If life is just like the first meeting, why is the autumn wind sad and painted with a fan
The ancient talented woman Ban Jieyu is; the modern talented woman Yu Xiuhua who recently suffered domestic violence is also!
In the harem where the warbirds and swallows competed for favor in the Western Han , there was a woman who could obviously be favored by her refined beauty, but because of her self-discipline and advancement, she gradually drifted away from the Han emperor, and finally moved to the cold palace to be with Qingdeng. She is Ban Jieyu, the talented girl of the Ban family.
She was the concubine of Emperor Cheng of the Han Dynasty, a famous female writer in the Western Han Dynasty, and one of the female writers in the history of Chinese literature who was famous for her poems and poems.
When it comes to the Han Dynasty class, everyone raises their hands and praises them. They are so talented in literary and military skills. My ancestor was Yin Ziwen, the magistrate of Chu State in the Spring and Autumn Period.
Ban Jieyu's father, Ban Kuang, was a famous general who fought against the Xiongnu during the period of Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty. Among her descendants, Ban Biao, Ban Gu, Ban Zhao, are all famous historians of the Eastern Han Dynasty, and Ban Chao is a famous general of the Eastern Han Dynasty.
Ban Jieyu, who was born into a meritorious family and a famous family, can be said to be a winner after reincarnation. She is extremely white, rich and beautiful. Not only is she beautiful, she is also talented, super self-disciplined and striving for advancement. In modern times, that would definitely be at the academic level.
Raised in a deep boudoir and famous far and wide, once chosen by the king's side
Although Ban Jieyu's father was a military general, he never relaxed in educating his children. The class girl has been familiar with poetry books since she was a child, including "The Book of Songs", "Yaoyou" and "The Female Teacher".
At a young age, she showed dignity and stability that is rare for girls of her age. Coupled with her one-in-a-thousand family background, impeccable beauty, and enviable talents, she has already become famous even though she was raised in a boudoir.
The royal family also heard that the Ban family had such a daughter, so they called her into the palace when she was 16 years old and became the concubine of Emperor Cheng of the Han DynastyLiu Ao.
A talented woman married early and was willing to share her husband's love with other women. In addition to being forced by the majesty of the emperor's family, she probably felt that this man was worthy of the world!
What is this king like?
Emperor Cheng of the Han Dynasty was once a good boy. He loved reading and writing, was broad-minded and cautious. But after growing up, this good boy went further and further on the road of not seeking advancement.
Dad Emperor Han Yuan As soon as he closed his eyes, he ascended the throne. It was just this big operation to reach the top that made Emperor Cheng of the Han Dynasty suddenly lose the motivation to pursue progress, and gradually became immersed in fun and couldn't extricate himself.
This situation is like that of Chinese college students. Before they went to college, many of them were hard-working "strugglers." However, once they were admitted to their favorite university, they thought they had reached the pinnacle of their lives, and the once outstanding students would also be in the dark. Self-destruction in online games.
Emperor Yuan of the Han Dynasty is the best example of living in a dream and dying in a gentle land.
A round fan half-covered her face, and she was so charming that she aroused your pity.
Ban Jieyu’s refined appearance was very different from other concubines of Emperor Han Yuan who were rich in fat and pink. Coupled with the girl’s internal and external accomplishments of “poetry and calligraphy in her belly”, It suddenly caught the attention of Emperor Han Yuan.
html The girl in class 1 did not dare to look directly at the emperor in front of her, but the burning gaze he shot at her made her feel like it was love at first sight. As a result, the innocent girl's heart was hit by the arrow of a playboy.
When she first entered the palace, Miss Ban was just a young envoy with a low concubine rank. Soon, Emperor Cheng of the Han Dynasty promoted her six levels in a row, directly to "Jieyu", the top concubine.
