In the early years, I carefully studied the history of ancient and modern times, and during this period, I discovered a problem. From ancient times to the present, from the West to the East, human society has experienced countless wars of justice and injustice, aggression and ant

Author: Du Xue

In the early years, I carefully studied the history of ancient and modern times, and during this period, I discovered a problem. From ancient times to the present, from the West to the East, human society has experienced countless wars of justice and injustice, aggression and anti-aggression. After careful investigation, we found that civilization is always accompanied by barbarism, and justice always confronts evil. The two have always been incompatible with each other and incompatible with water and fire.

As for who is right and wrong, it is up to the winner, because the history of human social progress is written for the winner. As for losers, few people mention them, and no one sympathizes with them. This was summarized after I carefully studied the history of ancient and modern times, China and abroad in the early years.

Therefore, I think that from one person to a family to a nation, if you encounter barbarians or foreign countries' unreasonableness, there is no need to be civilized without them. At this time, you need to show some courage and domineeringness to solve the counterattack. Even if it is not possible in the open, then it will be dark.

Because the barbarians always believe that "the truth is always within the range of the cannon." If we still treat it with civilization, the other party will mistakenly think that we are afraid of them. At this time, we should deal with barbarism with barbarism and treat the person's body with the way of others, so that the barbaric diseases of the barbarians can be cured. If excessive tolerance in confrontation between civilization and barbarism will backfire, then the other party will gain a better position, and then the ruler is still thinking about it. You will never be able to satisfy the appetite of this type of greedy person or nation. You want to live in peace with it, you want to develop peacefully and live a good life. People don’t want you to develop, are jealous of you, and they will make trouble for you at any time. What do you think?

Then we have to reflect. Most of us parents often teach their children to deal with people and things with benevolence, righteousness, courtesy, wisdom and trust, but that should also be based on friendship and friendship between the two sides to work, because civilization is not omnipotent at all. If you encounter barbarians, you should educate your children to solve the problem and fight back, or even defeat the enemy with one move.

If you encounter someone or something that is savage, I think it should be done with teeth and eye for eyes at this time. As Chairman Mao said: "If you hit one punch, you won't be able to come." If you don't have this courage, people will think you are a soft persimmon, and everyone wants to pinch it. At this time, you must have the courage and domineering spirit to put it to death and fight with it boldly. If you have such courage, right and wrong will avoid you. This is how I have been doing things for half my life. I am brave and never fearful, but I never bully others. I have liked to be chivalrous and righteous since I was a child, protecting justice, and help each other when I see injustice. Although many things are not related to myself, I still help each other decisively.

Although I am a father now, I have no dogma in educating my children. I teach my children not to cause trouble outside, but not to be afraid of trouble when encountering civilized people. When meeting civilized people, make their children more civilized than others. When encountering barbarians, you must give them some color, because only in this way can you create a man in the true sense. If a man is a real man, he should stand tall.

Therefore, civilization is only relatively suitable for the truth, goodness and beauty of the world, and for the "false, evil, and ugly" of the world, we should treat others with the way of others. In general, I like Chairman Mao’s classic quotes: "If a person does not offend me, I will not offend others; if a person violates me, I will offend others." I believe that only by educating the next generation in this way can they protect the material and spiritual home left to them by our generation.

If we follow some people's words now: "When you meet a thief or a bad person, take the initiative to hand over your property, and then..." The bad person won't be able to save anything if he scares you a little bit? Will this continue to encourage the arrogance of the bad people?

I once met a retired teacher who said that he had been engaged in education for a lifetime and found that his traditional educational concepts in the past were wrong. He said that he found that children educated according to his traditional concepts in the past are becoming more and more timid. Now he advocates the way some bosses educate their children, because he found that this type of child is bold, responsible, and dares to act when he grows up, and it is easier to succeed in his career. This question is indeed a bit heavy and is worth thinking about by every parent.

Readers and friends, on this topic, everyone is welcome to express their opinions and express their opinions.

Author Profile:

Du Xue

Hanxi Poetry Society Member

Shaanxi Province New Long March Assaulter

"Decision-making Chinese Expert Think Tank" Visiting Professor

Special Researcher of the Cultural Tourism Committee of the China National Film and Television Art Development Promotion Association

From August 6, 2022, Hong Kong TV "China Big Health" Column International Health Image Ambassador

On August 30, 2022, "No. 1 Health Report" awarded Du Xue the honorary title of "Health Ambassador".

Member of Adult Education Committee of China Medical Education Association

Chairman of Shaanxi Fuyou Future Brand Operation Co., Ltd.

Deputy Editor-in-Chief of "China Guang Information Network"

Director of External Literature Department of Shaanxi Operation Center

Director of "Chinese Headlines" Shaanxi Operation Center

Signed columnist of "Literature Baihuayuan" magazine

Vice Chairman of Literature Baihuayuan Writers Alliance, Chairman of Shaanxi Branch

Director of Nantong Branch of "Young Literature Literature Nantong" magazine Board of Director of "Fu Sun Shines in Eight Directions" "Red Sun Shines in Eight Directions" brand creator, founder of the world's top luxury sauce wine founder, first-class wine taster.

As a promoter of the big health cultural industry and a fan of traditional Chinese medicine culture, the author is able to actively promote the healthy food culture. At the same time, he also wrote an article in the media to promote the development of traditional Chinese medicine culture and use his own practical actions to promote the development of the health cause of the whole people. The manuscripts he wrote have been included in the book "The Power of Traditional Chinese Medicine" in Healthy China.

The poetic work "The Fragrance of Orchids and the Fragrance of the Wind" created by the author won the special prize in the 5th "Baihuayuan Cup" National Essay Competition.

The prose work "Preparing for the Rain" won the first prize in the 2022 National "Contemporary Writers Cup" Literature and Art Competition.

prose work "Patriotism, Start from Consumption of Domestic Products" won the first prize in the 2022 "China Educational Science" Forum Excellent Works.

prose work "Rural Night" won the first prize in the 2022 "China Education Science Cup" Original Literary Works Competition awarded by China Education Press.

The red gene inheritance poem created by the author was once reported in the form of a dialogue interview on July 23, 2021 by the " China Internet News Center " (China.com) under the supervision of the State Council Information Office.

The author's poetry, prose, short stories, , poetry theories and other literary works have been published on media platforms such as " China Net ", "China Guang Information Network", "China Travel and Business Media Network", "Contemporary Writers" magazine "Chinese Headlines", "Harmony Shaanxi Net", " Henan Science and Technology News ", "Literature Hundred Flowers Garden" magazine "Today's Headlines", "Tencent News", "NetEase News", "Sohu News", "Chinese Poetry Society Official Website (Poetry Cloud), "Zizhou Poetry Magazine", "Zizhou Square Chronicles", "Zizhou Literature Garden", "Fugu Culture", "Fuzhou Hongwenyuan" and other media platforms.