On the day of Minglan’s wedding, He Hongwen stood in the corner and watched with loneliness in his eyes. Yes, what a great sixth girl from the Sheng family, but she will always be someone else's eldest lady.

text/Mu Yan

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Minglan On the wedding day, He Hongwen stood in the corner and watched with loneliness in his eyes.

Yes, what a great six girls in the Sheng family, but they will always be someone else's eldest lady.

Originally I felt very regretful for He Hongwen, but when I saw Cao Jinxiu following him, I felt that losing his marriage with Minglan was not the worst for him. The worst thing was that while he lost Minglan, he was completely entangled by Cao Jinxiu, the thick-skinned and dark-hearted cousin Cao.

Cao Jinxiu does not love He Hongwen. She just treats He Hongwen as a life-saving straw. He Hongwen herself knows this fact, but he just can't refuse Cao Jinxiu's miserable behavior.

When he saw Aunt Cao whispering to Minglan, he said to Minglan, "Don't be afraid if I am here." He also told the Cao family that he had done his best to contribute money and efforts to their family, and he seemed to be determined to accept Cao Jinxiu as his concubine.

But when he really went to the Cao family to solve the problem, he heard that Cao Jinxiu committed suicide because she was poured with safflower soup and could not give birth when she was a concubine, and he became soft-hearted again.

It is hard to say whether Cao Jinxiu really committed suicide, but it is true that He Hongwen was being held tightly.

Not only He Hongwen, but even the old lady of Sheng's family began to sympathize with her when she heard this, and persuaded Minglan that since she could no longer have children, there was no threat, and there was no need to stop her from entering the Cao family.

At this point, Cao Jinxiu has successfully transformed the tragedy of selling into a "buying mind technique" and cleverly manipulated other people's hearts.

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Because of sympathy for her experience, everyone did not care about the wrong intentions behind her miserable behavior.

Yes, she is like Zhu Manniang , a woman with inappropriate mind.

She knew that He Hongwen and Minglan were discussing marriage, but when she appeared, she cried and shouted at the gate of the Sheng family and blocked He Hongwen. Then she forced him to die and asked He Hongwen to take her as her concubine.

After Minglan appeared, she ran up and knelt down after a few steps, then complained, exposed her scars, and asked Minglan to give her a way out, looking like a pitiful woman.

But Minglan has seen this trick. Zhu Manniang used it when she made a fuss about her Taishi mansion. Minglan said at that time that ordinary women would not dare to go to Taishi's mansion to make trouble even if they had sex with their leopards.

Similarly, if Cao Jinxiu was really a weak woman, how could she be so ignorant and dared to block He Hongwen directly at the door of Sheng’s house.

She is just like Zhu Manniang, with a thick-skinned and dark-hearted person, and she wants to reason with weakness and morally kidnap others in order to win what she wants.

At the same time, she also made plans to marry Minglan if He Hongwen refused to accept her.

Minglan said that Cao Jinxiu looked at He Hongwen like a ghost in hell looking up at the world. She could see at a glance that Cao Jinxiu regarded He Hongwen as her only redemption.

For this hope, Cao Jinxiu will definitely entangle He Hongwen.

She doesn’t care what benefits He Hongwen can do to marry Minglan, nor does she care about what harm He Hongwen’s daughter is, as long as she can enter the He family, the face and future of others is nothing.

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The He family used to help them with the Cao family too much, even though she was completely unaware of gratitude, could she actually ruin He Hongwen's happiness with her own hands in order to catch him?

This is one of the reasons, but the fundamental reason is that the Cao family is not a good person.

Why did their family members in the city be exiled by their entire family? It was because Uncle Cao knew that he had violated the law and was convicted.

Look at Aunt Cao's evil face again, crying and pointing at his family, who is both relative and benefactor, and scolds him. It's simply.

He Hongwen sympathized with Cao Jinxiu and thought of a compromise solution to recognize Cao Jinxiu as his sister and promised to continue to take care of them, but the Cao family was fist-and-handed.

Isn’t this just the story of a farmer and a snake? The Cao family is a snake nest. No matter how kind and righteous the He family is to them, they still remain unchanged in nature. They will repay their kindness with grudges, which is very terrible. Can a person like

be able to ignore her inappropriate mind because of sympathy for her experience?

cannot.

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Minglan originally thought that she had to endure hardships no matter where she lived, and was ready to accept that Cao Jinxiu and herself had entered the Cao family.

Fortunately, Gu Tingye came out in time and pulled her out of the fire pit.

(Although everything was originally planned by Gu Tingye, I think even if Gu Tingye was not there, the Cao family would sooner or later come to the He family after the amnesty. At that time, Minglan was already the eldest lady of the He family, and most likely she could not stop the Cao family from forcing her to live)

He Hongwen still accepted Cao Jinxiu. He wanted to go to Yunnan and Guizhou to purchase medicinal materials, but letting Cao Jinxiu go back to his hometown with his mother has explained everything.

Although the story between them is not presented to the audience again, it can be reasonably speculated that He Hongwen himself and the He family will not have a good life in the future.

Everyone knows that having compassion for evil people can only ask for trouble. As Michelangelo said: "Doing good people to good people will make him better; doing good people to evil people will become even worse."

Who knows whether the Cao family will do anything more evil with the kindness of the He family in the future? With such a cousin who is good at bullying the strong with his weak, will He Hongwen still get married in the future?

Everything is unknown, hanging.

He Hongwen shouldn't really accept Cao Jinxiu, and the He family shouldn't really help the Cao family anymore.

Soft-hearted, kindness must have principles and bottom lines, and blindly tolerating evil people is ignorance.

It’s a pity that He Hongwen easily understands the suffering information deliberately released by the evil man, and all the consequences can only be suffered by him.

I hope that we all in real life can understand that evil people are not worthy of tolerance and mercy, especially evil people who lose power must be more careful.

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