Why does 58-year-old Li Jiajie want to give birth to a child without getting married? The answer is not as simple as "following"

In October 2015, actress Xu Ziqi gave birth to Li Jiacheng's fourth child.

Since then, she has collected 2 "good" characters (2 males and 2 females) for the Li family. She has achieved remarkable results and is very popular with her father-in-law Lee Shau-ki.

However, unlike the "fruits" of Li Jiacheng and his wife, Li Jiacheng's brother Li Jiajie, who is 58 years old this year, is still unmarried...

In 2010, he chose to "borrow a baby" abroad. , Gave birth to 3 boys and became " unmarried dad ".

Hong Kong media used "custom triplets" to describe the matter at the time. Even the birth moments of these three children were "auspicious times" after careful calculation.

After the incident was exposed, although Li Jiajie was not "forced to quit the entertainment industry" like Zheng Shuang, he was also criticized.

What is the reason that Li Jiajie has always been "unmarried" and has to use high-tech means to continue his genes?

The reason behind this is not as simple as "following the fate".

▲After giving birth to Li Junxi, the eldest son of Li Jiacheng, Xu Ziqi and her mother-in-law came to Tibet three times a day to pray for the children.

Reason one: I was frustrated in love and became enamored with career.

Compared to Li Jiajie, who is now "clean-hearted and less lustful",He once loved ardently.

Li Jiajie’s first girlfriend was his classmate when he was in school, and both of them were each other’s first love.

Although the woman does not come from a rich family, the two have similar interests and the woman treats him very well.

But when Li Jiajie told his father Li Zhaoji the good news "I have a girlfriend", his father did not comment.

▲Li Zhaoji and Li Jiajie Li Jiacheng.

It turns out that Lee Shau-ki believes in feng shui. He quietly found a girl's eight characters, and asked the master to calculate it.

Li Zhaoji is relatively accommodating to the children's marriage partner. He did not ask his two sons to enter into a commercial marriage, but there is one thing that must be qualified-the woman must be "Wanfu".

Lee Shau-ki thinks that Xu Ziqi is Wangfu's physique, with the appearance of great wealth and nobleness. So he was very satisfied with this daughter-in-law, praised her many times and encouraged her to have more children.

However, it is a pity: through the calculation of the master, Lee Shau-ki found that the horoscopes of Li Jiajie and first love do not match. In the future, the son is likely to be firmly suppressed, which is not conducive to the family business.

So, Li Zhaoji found the girls' parents and gave them a lot of money to send their daughters abroad to study and stay away from their sons.

▲ Lee Shau Kee and his two sons.

In this way, Li Jiajie was "broken up".

Although the breakup was "on the initiative" proposed by his girlfriend, it still hurt him.

First love was supposed to be very beautiful, but the first love girlfriend who made a lifetime promise with him, betrayed him because of "money."

Reason 2: The conditions for choosing a spouse are getting stricter.

First love failed, leaving an indelible pain in Li Jiajie's heart.

Since then, whenever love comes to "knock on the door", he will think "Is the other party coveting my money", "If I don't have money, will she love me", he is more and more cautious about love .

▲ Lee Shau-ki played with his grandchildren.

Li Jiajie’s friends once revealed Li Jiajie’s mate requirements:

To be loving and destined, it is best to give me a BB.

The seemingly simple requirements are actually not simple. Li Jiajie’s friend explained:

He (Li Jiajie) chooses a beautiful spouse, even if he has knowledge, and he must be able to enter the big scene in his manners and conversations. Even if you don't believe in Buddhism like him, you must have roots of wisdom and love. His request was almost perfect, so he introduced the girl to him and broke up after a few months of shooting. The outside world thinks that he is pure-hearted and low-spirited, but in fact, he just loves carefully.

Under such "high standards and strict requirements", Li Jiajie's later girlfriends almost never survived for a few months...

such as Li Meifeng.

In 1987, Hong Kong sister runner-up Li Meifeng was the only girlfriend ever recognized by Li Jiajie. The beautiful Hong Kong sister also failed to impress Li Jiajie, and the relationship between the two only lasted 3 months.

Li Meifeng was born in 1963 and her ancestral home is Qingdao, Shandong, but she is a native of Hong Kong.

Li Meifeng met Li Jiajie before she participated in the Hong Kong sister beauty pageant. The two people of the same age came together through friends. In fact, the two match well, and Li Meifeng's horoscopes are also pretty good.

but only after 3 months,The two separated because of disagreements.

After leaving Li Jiajie, Li Meifeng participated in the Hong Kong sister beauty pageant in 1987 and won the runner-up.

▲List of previous Hong Kong sister champions and runners-up, you can see that Li Meifeng was the runner-up in 1987.

Digression: Around 1987, the Hong Kong sister's heyday, the winners of the previous and subsequent sessions were all well-known beauties. For example, the champion in 1988 was Li Jiaxin. The competition that Li Meifeng participated in was also very fierce. At that time, Yang Baoling won the championship, and Yau Shuzhen was retired because of plastic surgery. Otherwise, it would be hard to say "who is the winner" .

