Our country has a history of over 5,000 years and has countless cultural assets. Among them, the common saying is the most appropriate part of our daily life and is still used today. I believe many people have heard the saying "Men are responsible for 38, women are responsible fo

Our country has a history of over 5,000 years and has countless cultural assets. Among them, the common saying is the most appropriate part of our daily life and is still used today. I believe many people have heard the saying "Men are responsible for 38, women are responsible for 38, and women are responsible for 38, and they are responsible for 38". So what does this common saying mean? Why are the two completely different results of the same word "March 81"?

The allusion behind "March 8"

Now when the word "March 8" is mentioned, many people will think that this is an impolite insult. This meaning first appeared in , southern Fujian, and is mostly used to describe a woman who behaves frivolously or recklessly. But a long time ago, March 8 was not what we understand now, and there is a legendary story behind it.

This story is recorded in " Dreaming Xi Bi Tan ". There is a poet's character named Wei Ye . As his name is, Wei Ye is open-minded and lives in seclusion all year round. But the good poems written by you are sought after.

At that time, a singer nicknamed "Sheng Zhang Ba" was suggested by a friend to ask Wei Ye for poems to write lyrics, but she looked unhappy. Wei Ye immediately said, "You are born in the North Road, and I am a familiar Wei San." implies that the singing girl is not as good as asking for poetry. You are not familiar with me, but she treats me with a stiff and stubborn attitude. Later, Zhang Shuwei was also used to describe acquaintances and strangers.

So after oral transmission, Zhang Ba and Wei San are also used to describe an unpleasant personality and people who cannot speak tactfully. As they develop slowly, only three-eight two words are left.

I think of the protagonist in this story again. March 8 was made by men, meaning women. Although the author at that time did not mean dissatisfaction with women, in the process of inheritance, he naturally used March 8 as a female, which is why many places now use this word as an insult.

Wei Ye and the singers both "occupy the 38th", but one is a popular poet, and the other is a traitorous singer with no status. brought into this common saying, isn't it true that men are responsible for 38th, and women are responsible for 38th, and women are responsible for 38th?

"March 8" and the theory of yin and yang

There is another saying related to the birth date and horoscope, which is also a more realistic . As we all know, in ancient my country, the birth date and horoscope were very important, and it can even be used to deduce the prosperity and decline of life, fortune and direction.

In many film and television dramas, we can also see that before the two surnames marry, they must take out the birth date and horoscope of men and women to see if they are in harmony. It can be seen that the birth date and horoscope are important in the hearts of the ancients. Even now, there are still many places where this practice remains.

And three and eight are the dates containing three or eight each month. According to this explanation, it is incorporated into this common saying, means that a man will be born on a day like three or eight, and will inevitably become rich and rich, which is a good fortune. But girls are not like this. They will be lonely for a lifetime, which is a bad sign.

So why are the two numbers three or eight? This is because in the view of the ancients, Sanhe Eight was a day when the yang energy was very prosperous and a good day for prosperity and upward development. It is not difficult to understand why men are the ones who occupy 38.

In the theory of yin and yang, men represent yang. If the masculine energy happens to be in a day like March 8, the yang energy will naturally be more effective, which is a "must-get-for-nothing".

And women are just the opposite. Women are the yin among yin and yang. Yin Qi and yang Qi are incompatible, which will bring bad luck. Moreover, because their fate contains yang Qi, they will be more laborious in marriage in the future, which is the common saying "nothing must be lost".

Such statements have a distinct feudal era color. In the environment where men are superior to women, women have extremely low status. This is why it represents the bright and upward "yang" to represent men, while the descending and dark yin represents women.

However, when Yin and Yang were first proposed, the definition was not so narrow. It was the crystallization of the wisdom of the ancestors of China, representing the philosophical thoughts of the Yin and Yang family . They can be used in all things in the world. Then, for various social reasons, it was confined to people and used to bind the relationship between the two genders.

was even derived. A woman born on March 8 was characterized as "resisting her husband" and "resisting her son" because of her bad horoscope. If her husband had any accidents, the responsibility would be completely attributed to the woman, so as to strongly realize the prophecy of "no one will be denied".

From this point of view, some common sayings do not bring spiritual wealth, but backwardness, decay, and even long-term ideological poisoning.

word of mouth, there is an error

Before the invention of text, bamboo slips, and even papermaking , our history and culture were passed down by our ancestors until the present, so it has great inaccuracy. For example, what we have learned about women without talent is virtue. We now think that women do not read books are the best virtues.

. Its original intention is that women must cultivate their own virtues without talent, and they do not encourage women to be "beautiful vases". For example, if you are not a husband without poison, many of us now think that if a real man wants to succeed, he must be vicious.

But in fact, his original intention is to be excessive and not to be too petty. It means that a real man should have a stubborn belly and not be too petty. As a result, it became "poison" after being spread. Not only is the meaning much different, but the pattern is also much worse than before.

Many Chinese common sayings actually have certain reference value. Some reflect life philosophy, some reflect geographical and astronomy knowledge, and some warn us. To a certain extent, we should absorb and learn the common sayings like .

However, there are many people like the female zodiac sign. It is full of certain feudal and discriminatory ideas and should not be retained in society for a long time. However, it has been developed over hundreds or even thousands of years, and it is not easy to eliminate it.

Although we have arrived in the 21st century with developed civilization, feudal remnants will still affect us on some occasions. The reason why feudal thought is deeply rooted is that it exists in all aspects of our lives as an ideology.

Vulgar words are one of the carriers. We should start from ourselves. First of all, we refuse to use common words to define life. The value of women should not be determined by a single sentence. Secondly, we should use such vulgar culture as a lesson for historical reflection, so as to draw lessons.

We should maintain this similar attitude towards all traditional cultures, take the essence and remove the dross, so that Chinese civilization can continue to shine in the long river of history.

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