According to the Han system and tradition, "Jieyu" is often named the queen. If Queen Xu hadn't been there at that time, it would have been possible for Miss Ban to be there in one step. If life is just like the first meeting, why is the autumn wind sad and painted with a fan The ancient talented woman Ban Jieyu is; the modern talented woman Yu Xiuhua who recently suffered domestic violence is also! In the harem where the warbirds and swallows competed for favor in the Western Han , there was a woman who could obviously be favored by her refined beauty, but because of her self-discipline and advancement, she gradually drifted away from the Han emperor, and finally moved to the cold palace to be with Qingdeng. She is Ban Jieyu, the talented girl of the Ban family. She was the concubine of Emperor Cheng of the Han Dynasty, a famous female writer in the Western Han Dynasty, and one of the female writers in the history of Chinese literature who was famous for her poems and poems. When it comes to the Han Dynasty class, everyone raises their hands and praises them. They are so talented in literary and military skills. My ancestor was Yin Ziwen, the magistrate of Chu State in the Spring and Autumn Period. Ban Jieyu's father, Ban Kuang, was a famous general who fought against the Xiongnu during the period of Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty. Among her descendants, Ban Biao, Ban Gu, Ban Zhao, are all famous historians of the Eastern Han Dynasty, and Ban Chao is a famous general of the Eastern Han Dynasty. Ban Jieyu, who was born into a meritorious family and a famous family, can be said to be a winner after reincarnation. She is extremely white, rich and beautiful. Not only is she beautiful, she is also talented, super self-disciplined and striving for advancement. In modern times, that would definitely be at the academic level. Raised in a deep boudoir and famous far and wide, once chosen by the king's side Although Ban Jieyu's father was a military general, he never relaxed in educating his children. The class girl has been familiar with poetry books since she was a child, including "The Book of Songs", "Yaoyou" and "The Female Teacher". At a young age, she showed dignity and stability that is rare for girls of her age. Coupled with her one-in-a-thousand family background, impeccable beauty, and enviable talents, she has already become famous even though she was raised in a boudoir. The royal family also heard that the Ban family had such a daughter, so they called her into the palace when she was 16 years old and became the concubine of Emperor Cheng of the Han DynastyLiu Ao. A talented woman married early and was willing to share her husband's love with other women. In addition to being forced by the majesty of the emperor's family, she probably felt that this man was worthy of the world! What is this king like? Emperor Cheng of the Han Dynasty was once a good boy. He loved reading and writing, was broad-minded and cautious. But after growing up, this good boy went further and further on the road of not seeking advancement. Dad Emperor Han Yuan As soon as he closed his eyes, he ascended the throne. It was just this big operation to reach the top that made Emperor Cheng of the Han Dynasty suddenly lose the motivation to pursue progress, and gradually became immersed in fun and couldn't extricate himself. This situation is like that of Chinese college students. Before they went to college, many of them were hard-working "strugglers." However, once they were admitted to their favorite university, they thought they had reached the pinnacle of their lives, and the once outstanding students would also be in the dark. Self-destruction in online games. Emperor Yuan of the Han Dynasty is the best example of living in a dream and dying in a gentle land. A round fan half-covered her face, and she was so charming that she aroused your pity. Ban Jieyu’s refined appearance was very different from other concubines of Emperor Han Yuan who were rich in fat and pink. Coupled with the girl’s internal and external accomplishments of “poetry and calligraphy in her belly”, It suddenly caught the attention of Emperor Han Yuan. html The girl in class 1 did not dare to look directly at the emperor in front of her, but the burning gaze he shot at her made her feel like it was love at first sight. As a result, the innocent girl's heart was hit by the arrow of a playboy.
When she first entered the palace, Miss Ban was just a young envoy with a low concubine rank. Soon, Emperor Cheng of the Han Dynasty promoted her six levels in a row, directly to "Jieyu", the top concubine.
According to the Han system and tradition, "Jieyu" is often named the queen. If Queen Xu hadn't been there at that time, it would have been possible for Miss Ban to be there in one step.
During the honeymoon period after their marriage, the two of them would spend time in the study, writing poems and chanting poems, "tuning the piano and reading the golden scriptures", a perfect combination of the beautiful school belle and the school idol. Or in the boudoir, a round fan half-covers the face, making the king pity. Look at it this way, initially they were in tune, sweet, and appreciated each other.
