Tokugawa Ieyasu advances by retreat: After being a hostage and losing his wife and children, how to achieve endurance in suffering?

2020/04/2915:40:29 history 1724

"Han Kiln Fu" once said that "Li Guang has the power of shooting a tiger, but he has no title when he is old; Feng Tang has the ambition of Anbang, and he has never met in his life. The two of them have never met their talents in their lives. Apart from timing, they are also too impatient. Just like Sima Yi, he continued to prepare for independence until all the capable people in the Cao family and his sons died.

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And Japan also has such a character, he is the representative of the ninja spirit. Tokugawa Ieyasu was one of the three outstanding Japanese Sengoku, the initiator of the Edo period and the first general of the Japanese army. Tokugawa Ieyasu ended the Sengoku period, and the Japanese regarded him as a god.

(1). If you can't bear it, you will be in disorder.

Tokugawa Ieyasu's life is thrilling, but he himself is very low-key and humble. It is this kind of virtue that enables him to create a brilliant era. The Tokugawa family belonged to the Sanhe wealthy Songping clan, but the Daimyo era was in turmoil and turmoil. Although it is a wealthy family, but the power is very weak. Moreover, they are in the strategic buffer zone between the Oda family and the Imagawa family.

1. The road to adulthood was bumpy

Tokugawa Ieyasu’s father had a good relationship with the Oda family on weekdays, but he had to join Imagawa in order to maintain stability. For this reason, he severed contact with Owari and sent the six-year-old Tokugawa Ieyasu to Imagawa Yoshimoto as a hostage. On the way, he was intercepted by the Oda family. And met the person who influenced his life, Nobunaga Oda.

The Imagawa family urgently needs the Mikawa samurai led by the Tokugawa family to serve, and they also need them to stabilize their front positions. Therefore, the bargaining chip was Tokugawa Ieyasu and started to exchange with Oda. Therefore, the Samurai Samurai often acted as pawns. Yoshimoto Imakawa treats Ieyasu differently from other protons.

Imagawa Yoshimoto appointed Datoku Yuksai as Ieyasu's teacher, and also betrothed the daughter of the power minister Sekiguchi Kinyō to him, and at the same time accepted her as a son. In this regard, Imagawa’s approach is not out of appreciation for Tokugawa Ieyasu, but must draw him and the Mikawa forces he represents.

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2. Juvenile and mature, mature and stable

The feeling of being under the fence is uncomfortable for anyone. What's more, it was the young Tokugawa Ieyasu. Father Tokugawa Hirotada was assassinated by his retainers. And Tokugawa Ieyasu has quietly become the leader of the family. Their Samurai Samurai should all obey him. But because of this, he has been repeatedly jealous.

Suruga people are always reluctant to accept Ieyasu, thinking that he is just a hillbilly from Sanhe. And his wife, who also relied on the power of his father, often looked down upon him. To all kinds of discrimination and unfair treatment, Tokugawa Ieyasu has shown a tolerance different from ordinary people. As everyone knows, he is "Pretend to be a pig and eat a tiger".

What he wants to build is a harmless character, anyone can despise himself. Fortunate people use childhood to heal their lives, while unfortunate people use their lives to heal childhood. Although Tokugawa Ieyasu was a bit miserable when he was young, he never gave up on himself. He knew in his heart that only forbearance could achieve success.

"You must be happy in life, don't make Jinzun empty to the moon". If a person does not experience ups and downs, it is difficult to truly grow up. The experience of youth has an enlightening effect on Ieyasu's life. He has gone through all kinds of conditions in life to be able to remain calm in the various tests in the future. And Ieyasu also mastered his own unique principle of survival.

(2). The weak eats the strong, the law of the jungle

"On the head of the word forbearance, a knife". For many people, patience is extremely difficult. Everyone's patience also has certain limits. But those who make big things must learn to forbear. After Imakawa really succeeded to the throne, he didn't want to make progress and became incompetent. Ieyasu Tokugawa decided to join forces with Nobunaga Oda to plan the world.

homeKang is not only patient, but also very trustworthy. He formed a balanced alliance with the Oda family, and the two families joined forces to no avail.

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1. Obedience and Forbearance

Compared with the ambitious and eager world of Oda Nobunaga, Ieyasu Tokugawa Has not shown the edge. Although the two are in an alliance, the Oda family's power is still slightly higher. Moreover, Nobunaga also determined that Ieyasu would not and dared to tear his face with him, so he began to act unscrupulously.

"Jiayang Junjian" " No Ieyasu, no Nobunaga will rise again, Nobunaga should have been defeated in the First Battle of Zichuan". In the battle of Ansigawa, Ieyasu Tokugawa took out all of his fortune and played against Oda Nobunaga against the Allied forces of Asai. Without Ieyasu's support, nobunaga's 10,000 people would be defeated.

While Nobunaga continued to provoke trouble, he burned Mount Hiei, a holy Buddhist site. The famous believer Takeda Shingen was furious and determined to sanction Oda Nobunaga. This time Ieyasu still acted as a pawn, and Nobunaga arrogantly used it as his subordinate. Moreover, only three thousand reinforcements were sent.

"I failed in Sanfangyuan. What a useful lesson that failure was for later life." Since then, because his wife wanted to form an alliance with the Takeda family, Nobunaga knew that he asked to execute his wife and children.

