Aunt Lin is just a concubine, but she is doing well in the Sheng family and lives no less than the mistress of the family. Why? Because she has a trick.
Changfeng and Molan are naturally highly valued by Sheng Hong. For Changfeng, I hope my son will become a dragon is no less than for Changbai ; for Molan, I prefer Rulan and Minglan .
But later, as men and women get married, and with the despair of Aunt Lin, Changfeng gradually embarked on the right path of studying hard and striving for the career. However, Molan fell deeper and deeper in the quagmire of house fighting, and the relationship between Changfeng and Molan became increasingly distant. Why is this happening with
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01. Aunt Lin’s life experience has the greatest impact on Molan, while Changfeng is less affected.
Men conquers the world, women conquers men. Aunt Lin achieved her goals by grasping the man's heart. She is very good at dealing with Sheng Hong. The words she said were that I would leave the righteous lady outside and would not do it. She was willing to be a concubine for you because she loved you!
Aunt Lin’s crying with pear blossoms in the rain always touches Sheng Hong’s heart. Sheng Hong thought that Aunt Lin loved him and could not bear to let her down. In addition, he was born in a illegitimate child and knew the difficulties of being born in a illegitimate child, so he supported Aunt Lin everywhere, so that Aunt Lin's life was not worse than the mistress of the family.
In this way, Aunt Lin thought she had found a trick to settle down, that is, she would have everything if she held the man's heart. She taught Molan this as a secret, and also taught Molan the despicable tricks such as vain, showing off her elegance, being indifferent to the silence, and fighting openly and secretly.
Under her influence, Molan couldn't listen to Sheng Hong's earnest teachings; she couldn't see the marriage arranged by Sheng Hong for her. After some operations by Molan and his daughter, they finally married into the Liang family of the Marquis' Mansion as they wished, but they also brought shame to the Sheng family.
After marriage, Mo Lan still followed the experience of Aunt Lin. She didn't know how to urge her husband to make progress. She was busy with the fight in the house and was busy with her husband. This also led to her husband not seeking progress and his progress in his career became slower. For this reason, Sheng Hong scolded her, Minglan advised her seriously, and Changfeng also talked about her, but she couldn't hear anything.
Molan only regards Aunt Lin’s teachings as the truth, and she does not recognize the advice of others. We all know that Aunt Lin has serious misunderstandings about her children's education. As a concubine from a small family, she has a small pattern, lacks vision, and is taller than the sky, greedy for wealth, and is self-righteous, and feels that her experience is invincible.
long maple is not the case. He is a boy. Although Aunt Lin has influenced her pretentious and romantic since childhood, her father has taken care of her much after all. Sheng Hong is committed to the revitalization of the family and is very attentive to take the exams of her son's knowledge and teach her sons to make progress. If Changfeng is out of order, he will be scolded or even beaten and punished to kneel down. After all, he did not go too far.
, and Molan only believed her words, and took the status of a wife in charge of her identity. Her style and pattern of a concubine were naturally getting bigger and bigger.
02. The marriage partner is different. Changfeng married a good wife, but Molan may not necessarily marry a good husband.
Changfeng married his wife to get a bargain. His wife, Liu's family, came from a large family. She was originally engaged, but the man was nothaved and had misbehaving, so the Liu family retired from the other party. In this way, Liu was delayed. It happened that Liu's father and Sheng Hong were colleagues. They knew each other, so the Sheng family made the profit.
are very satisfied with this Liu family, Old Lady Sheng and Sheng Hong. The old lady even praised her as a "good wife in the house" and liked her very much. Unfortunately, Liu's appearance is average, which is simply a nightmare for Changfeng, who has loved beauty since childhood. He was quite dissatisfied but did not dare to resist the old lady and Sheng Hong, so he had to marry Liu.
After marriage, although Changfeng disliked Liu's bad looks, Liu also said bluntly that he looked down on Changfeng's unimprovement. The couple fell in love with each other. On the fifth day of the wedding, Changfeng ran to Tong's house, and Liu didn't care.
The people who were so proud of themselves, and they got lost. A family rule that the mistress in the Sheng family had not given birth and could not get pregnant. They secretly dumped the child-proof soup and wanted to take advantage of the birth of a child. As a result, the angry old lady was put on the medicine and her hair fell into the farm. Several other jumping and cheerful people were also driven away. The rest were scared and dared not jump around anymore. The old lady cut off his money to Liu again, and he didn't even spend it.