It can be seen that in the beginning, Emperor Cheng of the Han Dynasty was extremely doting on Ban Jieyu, and Miss Ban once thought that she was married to the love of her dreams.
Mild joy cannot match superficial "hateful love"
It would be a big mistake to regard Ban Jieyu as an ordinary woman who just wants to monopolize her husband's favor. She is by no means a love brain, she is sober in the world.
She always knew that a king should have grand plans and great undertakings to plan, and it was not for a king to indulge in the love between his children.
She also knew that in addition to serving the emperor, timely advice was also the concubine's responsibility. Therefore, when she is favored, she does not fight for it or enchant her, but only wants to be a virtuous concubine.
But Emperor Cheng of the Han Dynasty may not have thought so!
At this moment, he wished he could be tired of being with his beloved concubine all the time. In order to make it easier for the two of them to travel together, he specially ordered someone to build a very large chariot.
When the chariot appeared in front of Ban Jieyu, she was not as surprised and shy as Emperor Cheng of the Han Dynasty expected. Instead, she knelt down in panic: "All sage kings have famous ministers by their sides, and the last master of the third generation has a sweet daughter. Now I want to The same chariot, is there any similarity? "
It means that the ancient sage kings always had virtuous ministers by their side, and only the last rulers of Xia, Shang and Zhou dynasties, Xia Jie, Shang Zhou, King You of Zhou , had their beloved concubines by their side. If I enter and exit the car with you, will it be similar to the situation of the last master of the third generation?
How did the emperor feel when he heard such words of advice?
Emperor Cheng of the Han Dynasty, whose face was as happy as a flower, suddenly felt hot, as if he had been slapped in the face and felt uneasy. Although he didn't have an attack on the spot, a king who was rejected and scolded from the side would definitely feel unhappy.
When the Queen Mother heard about this, she once said to the people around her: "In ancient times, there was Fan Ji, and now there is Ban Jieyu." She used the analogy between Fan Ji and Ban Jieyu, who went on a hunger strike to persuade King Zhuang of Chuzhuang in the Spring and Autumn Period. It can be seen that I very much recognize this virtuous daughter-in-law. At the same time, I hope she can become a great helper for Emperor Cheng of the Han Dynasty to advance to Mingjun.
Ban Jieyu has always regulated herself according to Fan Ji's standards. On this point, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are of the same mind. It's a pity that Emperor Cheng of the Han Dynasty was not the king of Chuzhuang.
Of course, Ban Jieyu is not a confused second sister. She knows that living deep in the harem, the emperor is her only support, and fighting for favor is an inevitable method. Any words or actions that go against the emperor may fall out of favor.
But "the best taste in the world is pure joy" is her pursuit of love, but the emperor does not like "bland" and puts more emphasis on "sick love".
Ban Jieyu is one of the few people in the harem who is sober! She understands better that allowing the playful emperor to indulge in love will not only make him achieve nothing, but also very likely put the country in danger. At that time, she will have to bear the reputation of being the evil concubine who brought disaster to the country.
thinks long-term and has an extraordinary realm. This is the example of a good concubine . It's a pity that Emperor Cheng of the Han Dynasty was not a wise emperor. What he pursues is nothing more than Yingying Yanyan, which is extremely superficial and nothing more.
ancient lamp tea, writing poems and poems
Once, at the family banquet of Princess Yang'a, Emperor Cheng of the Han Dynasty met Zhao Feiyan who sang and danced for them. The graceful figure, the light dance steps, and the agile waist of the water snake suddenly gave the emperor, who had always been attracting beautiful women, a different flavor.
That night, Emperor Cheng of the Han Dynasty took Zhao Feiyan back to the palace and directly named her Zhao Jieyu, the same level as Ban Jieyu. Later, Zhao Feiyan also recruited his sister into the palace and was named Zhaoyi .
From then on, Er Zhao pampered the harem for a long time.
