Do you think a marriage with strong women and weak men will be happy? Song Dynasty A bohemian, free-loving lyricist Li Qingzhao , and her husband Zhao Mingcheng , is such a pair.
Many people are not optimistic about this kind of marriage, but the life of the two of them is like glue.
Li Qingzhao excelled in a prestigious family since childhood, but was not bound by feudal ethics. His father Li Gefei , and his education to Li Qingzhao was basically stocking and encouragement.
So this beautiful and sassy little girl is already famous in the capital at the age of thirteen or fourteen. She not only writes good words, but also drinks good wine.
One day she went out drinking again. After drinking, he forgot his way home. She rowed a little boat around the lake, frightening the wild ducks and waterfowls flying everywhere.
Li Qingzhao took this as a shame when he got home,Filled in the lyrics and published " as a dream " Changji Xiting sunset:
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strayed into the depths of the lotus flower.
Fight, fight,
Start a sea of gulls and herons.
Beijing's famous young Zhao Mingcheng is her loyal fan. Once visited a temple fair , Zhao Mingcheng took aim at Li Qingzhao from a distance. Even after walking around behind her for a day, her eyes never left.
When Zhao Mingcheng got home, he said to his father, "Father, I want to marry Li Qingzhao, Li Gefei's daughter.When his father heard this, he was so angry that he almost said:
Whoever's daughter you marry, father agrees, but Li Gefei's daughter does not agree. Don't you know that Dad and him are mortal enemies?
Zhao Mingcheng burst into tears when he heard it. And said:
Dad, I don't want to marry her.
Zhao's father said again:
My son, we can't do anything better. After we get married, people have to call you the wife of a wife! Li Qingzhao's husband!
Zhao Mingcheng couldn't hear it, he continued to cry. But Zhao's father promised his son to go to Li's house for matchmaking.
The next morning, Dad Zhao hadn't figured out who to be a matchmaker to help. Zhao Mingcheng had already run to Lao Li's house to knock on the door ahead of him.
Li Qingzhao is swinging,There was a silver bell-like laughter from the yard, and suddenly a handsome young man broke in, scaring Li Qingzhao into hiding.
When I ran to the door of the house, I looked back and secretly looked, wow, whose son is this, handsome and talented. It would be great if it was my future husband.
Zhao Mingcheng's and Li Qingzhao's eyes met at once, and sparks erupted immediately. Just in time, Dad Li, Li Gefei, came out of the house. Seeing this scene, before Father Li woke up, Zhao Mingcheng knelt in front of Father Li and kowtowed three times:
Dad, if I want to marry your daughter, it's okay to just plug in the door!
Li Gefei looked back at his daughter, who was nodding shyly.
Father Lee said:
Get up, my dear, Dad agrees.
And at this moment, Li Qingzhao went back to his room and wrote down the ancient term "Dianping the Red Lips" : strong
is thick and thin,
is thin and sweaty.
and shy away,
leaning on the door to look back,
but sniffing green plums.
At this time, Zhao's father, Zhao Tingzhi, also
came with a matchmaker.
That's it 18 With 21 , a beautiful young man, tied the knot.
Li Qingzhao was born in Zhangqiu, Jinan, Shandong. Zhao Mingcheng only knew that the place was rich in iron pots and green onions. It turns out that such a down-to-earth place can actually bring up such a woman of the best in the world.
After marriage, Zhao Mingcheng only returned home once a month or two because he was going to be an official in another place. Always separate.
年 Double Ninth Festival Li Qingzhao thinks of her husband Zhao Mingcheng. Thinking of you when you are walking, and thinking of you when you are sitting. I wrote a song "Drunken Flowers Yin" and sent it to my husband:
After the evening of the Dongli wine,
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People are thinner than yellow flowers.
My wife's writing is so good, I can't lose face.
So, Zhao Mingcheng closed the door to thank the guests, held back for three days, and put out 50 , and even sent the drunken flower to a friend and said: _p11
You show me these words, which one is the best.