▲Li Jiaxin, known as the "most beautiful Hong Kong sister", was "born" at the peak of Hong Kong sister beauty pageant.

will continue.

After Li Meifeng won the runner-up of Hong Kong Sister in 1987, various performance contracts came one after another, and she soon gained a certain reputation.

Because of Li Meifeng's "Wang Fu physique", she has become a sweet pastry chased by the rich.

In 1990, she married Lin Mincong, a famous Hong Kong lyricist, and divorced in 1995.

In 1996, the newly divorced Li Meifeng married the prince Zheng Xiang of the National Tea Industry Group of Taiwan. In 1998, gave birth to the baby of dragon and phoenix.

Li Meifeng has been performing well since she was married to a wealthy family. She is very low-key and concentrates on family husband and wife teaching children. She is an ideal candidate for wealthy daughter-in-law.

But Li Jiajie still missed her.

▲Many years later, Li Meifeng was asked by the media how he thought of Li Jiajie's "borrowing a baby".

Li Jiajie’s mainland assistant saw that his boss had been empty for many years, and in 2007 he introduced a girlfriend to him. As a result, he suffered a serious car accident in 2004,Asian sister Zhang Peijin, who had suffered a whole body fracture, was introduced to Li Jiajie.

▲Zhang Peijin.

Zhang Peijin, also known as Zhang Kaitong , in 1997, under the name of "Miss Malaysia and Asia Pacific Champion", went to Hong Kong to participate in the " Miss Asia ", and finally lost the 4th place Asian sister , Zhang Peijin was called "the right and wrong" when he was running for "Sister Ya". He had affair with many Asian sisters contestants and had an affair with Yang Caini's boyfriend Qiu Shaozhi.

I don’t know why the assistant would think that the two match , maybe it’s good. But Zhang Peijin's education was not high. After being with Li Jiajie, the two could not find a common topic. So only a few months later, the relationship fell through.

Since then, Li Jiajie has become more and more demanding of the other half.

Don’t want to have a BB, don’t want to have a BB, don’t be pretty, don’t have a poor knowledge, and even ask the other person to believe in Buddhism just like himself, and talk about Buddhism together...

Is there such a "perfect" woman?

▲When participating in activities, Zhuge Ziqi always holds a feather fan.

Really let Li Jiajie find the tender model Zhuge Ziqi (Marie).

In 2009, Li Jiajie was photographed in a private meeting with the tender model Zhuge Ziqi.

Zhuge Ziqi is the 63rd generation descendant of Zhuge Liang. He always likes to take a feather fan when participating in activities and play Zhuge Liang.

This Zhuge girl, she is not only a good person with high knowledge, but also believes in Buddhism...

The knowledgeable girl will learn about Buddhism with Li Jiajie for a while,After a while, we will play the cube game again.

When Miss Zhuge talked about Li Jiajie, she was extremely satisfied. She said:

Peter (Li Jiajie) is a friend I respect very well. She is a good individual, understands a lot of Buddhism, has a good culture, and reads a lot of books. People.

But it seems that Li Jiajie only wants to learn from Buddhism, and is not interested in Zhuge girl's block game. This scandal later ceased.

Li Jiajie was also full of expectations for love, but after the failure of his first love, he felt "imperfect" to everyone. Or this is "except you, all will be".

Since then, his mate selection standards have become more and more stringent. Under his "high standards and strict requirements", he has never met a suitable girl. Apart from disappointment, he can only focus on his career.

In addition, Li Jiajie is also a devout Buddhist, and there are also Buddha statues in his home. After a long period of time, his feelings about the relationship between men and women became weak. Believe that if you have the right one, you will be together, and if you don't have the right one, don't force it.

Reason 3: The divorce of his parents made Li Jiajie lose confidence in the marriage.

In 1985, when Li Zhaoji divorced his original spouse Liu Huijuan, Li Jiajie was only 26 years old, still at the age of establishing a "marriage concept", but suddenly suffered a divorce from his very affectionate parents, which collapsed his view of marriage.

▲ Liu Huijuan (in red) appeared when Li Jiacheng married Xu Ziqi.

When Li Zhaoji met Liu Huijuan, the mother of the Li Jiajie and Li Jiacheng brothers, his career had just started.

And Liu Huijuan was the champion of Hong Kong sister in the 1950s.

▲ Liu Huijuan was once the champion of "Sister Hong Kong".

At that time, there were many people pursuing Liu Huijuan. Among them, there were many men who were richer than Li Zhaoji, but she chose Li Zhaoji, a potential stock who just started her career, so Li Zhaoji has always cherished this feeling since then.

Digression: At that time, "Sister Gang" was only held in nightclubs, and the number and time of the event were variable. Today's "Sister Hong Kong" is held by TVB at a fixed time and has perfect selection rules. Although Liu Huijuan is a "Hong Kong sister", it is still the result of a small-scale "canonization" in general, and its development momentum is far worse than it is now.