Although people often say that "clothes are not as new as new, people are not as old as before", but when the novelty fades away, even the most attractive beauty will sometimes become tired. Perhaps, the unhappiness about the chariot has always made Emperor Cheng of the Han Dynasty feel like he was in trouble.
Furthermore, for Emperor Cheng of the Han Dynasty, who always sought fresh excitement, his former "soul mate" Ban Jieyu was far less desirable than the vulgar and charming Er Zhao.
In this way, the virtuous Ban Jieyu was defeated by the vulgar Yingying Yanyan. In this way, although they are not allowed to be favored exclusively, if they can be protected by the emperor, they can live a peaceful life.
However, the harem has always been a cruel and ruthless place. How could Er Zhao, who was domineering and disruptive to the palace, tolerate the existence of a concubine who shared some of the emperor's love?
Empress Xu, the head of the harem at that time, had been neglected by the emperor for a long time and was really dissatisfied with the behavior of the two Zhaos, so she set up a private altar and chanted sutras in the morning and evening to pray for the emperor and curse the two Zhaos for disaster.
Unexpectedly, someone leaked the news, and Er Zhao used this to "kill two birds with one stone."
first went to Emperor Cheng of the Han Dynasty to cry and complained, deliberately adding fuel to the fire, saying that Queen Xu not only cursed their sisters but also harmed the emperor. In anger, Emperor Cheng of the Han Dynasty immediately deposed the queen and threw her into the cold palace. Then, he fabricated that Ban Jieyu was also involved in Queen Xu's "witchcraft" case, and wanted the emperor to seduce her as well.
Emperor Cheng of the Han Dynasty, who was partial to belief, actually came to investigate.
Ban Jieyu, who had a clear conscience, looked up at the man in front of her who had once held her dear to her heart, and had to admit that her youth had been wrongly spent after all.
"People say that life and death are determined by destiny, and wealth is in heaven. It cannot be achieved by human power. I often do good deeds but do not get any blessings, let alone do bad deeds. What hope do I have? If ghosts and gods have knowledge, how can they listen to it? These prayers? If they are ignorant, what's the use of my curse? So, I don't even bother to do this."
Ban Jieyu's remarks made the emperor realize that he had wrongly blamed this intelligent and transcendent woman. The sweetness of me and me suddenly appeared in front of my eyes, and I suddenly felt guilty.
In the end, Ban Jieyu was not punished, but was given generous rewards. Er Zhao was very dissatisfied that his plot did not succeed, but he could only give up for the time being.
From the favor in the harem to the elusive divine grace, from love at first sight to the transference of love, Ban Jieyu has experienced these ups and downs one by one, and she has become more aware that the emperor can no longer achieve greater things, and the relationship between their husband and wife The tenderness and tenderness are long gone.
Instead of entangled with dead people here and always being falsely accused and criticized, it is better to stay away from the turmoil and get both protection and peace.
So please resign from Changxin Palace to serve the Queen Mother. From then on, I drank tea under the ancient lamp and wrote poems with my pen.
If life were just like the first time we met, what would happen if the autumn wind sad painted a fan
When people talk about this palace past, they always praise Ban Jieyu’s virtues, saying that she has a clear life and can live a free and independent life after falling out of favor. She is the best woman in the world. Role model.
Ban Jieyu was praised for her virtuous words every time. It seemed that she was not worthy of the reputation of a virtuous concubine even if she complained even a few words.
Let me ask you, how many abandoned women in the world can be so generous that they don’t complain?
If Ban Jieyu had no resentment in her heart, how could she write "Song of the Round Fan", one of the ten most sad and sad "poems of palace resentment" in ancient times? (Also known as "The Song of Resentment")
Newly made Qi Wan Su, as bright as frost and snow [1].
is cut into acacia fan , which looks like a bright moon.
Go in and out of your arms, wavering in the breeze.
I am often afraid that the autumn festival is coming and the coolness will overtake the heat.
Throw away the donation box and find the way to the end of kindness.
