..."
Se Na said: "To get married, you need to meet a great man, choose some cool clothes for your husband to wear, and look like the real perfect one in the magazine. Decorate the room, exercise together in the morning,
occasionally, wait for the meal cooked by her husband in bed, travel together, go to New York to watch the opera, wear a dress to spend Christmas in Paris..."

Yin Xiu said: "Marriage is the most important thing. It's about caring and sacrificing everything for the other person."
Zhenxi said: "The most important thing about marriage is stability."

Chengyou's mother said: "Marriage is about leaving the parents who gave birth to me and truly becoming one with the other person. "

" Se Na is your most important relative, more important than your parents, Cheng Jun, and Yin Xiu. No matter illness, pain or happiness, you will share it with the person you are with, so cherish the person in front of you and don’t let her cry, only then can you maintain the lasting happiness of your marriage.” It's not as complicated as imagined. In marriage, what you like may not be suitable for you. The true love is to be together for a long time. If you are with a person, if the energy he gives you allows you to get up happy every day, sleep peacefully every night, and do everything you want. If everything is full of motivation and full of expectations for the future, then you have not loved the wrong person. The most suitable relationship is never to torture each other in the name of love, but to accompany each other and become each other's sunshine.

Just like Sung Woo and Se Na, Jin Hee and Eun Soo in this drama, and Se Na's two best friends later, they each found happiness in each other. It's not because of each other's family background, but because they can learn from each other's strengths, tolerate each other, understand each other, and illuminate each other.

This is the real married life. The water flows slowly, yet is simple and warm.

Just like what Chengyou wrote on the wedding invitation of Seongwoo and Se Na,

The two of us are going to get married.
From now on, no matter whether we are sick or healthy,
whether we are happy or in hardship,
we will care about each other,
we are not alone. But two people,
is not two parts but one,
we will work hard,
we will be happy,
we will go to the end of the world like this.

This passage is not only the essence of this drama, but also the best and most simple summary of marriage.

The whole drama has a relaxed and romantic beginning, a tortuous and touching process, and a happy and happy ending. The plot is simple, but the content has profound meaning. It is not only suitable for all young people of marriageable age today, but also suitable for all parents in the world, and more suitable for young men and women who are preparing to get married. This is a film that is well worth watching. recommend! ! !