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How celebrities accompany their children often receives great attention from the society, especially those celebrities after divorce.
Jia Nailiang and Li Xiaolu have a lovely daughter Tianxin. After they separated, how they raised their daughters together has always attracted attention, and many people are full of curiosity.
Recently, some media photographed Jia Nailiang appearing in the community where Li Xiaolu lives to visit Tianxin.
On the same day, Jia Nailiang played with his daughter very happily. When the father and daughter were playing badminton, Li Xiaolu was waiting.
After Jia Nailiang and Li Xiaolu divorced, Tianxin lives with her mother Li Xiaolu. Long time ago, will the daughter be strange to her father?
But when Jia Nailiang picks up her daughter, the picture is still so warm and touching.
It seems that everyone’s worries are superfluous. Tianxin is not affected by the divorce of her parents at all. Her life is still the same.
It is really not easy to do this.
Moreover, Jia Nailiang and Li Xiaolu have been communicating face-to-face for a long time, in a relaxed and natural state.
Although it was very unpleasant before, but for the sake of the children, letting everything turn over is the best and the best result.
This time Li Xiaolu was not scolded by netizens, but instead won high praise.
This is also a rare picture of Jia Nailiang and Li Xiaolu in the same frame after their divorce.
The comments are full of applause, which should be the case after the divorce.
The couple can choose again, but the child has no choice. No matter what, you will always be the child's father and child's mother.
The children grow up in a blink of an eye. Is there any reason not to leave them a good thing?
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The divorce of parents is a blow to the child, but if it is handled well, the child can continue to be happy and happy.
Before Children's Day, a photo of Tianxin "Leading the Singing Fireflies" was on fire.
The sweetheart on the photo looks generous and very flattering.
Although Jia Nailiang and Li Xiaolu are divorced, they have always accompanied Tianxin and planned her education early.
Therefore, Tianxin's singing, piano, painting and other talents have all fallen.
Therefore, Tianxin still makes many children envy as always.
But some children are really distressing.
I saw a video, the couple went through the divorce formalities, and they scrambled for the young child at the gate of the court as soon as they walked out of the court, and then they fought...
What happened to the couple in the end? I know, but what is certain is that the child must be frightened.
A reader said to me: In marriage, as long as you can endure it, you can endure it, a woman will never get divorced.
This reader could not bear her husband's long-term alcoholism and domestic violence before divorcing.
At first the husband did not agree to the divorce, and later said: divorce is fine, but he will not care about the children.
Because the life is really impossible, this reader accepted all the conditions.
After the divorce, this reader took the child to live in a rented house. The father of the child has visited the child in the future and has never called the child...
The child is older and wants to meet Dad, there is no way. The reader called his ex-husband, but his phone could no longer be reached. She couldn't hold the child and took the child to find it, but the news was that the child's father had sold the house, and no one knew where he was going.
is even more chilling. Some parents don’t care about their children when they are divorced. They treat the children as a drag and wrestle with each other. The children are kicked and kicked by their parents like a ball.
There was an incident like this when a private kindergarten accepted a child. In the first few months, the father of the child would pick up the child, but then no one came to pick up the child.
The principal had no choice but to take the child back to his home, and no one answered the phone call to the child’s home.
In the end, the principal was angry and called the police.
The police found the father of the child. The child’s home is not poor. There is a house and a car at home, but the child’s parents are divorced and the mother is missing. The child’s father is busy with a new relationship.
When the police reprimanded the child's father, the child's father was still confident: "Her mother doesn't care, why should I care?"
Some people are born unworthy of being a parent.
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If you don’t get married and have children, you don’t know if you marry a man or a dog.
And divorce, you can see humanity and character.
Some people use their children as weapons and tools to put pressure on and torture each other.
There is a mother in Hunan. When she was preparing to celebrate her child’s birthday, the child was “missing”—at the time, she and her husband were divorcing, and the husband’s family moved with the child and cut off. All contact details.
I searched for familiar places one by one. The police station and the court also visited many times, but this mother found nothing. She didn't know until she joined a WeChat group called "Purple Ribbon Mother's Love" that there are many other mothers who are experiencing children being hidden by their relatives like her. There are more than 200 in this group—some of them have got children. The child is forcibly taken away by her husband’s custody rights; some visitation rights are not satisfied, and others dare not end their unhappy marriage because they are afraid that they will never see their children again...
Just like the group owner Say: "For us, children are like being'abducted', but it is our former relatives who take them away."
Can we cut off the family relationship and monopolize the love of the children without letting the children meet? Too naive!
In the Korean drama "The World of Couples", Dr. Ji Sun-woo divorced because of his ex-husband Li Tae-wu's cheating. She didn't want her child to talk to her father, but the child said: It was mother that father betrayed, not me.
Although the TV series is a bit exaggerated, it also tells us that there is a mistake between husband and wife. It is a matter between husband and wife. Don't impose on the children, otherwise it will be self-defeating and even lead to tragedy.
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The marriage of Jia Jingwen and Sun Zhihao failed, and the two struggled to the death and the financial division of their children.
Sun Zhihao "evaporated" 4 months after taking away Wutong sister. In order to win the custody of her daughter Wutongmei, who was only 4 years old at the time, Jia Jingwen was anxious and forced to hold a press conference when she couldn't see her children no matter how she contacted her grandchildren, and asked for help from public opinion in tears.
Since then, driven by the media, after several rounds of negotiations between the two parties, the two who have been married for less than 5 years formally signed a divorce in 2010; the custody of the daughter Wutongmei was jointly guarded by both parties after a court decision;
later Jia Jingwen and Sun Zhihao partly reconciled, and both parties are willing to maintain the number of days to visit their daughter at 2:1 each month.
Later, the two signed a legally valid settlement in front of the judge: the daughter stayed with her mother Jia Jingwen to study before junior high school, but asked Jia Jingwen to focus on her daughter. His father Sun Zhihao also ensured that Visitation rights for daughters.
In 2014, Jia Jingwen fell in love with Xiu Jiekai, who was 9 years younger than her, and married the following year. She gave birth to two daughters, Bong and Bo Niu. The eldest daughter, Wutongmei, lives with them, and the family lives in peace. happy.
After Sun Zhihao and Jia Jingwen divorced, they also married model Lin Ruoya in 2016.
On June 12, 2019, Jia Jingwen, Xiu Jiekai, Sun Zhihao and Lin Ruoya participated in the graduation ceremony of their eldest daughter Wutongmei. Jia Jingwen and her ex-husband Sun Zhihao and daughterEr Wutong sister took a group photo with the frame, arousing outside discussion.
If the couple are divorced, if they have no children, they may not meet each other again in this life. If you have children, it is really difficult not to meet, because we will always be relatives of the children and no one can change this.
Instead of doing this, why not treat each other well?
Being kind may not be forgiving the other person, but at least it is letting yourself go. Since it's over, torturing each other, why is it torturing yourself?
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