Celebrate the New Year with lanterns and colorful decorations, and bid farewell to the old year with good fortune.
It’s the Chinese New Year, and everyone hopes to seek good luck and make their family more prosperous.
Even if you don’t do well this year, you can’t be pessimistic and world-weary and expect to make a turnaround in the coming year and make a comeback in your life.
But some people have no taboos. Whenever they speak or do something, they appear unlucky, which makes people feel very uncomfortable.
Therefore, we must learn to restrain ourselves and if we want to improve family feng shui, we must pay attention to these "four taboos" at the end of the year and the beginning of the year.
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quarrels of words, causing slander and slander against each other.
During the Chinese New Year, we always say "Happy New Year"; before the Chinese New Year, we always ask "Will you get rich this year?" Lucky words come out of the mouth and make people feel comfortable.
"Send the Stove Day Essay", wrote about a custom: On the 23rd or 24th of the twelfth lunar month, which is the day when the Stove Lord ascended to heaven, people made very sweet candy and invited the Stove Lord to eat it, so that it would stick to his teeth so that he could not speak ill of the Jade Emperor. This shows how much people attach great importance to the feng shui of speaking.
If a person is not impulsive, he can always control his mouth and not act recklessly. After all, people have a sense of reverence and know their moral bottom line.
Once impulsive, he will speak out loud and say any vicious words.
The premise of impulsiveness is that a person is mentally stimulated, emotionally angry, feels uneasy in his heart, and feels physically attacked. This is the consequence of the war of words.
When people quarrel with each other, all kinds of vicious words will come out.
Normally, we can just quarrel for a few words. But around the Chinese New Year, it will be particularly uncomfortable to be scolded or scolded. For those who care about everything, there may be an "invisible hurdle" left in their hearts throughout the year.
For example, when two young people are arguing, they start by saying, "No wonder people like you can't find a partner." If several blind dates fail during the New Year, it will inevitably be associated with the quarrel, and the more you think about it, the more uncomfortable it will be.
endure the anger for a while to avoid a hundred days of worry. Keep a pleasant attitude, don't anger anyone, and send blessings when you open your mouth. Whether you have a good year or not, you will be in a good mood. This is good spiritual Feng Shui.
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Failure to repay borrowed money leads to debt collection and debt avoidance.
Before the Chinese New Year, many people will go to collect debts.
has been working for a year, but there are always some people who are in arrears with wages, or some balances in business have not been calculated clearly.
It’s the Chinese New Year, and everyone has to spend money, and they don’t want to postpone debts until next year.
Think about it, at the beginning of the new year, you will be in debt, which will definitely make you feel uncomfortable.
Some people deliberately refuse to repay their debts and want to hide, thinking that hiding will delay them for another year.
There is a saying in rural areas: "You can't escape the first day of the Lunar New Year, but you can't escape the fifteenth."
If people come to ask for debts on the first day of the Lunar New Year, the good fortune of this year will be gone. On any day in the first month, if you meet a creditor, you will have to say a few words or even get entangled with him.
In addition, if any relatives or friends want to celebrate the New Year at your house because they are avoiding debts, you must refuse. This is not a good thing. We should encourage relatives and friends to actively raise money and pay off debts. If you really can't afford to pay off your debts, you should take the initiative to explain clearly and settle the accounts clearly.
"Debt-free and light-hearted" is a good sign for the new year and the beginning of making big money.
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Excessive shopping has fostered extravagance in the family.
With the changes in society, our living conditions are getting better and better.
At the end of the year, many families go out in force: buy, buy, buy.
Some families spend 20,000 to 30,000 yuan during the New Year. Ordinary families will also have to spend several thousand yuan. It seems that if you don’t spend money at this time, you will be sorry for “a year’s hard work”.
You must know that good feng shui for a family includes one word - more than enough every year.
In my hometown, a New Year picture with fish will be hung on the door of the house to tell everyone to be frugal and to have surplus. Otherwise, once the family encounters an emergency, they will really have to move around.
In fact, many New Year's goods are not in everyone's favorite taste, and buying them is a waste; don't buy so much of some fruits, because they will be easy to rot after the beginning of spring; don't buy so many drinks, because everyone drives out to pay New Year greetings, and most of them don't drink.
In terms of living standards, we feel like celebrating the New Year all year round. A wide variety of food is available at any time, so don’t worry about not being able to buy it.
It is the consciousness a family should have to not "rush to buy" things at will. Go shopping on demand, spend less, still have balance, everyone is happy.
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is not hygienic and ruins the atmosphere of the Chinese New Year.
From the 23rd day of the twelfth lunar month to New Year's Eve, people will find time to clean their homes. This period of time is called " dust sweeping day ".
"dust" and "chen" are homophones. If the dust is swept away, it means "removing the old and spreading the new". It means that in the coming year, poverty will be far away and bad luck will slip away. Everything is new.
If a family always looks slovenly, and guests come to the house, they will "hid their faces and pass by", leaving a very bad impression. If you are from the city and the door is dirty, you may get scolded.
If the food you usually eat is not clean and you accidentally eat sand, people will frown. This is definitely a bad omen.
Clothes and pants should be kept clean and tidy even if you don’t have money to buy new ones. Going out like this makes you look energetic.
You should also have a clean heart and think for the best in everything. The grievances that have accumulated for a year must be let go in time. When the mind is empty, it can hold more spring breeze and feel more sunshine in the coming year.
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There is no need to go to the eastern suburbs, spring is in thousands of households.
At the end of the year and the beginning of the year, we have to let go of the fatigue of the whole year and enter spring with ease. As a family, we live happily and carefully plan our work and career for the coming year.
If you want to improve your family's feng shui, you must know what you should do and what you shouldn't do. Don't be too casual, let alone do immoral things.
Go out to ask for good luck, come in to send blessings, and visit to add joy.
If you live the "New Year" well, your life will be comfortable and your feng shui will improve.
Author: Commoner.
Pay attention to my words and enter your heart.
The pictures in the article come from the Internet.