This eternal song compares itself to the round fan that is "favoured in the summer and abandoned in the autumn". It was "bright as snow" at first, but now it is "abandoned and donated". On the surface, it says that the autumn fan is idle, but in fact, it describes that from being favored to being abandoned in the deep palace. of sorrow.
I think about the time when a round fan half-covered my face, which aroused the king's pity; now, the round fan has become the epitome of my abandonment, how can I not feel sad?
But her poetry is different from other palace resentment poems. It is sad but not sad, and always maintains a sobriety and independence. This is why she will be remembered by future generations. It was her wisdom that earned her a place in literary history, not her status as a good concubine.
Later generations of literati often used the "autumn fan" as a metaphor for a woman being abandoned. Nalan Xingde 's famous saying " If life is just like the first meeting, what's the matter with the autumn wind and the sad painting fan " comes from this, and it is perfect to apply to Ban Jieyu.
Later, Emperor Cheng of the Han Dynasty died of bone erosion due to long-term drinking and sex. Ban Jieyu also asked the Queen Mother to volunteer to guard the tomb in the imperial mausoleum and spend the rest of her life like this. A year later, he also left with Emperor Cheng of the Han Dynasty. After all, there is no escape from the word "love".
Maybe some people feel sorry for Ban Jieyu: if she had not refused to go with him, she might still be his favorite. Is
possible? Very little! Since ancient times, emperors have been ruthless.
In fact, no matter how the times change, two people with different views may not be able to stay together for a long time even if they have a vigorous start. Because the good memories from the past are ultimately not worth the suffering in the years to come.
html It was a wise choice for the talented woman in class 1 to withdraw in time and stop her losses immediately. It is for this reason that this female writer who is famous for her poetry has appeared in history.
also hopes that the poet Yu Xiuhua can get out of this scarred emotion in time. Bless her!
(pictures from the Internet, will be deleted if there is any infringement)
About the author: The mother of two children loves to write and draw, and does not want to let the trivialities of life bury the thoughts in her heart. I hope to get connected through words, and look forward to meeting you who resonates with me!
Although people often say that "clothes are not as new as new, people are not as old as before", but when the novelty fades away, even the most attractive beauty will sometimes become tired. Perhaps, the unhappiness about the chariot has always made Emperor Cheng of the Han Dynasty feel like he was in trouble.
Furthermore, for Emperor Cheng of the Han Dynasty, who always sought fresh excitement, his former "soul mate" Ban Jieyu was far less desirable than the vulgar and charming Er Zhao.
In this way, the virtuous Ban Jieyu was defeated by the vulgar Yingying Yanyan. In this way, although they are not allowed to be favored exclusively, if they can be protected by the emperor, they can live a peaceful life.
However, the harem has always been a cruel and ruthless place. How could Er Zhao, who was domineering and disruptive to the palace, tolerate the existence of a concubine who shared some of the emperor's love?
Empress Xu, the head of the harem at that time, had been neglected by the emperor for a long time and was really dissatisfied with the behavior of the two Zhaos, so she set up a private altar and chanted sutras in the morning and evening to pray for the emperor and curse the two Zhaos for disaster.
Unexpectedly, someone leaked the news, and Er Zhao used this to "kill two birds with one stone."
first went to Emperor Cheng of the Han Dynasty to cry and complained, deliberately adding fuel to the fire, saying that Queen Xu not only cursed their sisters but also harmed the emperor. In anger, Emperor Cheng of the Han Dynasty immediately deposed the queen and threw her into the cold palace. Then, he fabricated that Ban Jieyu was also involved in Queen Xu's "witchcraft" case, and wanted the emperor to seduce her as well.
Emperor Cheng of the Han Dynasty, who was partial to belief, actually came to investigate.
Ban Jieyu, who had a clear conscience, looked up at the man in front of her who had once held her dear to her heart, and had to admit that her youth had been wrongly spent after all.
"People say that life and death are determined by destiny, and wealth is in heaven. It cannot be achieved by human power. I often do good deeds but do not get any blessings, let alone do bad deeds. What hope do I have? If ghosts and gods have knowledge, how can they listen to it? These prayers? If they are ignorant, what's the use of my curse? So, I don't even bother to do this."