Now the maple is full of bleak wind and rain, but the people who are in love are not around. There is no one to listen to the complaints in their hearts and hearts. If you want to spend money, you will have no money, and your life will be miserable. Then he was punished by Sheng Hong to kneel down in the ancestral hall. After Changfeng knelt in the ancestral hall for two days, Liu stewed soup to visit her. I don’t know what the two said, Changfeng hugged Liu and cried, and the couple became harmonious from then on.
Liu's family is very good at dealing with Changfeng. The old lady and Sheng Hong sing white-faced , while Liu sings rosy. She can always give Changfeng her tenderness when she is scolded and beaten. A few days later, Liu took back the room that was driven to the village. Changfeng was even more grateful to Liu's virtuousness, and since then he was devoted to her and learned with sincerity under her supervision.
That's it. Old Lady Sheng, Sheng Hong and Liu, without colluding in advance, worked together to straighten Changfeng. Liu is smart and virtuous. It is really a blessing for Changfeng to have such a good wife.
My Lan’s marriage to Liang Han is not bad at all, but he doesn’t have such a strong ambition and likes to linger in the flowers. The reason why he was able to marry Molan was because of his misconduct and did not marry a wife made people pregnant. It was also suspected that he had been pregnant during the national mourning period. The Sheng family took this handle and his family had to marry Molan who was not optimistic about. In fact, his mother, Mrs. Liang, was interested in Minglan.
Because Minglan was raised by Mrs. Sheng, who was born as a legitimate daughter of the Hou family since childhood, her vision and pattern are definitely not on the same level as Mo Lan. In this way, the Liang Hou family did not care about Minglan's identity as a concubine. Both of them were born in illegitimate, Mrs. Liang originally hoped to marry Minglan and let her take care of her son's backyard, but she looked down on Molan, who was petty.
If a man like Liang Han is punished by a wife like Liu or a wife like Minglan, he should become more ambitious. Unfortunately, he married Molan, who is passionate about house fights, and was taught by his aunt. He has no big picture and will not be a mistress. Then I'm sorry, the couple will be able to get worse and worse.
03. The alienation between Changfeng and Molan is inevitable.
Molan saw Changfeng and wanted Changfeng to pick up Aunt Lin from the village. Changfeng felt that Molan should clarify her inner house first and then take care of other matters.
Changfeng also saw the chaos in Molan's inner house, which shows that his vision is already much higher than Molan. The two brothers and sisters have different levels of thought and perspectives of thinking about problems, so naturally there are differences. Especially when Mo Lan saw Changfeng talking to Liu with a gentle face, she followed her step by step like a child following her mother, she couldn't stand it. This scene seriously stimulated Molan, and she left Sheng Mansion angrily.
In fact, Changfeng had thought about taking Aunt Lin back, but as soon as he mentioned it, he was scolded by Changbai and asked him what he had to take Aunt Lin back, and would he let her harm others, would she let her teach people wrongly, would she make the house uneasy, and wait, and scolded Changfeng for a bloody spurt. Changfeng was scolded and couldn't bear to live a life of love. He hugged Changbai's thigh and cried bitterly, saying that he would never mention this matter again.
Changfeng can get better and better, because it is actually due to the Sheng family environment. Not only did the two elders Sheng and Sheng Hong discipline him strictly, even Changbai, the eldest brother, dared to discipline Changfeng strictly because he did not have Aunt Lin, a disturbing person. With Liu's methods, Changfeng was surrounded and was airtight, so he could only follow the route planned for him by the Sheng family.
Molan and Changfeng have become increasingly different. Liu also doesn't like Molan's sister-in-law. She once told her nanny that the brothers and sisters of the Sheng family are all smart except her husband and Molan. The two stupidest ones were met by myself. Fortunately, although Changfeng needs encouragement from time to time, he is finally beaten.
Molan is surrounded by excellent people, nor is it that no one is persuading her. It’s just that she can’t see other people’s kindness, listen to others, and only blames others and never wants to change herself. If you are stubborn, you can only go all the way to the dark.
The different paths are not planned together, and the two brothers and sisters will only become more and more distant. One is constantly rising and the other is spinning in place. Their thoughts are getting less and less in the same channel, and the gap is getting bigger and bigger, and alienation is inevitable.
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