Zhang Ailing is indifferent and mean to her mother and younger brother

"Because of love, so compassion; because of understanding, so tolerant" is a well-quoted phrase.

This warm sentence comes from Zhang Ailing, a talented woman in the Republic of China.

Zhang Ailing's words were addressed to Hu Lancheng, a man who made Zhang Ailing, this unparalleled talented woman, fall into the dust.

This sentence became a famous saying for a while, and it has been passed down to this day, comforting countless hearts. It would be a big mistake to think that Zhang Ailing is a tolerant person if the world is filled with love, tolerance and positive energy through Zhang Ailing's sentence.

Actually Zhang Ailing is just the opposite.

Zhang Ailing was born in a wealthy family, her grandfather was Zhang Peilun, a great official in Xinjiang, her grandmother was Li Hongzhang's daughter Li Juou, and her mother was Huang Yifan, the granddaughter of Huang Yisheng, admiral of the Changjiang Division.

Zhang Ailing in this big family has a father she has severed from him, a mother she has hated for a lifetime, and a younger brother whose vision is like a passerby.

In 1957, Zhang Ailing’s mother, Huang Yifan, who had been wandering away all her life and was seriously ill, felt that time was running out. She wrote to Zhang Ailing in the United States from the London Hospital and said: "My only wish now is to see you. "

Zhang Ailing’s mother Huang Yifan

Huang Yifan, who was not a wealthy lady before, has already fallen to the point of collapse, and once went to the factory to sew leather bags. After receiving her mother's letter, Zhang Ailing's first reaction was that her mother Huang Yifan wanted to ask her for money.

Zhang Ailing sent her one hundred dollars, Zhang Ailing wrote to her friend and said, "I can’t go, but I can only write more, send some money, and write your information in "Literature Magazine". I sent all my articles. I hope she will read it or get a star to comfort her. Later, a friend of her wrote to say that she was very happy to read it." It means to use this hundred dollars to sever the relationship with the mother and daughter and stop contacting each other.

It is not the first time that Zhang Ailing and her close friends and relatives cut off relations at every turn and do not interact with each other. When she went to the United States, she didn't even tell her own brother.

From the current information, Zhang Ailing hates her mother Huang Yifan, but because she was forced to study mathematics with

when she went to her mother, she practiced the graceful manners of ladies and ladies. It's not talking loudly, not smiling, and so on.

But the rebellious Zhang Ailing from a young age is like a reckless, wild country boy with rough words and deeds. She is far from Huang Yifan's expectations. Huang Yifan was disappointed and cursed a few words.

This is all right, and it has become the hatred that Zhang Ailing will write down for life. As a mother, I hope that my daughter will become a celebrity in the upper-class society, and she is also eager to love her. There is nothing wrong with her, just like her parents now look forward to a son, but she can't stand the "arrogant" Zhang Ailing.

She started to hate, even if this person is her own mother.

Zhang Ailing's heart is so narrow, it is said that the conflict with her mother is still more than 800 yuan. When Zhang Ailing was studying at a university in Hong Kong, she was awarded 800 yuan by her teacher. Zhang Ailing excitedly showed it to Huang Suqiong. Huang Suqiong showed too many surprises, and did not praise her, only asked Zhang Ailing to put the money on the table.

Later Zhang Ailing heard from her mother that the 800 yuan had been spent.

Huang Yifan didn't feel wrong with her behavior, but for Zhang Ailing, who was sensitive and "arrogant", she became the bottom line to completely draw a line with her. Since then, Zhang Ailing has been planning how to repay her mother some money, and then draw the line.

The opportunity came. Huang Suqiong returned to China. Zhang Ailing chose an opportunity, took two or two small gold bars, and said to Huang Yifan: "Thank my mother for spending so much money on her. I have always been upset."

Zhang Ailing said it was returned to her. Huang Suqiong shed tears towards her celebrity daughter’s determination and coldness. She said to Zhang Ailing, "Even if I am just a person who treats you well, you don’t have to treat me like this.Warm. "

Mother’s tears did not influence Zhang Da’s talent, but made her build deep in her heart since she was a child. Huang Suqiong’s noble image collapsed. Since then, she has seen her mother like an old begging woman, with contempt in her disgust.

In fact, even if Huang Yifan is not a perfect mother, she always treats Zhang Ailing very well and has high requirements. She is proud of and proud of Zhang Ailing’s achievements. She used a salary of five dollars an hour to hire a teacher to teach Zhang Ailing. She would write to Zhang Ailing wherever she went. When Zhang Ailing was desperate in the United States, she also entrusted her old friend Hu Shi to help her daughter.

But Zhang Ailing ignored it.

She only saw her On the bad side of herself. When Zhang Ailing summarized the relationship with her mother, she said: "There is no love that is not full of defects. ”

Zhang Ailing also showed extraordinary selfishness and indifference to her younger brother Zhang Zijing.