Ban Jieyu's remarks made the emperor realize that he had wrongly blamed this intelligent and transcendent woman. The sweetness of me and me suddenly appeared in front of my eyes, and I suddenly felt guilty.
In the end, Ban Jieyu was not punished, but was given generous rewards. Er Zhao was very dissatisfied that his plot did not succeed, but he could only give up for the time being.
From the favor in the harem to the elusive divine grace, from love at first sight to the transference of love, Ban Jieyu has experienced these ups and downs one by one, and she has become more aware that the emperor can no longer achieve greater things, and the relationship between their husband and wife The tenderness and tenderness are long gone.
Instead of entangled with dead people here and always being falsely accused and criticized, it is better to stay away from the turmoil and get both protection and peace.
So please resign from Changxin Palace to serve the Queen Mother. From then on, I drank tea under the ancient lamp and wrote poems with my pen.
If life were just like the first time we met, what would happen if the autumn wind sad painted a fan
When people talk about this palace past, they always praise Ban Jieyu’s virtues, saying that she has a clear life and can live a free and independent life after falling out of favor. She is the best woman in the world. Role model.
Ban Jieyu was praised for her virtuous words every time. It seemed that she was not worthy of the reputation of a virtuous concubine even if she complained even a few words.
Let me ask you, how many abandoned women in the world can be so generous that they don’t complain?
If Ban Jieyu had no resentment in her heart, how could she write "Song of the Round Fan", one of the ten most sad and sad "poems of palace resentment" in ancient times? (Also known as "The Song of Resentment")
Newly made Qi Wan Su, as bright as frost and snow [1].
is cut into acacia fan , which looks like a bright moon.
Go in and out of your arms, wavering in the breeze.
I am often afraid that the autumn festival is coming and the coolness will overtake the heat.
Throw away the donation box and find the way to the end of kindness.
This eternal song compares itself to the round fan that is "favoured in the summer and abandoned in the autumn". It was "bright as snow" at first, but now it is "abandoned and donated". On the surface, it says that the autumn fan is idle, but in fact, it describes that from being favored to being abandoned in the deep palace. of sorrow.
I think about the time when a round fan half-covered my face, which aroused the king's pity; now, the round fan has become the epitome of my abandonment, how can I not feel sad?
But her poetry is different from other palace resentment poems. It is sad but not sad, and always maintains a sobriety and independence. This is why she will be remembered by future generations. It was her wisdom that earned her a place in literary history, not her status as a good concubine.
Later generations of literati often used the "autumn fan" as a metaphor for a woman being abandoned. Nalan Xingde 's famous saying " If life is just like the first meeting, what's the matter with the autumn wind and the sad painting fan " comes from this, and it is perfect to apply to Ban Jieyu.
Later, Emperor Cheng of the Han Dynasty died of bone erosion due to long-term drinking and sex. Ban Jieyu also asked the Queen Mother to volunteer to guard the tomb in the imperial mausoleum and spend the rest of her life like this. A year later, he also left with Emperor Cheng of the Han Dynasty. After all, there is no escape from the word "love".
Maybe some people feel sorry for Ban Jieyu: if she had not refused to go with him, she might still be his favorite. Is
possible? Very little! Since ancient times, emperors have been ruthless.
In fact, no matter how the times change, two people with different views may not be able to stay together for a long time even if they have a vigorous start. Because the good memories from the past are ultimately not worth the suffering in the years to come.
html It was a wise choice for the talented woman in class 1 to withdraw in time and stop her losses immediately. It is for this reason that this female writer who is famous for her poetry has appeared in history.
also hopes that the poet Yu Xiuhua can get out of this scarred emotion in time. Bless her!
(pictures from the Internet, will be deleted if there is any infringement)
About the author: The mother of two children loves to write and draw, and does not want to let the trivialities of life bury the thoughts in her heart. I hope to get connected through words, and look forward to meeting you who resonates with me!