2. Tolerance and tolerance will eventually be tolerated

After this battle, Ieyasu Tokugawa’s old days will be exhausted. At this time, he was faced with an extraordinary choice. If you continue to forbear, then your wronged son and his wife who have known each other for many years will be killed by the sword. If you rise up to fight back, then the Oda army will crush the territory, and then the lives will be destroyed and the people will not live.

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Therefore, he still chose to be patient. As a result, he personally beheaded his wife and children. At this time, Tokugawa Ieyasu showed patience that was different from ordinary people. He did not choose to pursue the equality of the alliance and did not have too many complaints against Oda Nobunaga. When Nobunaga invited him to visit Mount Fuji, Ieyasu took good care of him along the way.

Nobunaga seemed to be moved by him, and he wanted to grant Ieyasu a fief. But at this moment, Oda Nobunaga's confidant, Akechi Mitsuhide, launched the Innoji coup. Seeing that the situation is over, Oda Nobunaga died of self-immolation . Because Ieyasu has always been weak, everyone thinks that he is weak and can be bullied.

So Hojo saw Nobunaga's death and wanted to divide Ieyasu's land. And Tokugawa Ieyasu tore up the treaty, and Chen had tens of thousands of soldiers. Everyone saw his greatness, and the Hojo family fixed it with him. Tokugawa Ieyasu is not weak, but patience. In the face of big right and wrong, how to choose him has his own way.

And patience is just a soldier who succumbed to not fight. Also to reduce conflicts, he is different from Oda Nobunaga. Nobunaga's purpose is to establish a unified country, so there is only one way to fight. And he is also full of confidence in himself, and Tokugawa Ieyasu is able to put himself in the right position and can change strategies differently from time to time.

(3), to retreat, to the last laugh

Tokugawa Ieyasu is definitely a Sima Yi-style character, and his patience and perseverance can be compared with Zhongda. Toyotomi Hideyoshi succeeded to the throne after Oda Nobunaga's death. Ieyasu maintains an alliance with Oda Nobuo and helps him fight the power minister Toyotomi Hideyoshi. Oda Nobuo surrendered to Hideyoshi, so Ieyasu lost the meaning of decisive battle with Toyotomi Hideyoshi and lost the justice of the war.

1. Bow to the successor

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After that, Toyotomi Hideyoshi and Ieyasu Tokugawa began to discuss. The condition is that Ieyasu Tokugawa must send his son Hideo TokugawaKang sent to Osaka City to be a proton. Ieyasu's two sons, one was killed by Oda Nobunaga's request, and the other was sent to his successor. For ordinary people, this kind of pain is very unbearable.

But Tokugawa Ieyasu is not an ordinary person. Toyotomi Hideyoshi's regime was not unified, and each group formed its own faction. Fortunately, he reigned less than ten years before he died in a hurry. belongs to the era of Tokugawa Ieyasu, and finally ushered in a glimmer of dawn. The Shangshan family began to move around again, and Ieyasu Tokugawa asked them to go to Beijing to report on their work in order to maintain the dispute.

And the Shangshan family responded fiercely, which just gave him an excuse to attack. Before the expedition, Ieyasu gave Toyotomi Hidera 20,000 taels of gold and rice noodles. It can be seen that Ie Kang's mind is very broad. In the eighth year of Edo, Tokugawa opened in Edo, thus unveiling the era of the Edo Shogunate in Japan, and ruled Japan for more than 260 years.

2. Zhougong spit-feeding, the world returns to the heart

"Always compete with wise men, and different fools argue right and wrong". Tokugawa Ieyasu is a man of profound black studies, and he is completely expected to win the world by virtue of his character. He has the heart to map the world, but he always hides himself. When he was young, he bowed his knees to the Imagawa family without complaining.

"Don't be happy with things, don't be sad with yourself. Worry before the world's worries, and happy after the world's happiness". In middle age, he took the world as his mission. In order to preserve the survival rights of the people under the rule, he resolutely executed his wife and children. After half a hundred years, it finally ushered in a moment of glory belonging to him.

It is because of patience that he has his future glory. In that era, as a small name, there were only two ways out. One is to rely on the strong, and the other is to stay the same. Obviously, Ieyasu chose the former. To Oda Nobunaga, he has always replied with virtue, just to survive in the cracks.

Tokugawa Ieyasu advances by retreat: After being a hostage and losing his wife and children, how to achieve endurance in suffering? - DayDayNews

"The wise man is not afraid of words, but he who is afraid of words is foolish." If a person often talks about his cleverness, then there is no need to be afraid. But if he often says he is stupid, then this kind of person is very scary. Tokugawa Ieyasu was the latter, and he accurately found his position in the Warring States Period.

In addition, we can quickly find the right time to find a place in the post-sengoku era, that is, under the regime of Toyotomi Hideyoshi. As the saying goes, great wisdom is foolish, Tokugawa Ieyasu is a man of great wisdom. He hides all his strengths, making everyone think he is incapable and weak.

But in the face of right and wrong, Ie Kang is able to respond quickly. When Toyotomi Hideyoshi died, he was transformed into a strategist general. is no longer the fat sheep to be slaughtered, he has never been so incompetent and incompetent.

Conclusion:

"A cuckoo does not sound, where should it be? Nobunaga: It is not a pity to kill. Hideyoshi: To induce it to sound. Ieyasu: Don't wait for it to sound." Oda Nobunaga is a person who is accustomed to solving problems with violence, while Toyotomi Hideyoshi is accustomed to using tactics. Tokugawa Ieyasu is the wisest, he likes to wait. Just like a hunter, waiting for prey in the ice and snow.

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