After reading it, my friend brought out the song "Drunken Flower Yin" and said: This poem is written wonderfully, wonderfully, wonderfully, especially the last sentence: , a person is thinner than a yellow flower."
Can this song be given to me as a collection? Others are meaningless.
Zhao Mingcheng doesn't write anymore.Since then, I have loved my wife even more.
The happiness of being married to love cannot be hidden. Li Qingzhao fills in lyrics and writes poems every day to show happiness.
When it comes to things between husband and wife, you say that you are arguing everywhere, and breastfeeding women know about it. It's really shameless. And, so arrogant.
Write a word review and comment on the literary greats Yan Shu , Ouyang Xiu , Wang Anshi , Su Shi . That means no one can catch up with her Li Qingzhao.
Li Qingzhao said lightly: Worrying about people getting old quickly! Even his father-in-law dared to fight.
Father-in-law holds a grudge.
His father Li Gefei and father-in-law Zhao Tingzhi,Just a pair of political enemies. When Li Qingzhao got married, she could not serve her in-laws, do laundry, cook, or have children. Even if she didn't serve official duties, her relationship with her husband's family was a bit tense.
1102 years, Northern Song Dynasty Cai Jing was the prime minister, setting off the famous Yuanyou Party dispute in history. Sima Guang , Su Shi, Li Qingzhao's father Li Gefei, etc. 120 Many people have been implicated.
Zhao Mingcheng's father, Zhao Tingzhi, is a capable general under Cai Jing.
Li Qingzhao heard that something happened to his father, so he naturally asked his father-in-law to help him. She begged: Father, please put my father a size in the child's face.
After begging several times, Zhao Tingzhi was indifferent, and finally Li Qingzhao couldn't kneel in front of her father-in-law: Father, please let me go.
Zhao Tingzhi replied,Worrying people get old quickly and leave.
Li Qingzhao wrote the poem "hot and cold". Your official position is hot, but your heart is really cold.
There is no suspense, Li Gefei was dismissed, as the daughter of a criminal, Li Qingzhao must leave the capital. And was forced to separate from her husband.
Zhao Mingcheng comforts Li Qingzhao: Wife, I firmly believe that my father-in-law's proposition is right, my father is unkind, but my heart is with you, you can go back to avoid the limelight, wait The situation is stable, I will pick you up again.
In this life, who can guarantee eternal peace, but this life is enough to get such a confidant.
Li Qingzhao bid farewell to her husband in tears. Since their marriage, the two have been in a long-distance relationship, and they have been in a long-distance relationship. to be able to reunite.
After this incident, the father-in-law Zhao Tingzhi became a prime minister.
Zhao Tingzhi's prime minister's position was dismissed before he could sit on the heat. And he was arrogant and useless, and it didn't take long for him to drive westward. Zhao Mingcheng's official was also raped.
Zhao Mingcheng thought to himself: This is just right, I can go back to the countryside with my wife to live a small life together.
Zhao Mingcheng brought Li Qingzhao back to Qingzhou , the two of them built a homecoming hall. Lovers can finally breathe freely without outside interference.
Li Qingzhao, who has a very bright and sunny day, is panicking and short of breath every day.
She invented a game called "book gambling". There is nothing else in the house except books, and several large cabinets are full.
Li Qingzhao said to her husband: I say the last sentence, you have to say the next sentence, and you have to say which cabinet, which volume, which page, which line. If you're right, you can drink tea. If you're wrong, I'm sorry. Not only do you have no tea, you have to be responsible for all the housework.
Zhao Mingcheng thought: I can't keep up with you in writing lyrics,In terms of memory, I'm no worse than you. Come on, start! As a result, nothing was said.
This is the origin of the phrase "gamble books disappear and tea is fragrant".
they lived in Qingzhou total of 13 years, 13 years is one of the happiest of their lives 13 Years, although the life is hard, but there is a good person to accompany, I feel very happy.
life is 30 year Hedong, 30 year Hexi, Li Qingqing Ushered in their turbulent life.
Life in the second half,And listen to the next decomposition.
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