Zhang Ailing and Zhang Zijing were raised by servants. Zhang Zijing One year younger than Zhang Ailing. Normally, as children who were left out after being divorced by their parents, the two brothers and sisters should be more dependent on each other for the people, and rely on them closely. But the fact is that Zhang Ailing treats her brother as if nothing and indifferent. Such as white water.

It is said that Zhang Zijing wrote in her diary during the battle between her and her stepmother: The words "family adversity" caused trouble.

Zhang Ailing did not have it when she went to the United States. Tell her brother Zhang Zijing. Zhang Zijing later found out that she was gone.

In the next few decades, Zhang Ailing almost forgot that she had a younger brother. In her later years, Zhang Zijing contacted her sister, and Zhang Ailing did not have any special surprises. Because she was always poor. , Zhang Zijing is unmarried for life.

In order to prevent her inheritance from being acquired by her younger brother, Zhang Ailing specially made a will to leave all the inheritance to her friends like the broker

Song Qi and his wife, including the copyright of Zhang Ailing’s works .

Zhang Zijing had asked her sister Zhang Ailing for help several times, but every time, Zhang Ailing refused without hesitation, and this sister would say some nasty things. When Zhang Zijing was in poverty, she had looked for her sister who was popular in half the sky. Zhang Ailing borrowed money, and Zhang Ailing said coldly, "I have no money", so she sent her own brother away.

Two years after Zhang Ailing passed away, his brother also ended. Her sister was not close, and her aunt did not love her. A lonely life.、

Zhang Ailing is also rude to her uncle. Zhang Ailing once wrote an article "Self-exposing family ugliness", and has since lost her uncle

And. Aunt Zhang Ailing said to her: "Your second aunt will be angry when she comes back. "Zhang Ailing said nonchalantly: "What the second aunt thinks, I don't care about it now. "In this conversation, Zhang Ailing gritted her teeth and said to her aunt that because her mother had spent the 800 yuan, she would definitely give her all the money she spent on her, meaning that the money would be cut off.

Even with this aunt who loves her, Zhang Ailing can handle everything, all sorts of accounts are like strangers. Before going to the United States, she even agreed with her aunt that she will never contact her for life.

炎樱是Zhang Ailing’s best best friend and friend helped her countless throughout her life. Yan Ying was the witness when Zhang Ailing and Hu Lancheng got married.

Zhang Ailing was poor in the United States and became more and more prosperous. Yan Ying rushed to the United States from Japan to help Zhang Ailing. Seek Hu Shi’s help together.

But Yanying’s magnanimity makes Zhang Ailing very uncomfortable. In addition, Yanying likes to make jokes. This is an excitement for the proud and troubled Zhang Ailing. Every time Yanying makes a joke It is a steel knife inserted into Zhang Ailing’s proud and fragile heart. Therefore, once Zhang Ailing’s works are published, life is worry-free, and her repressed desire for revenge flourishes again, and her long-standing girlfriend and friend relationship with Yan Ying can be terminated. .

Yanying wrote to her, and she did not reply. Yanying said in a letter: "I don't know what I did wrong, which made you stop paying attention to me." Zhang Ailing has seen Yanying's Letter, throw it aside and ignore it.

Zhang Ailing is very concerned about money, and almost must compare baht, and all the consumption of shopping with friends must be paid separately. This talented woman in the Republic of China is the earliest practitioner of the AA system.

As a super talented woman in the Republic of China, Zhang Ailing's mean side is also shown to other people who are also talented women.

Zhang Ailing once said provocatively: "Comparing me with Bing Xin and Bai Wei, I really can't be proud of it." This talented woman who has been spoiled by the Republic of China speaks with careless feelings and does not add to it. Modification is beyond words.

all talk about classmates, brotherhood. Zhang Da, a talented woman, is also rude to her classmates. In "Ember Remnants", Zhang Ailing mocked her classmates from Hong Kong University and tried her best to sarcasm.

Zhang Ailing is so cruel and decisive to her close relatives and friends, but she is very generous to her friends who she thinks are suitable.

When she joined Hu Lan, she enclosed 300,000 yuan. Hu Lancheng was her first husband and the one who made him humble into the dust. For the second husband, poor Lai Ya, Zhang Ailing used her meager income to repay the debt for this man who was twenty-nine years older than she was still married.

Zhang Ailing said to Lai Ya: "The biggest regret in this life is that the two are 29 years old and can’t go back together. The so-called: Is old. You hate my late birth, I hate your early birth. "

Zhang Ailing said to Hu Lancheng: "I have become very low in front of you, low in the dust. But I like it in my heart, blooming from the dust. "

When leaving Hu Lancheng, Zhang Ailing said: "If I have to leave you, I won't find my shortcomings, and I won't love others, I will just be self-willing. "

A talented woman, a stingy woman, an extremely generous woman, an unfeeling indifferent woman, a passionate woman.

This is Zhang Ailing. A legendary talented woman!

On the right, Zhang Ailing’s grandmother, the young girl of the year

On the right, Zhang Ailing’s grandmother Li Julou, Li Hongzhang’s beloved daughter, was an 18-year-old young girl. On the left is Mrs. Zhao, Mrs. Li Hongzhang.