In 1959, Li Zhaoji married Liu Huijuan. The two opened a hundred tables in the Majestic Hotel in Central, Hong Kong.

After getting married, Liu Huijuan retreated behind the scenes and successively gave birth to 3 daughters and 2 sons for Li Zhaoji, the eldest daughter Li Peiwen, the second daughter Li Peiling, the third daughter Li Peiyi, as well as the elder son Li Jiajie and the season son Li Jiacheng.

As the children grow up, Liu Huijuan, who feels that there is nothing to do at home, wants to come to the company to help. So Li Zhaoji arranged for his wife a senior management position in the company.

Unexpectedly, this decision caused a lot of trouble for Lee Shau Kee.

Because she has been a full-time mother for many years, Liu Huijuan can always take the lead in the family and "direct" her children at home to learn this and that.

After participating in the operation of the company, she also brought this style to work, wanting to direct her husband and her subordinates.

But Liu Huijuan forgot that she originally married Li Zhaoji by virtue of "beauty" instead of "business talent". Colleagues in the company got along with her, and they all felt that she was strong and competent, and they fought for power spontaneously, , likes to command blindly.

▲Liu Huijuan lives alone in Canada, and Li Zhaojitian is on each side.

This behavior caused the couple to quarrel often, and finally got divorced. Although Li Zhaoji tried his best to save it, Liu Huijuan had decided to leave, and no one could persuade him to come back.

In 1985, Li Zhaoji and Liu Huijuan divorced. Since then, the two have each side each other, and they are single to this day.

▲Xu Ziqi takes care of her mother-in-law Liu Huijuan personally, and is a very good person.

His parents divorced, so that Li Jiajie’s vision of love was shattered. He believes that no matter how good the relationship is, it will go from "stranger" to "stranger" in the end.

In the end, Li Jiajie classified "marriage" and "lovers" into the category of "dispensable", and even some fear of marriage.

reluctantly chose "to give birth to children".

Since "lover" is dispensable, why did you choose to give birth to three boys later?

is actually easy to understand.

As we age, the disadvantage of childlessness becomes apparent.

▲ Lee Shau-ki said frankly that he has a traditional concept and that the industry should be allocated more to his son.

In terms of ability, Li Jiajie is better than Li Jiacheng, but due to the lack of children, Li Zhaoji did not dare to hand over the business to him rashly.

Imagine that if Li Jiajie retires and he has no children, he will inevitably lead to a "succession war", and a large enterprise cannot withstand this kind of toss. Based on this concern,Li Zhaoji decided to give priority to the family property to Li Jiacheng, who already has children and has a wife of "Wang Fu".

▲Xu Ziqi is actively giving birth to children.


▲At that time, Xu Ziqi said that he would give birth to 5 children as much as possible. Put a lot of pressure on Li Jiajie.

On the other side, Xu Ziqi, who had already given birth to two daughters for Li Jiacheng at the time, was still working hard, planning to give birth to five children.

When Li Zhaoji successively delegated his power to Li Jiacheng, Li Jiajie was finally anxious.

On October 26, 2010, Li Jiajie announced in a high-profile manner that he had fulfilled his father's wish-that he had given birth to three boys, and also gave birth to three at once.

▲Hong Kong media reported the incident with the title "Li Jiajie Customizes the Three-Patriot Man".

The timing of the arrival of these three boys is very important, let’s review it.

On July 17, 2007, Xu Ziqi gave birth to a girl.

On May 16, 2009, Xu Ziqi gave birth to another girl.

Lee Shau Kee, who was 81 years old (2009) at the time, still failed to hold his eldest grandson, and expressed disappointment in front of the media many times.

▲Li Zhaoji hopes that his grandchildren are interested.

So,Li Jiajie went to the United States in a low-key manner to find the best surrogacy company. In July 2010, he gave birth to 3 sons and became "unmarried fathers"...

I got a triple surprise at once, and Li Zhaoji was so happy. Regardless of his 82-year-old age, he personally flew to the United States to visit his three grandchildren.

With a happy smile, he also sent a red envelope of 10,000 Hong Kong dollars to a direct employee of Henderson Land Development, and donated 20 million Hong Kong dollars to the hospital. A total of 33 million Hong Kong dollars were distributed, which means "everlasting life".

▲I got 3 grandchildren all at once, and Lee Shau-ki smiled from ear to ear.

The old man believes in feng shui. It is said that the birth time of this triplet is set, accurate to the minute and second, which is particularly compatible with Li Zhaoji. Therefore, the Hong Kong media used "customized triplets" as the title, which can be regarded as a title...

Although Li Jiajie's behavior aroused public discussion, it completely won the favor of the old man.

After becoming the "father of the eldest grandson", Li Jiajie's status has indeed improved a lot. Lee Shau Kee reconsidered the succession plan, letting the eldest son Li Jiajie be responsible for the mainland business and the second son Li Jiacheng responsible for the Hong Kong business, and jointly succeeded.

Since then, Lee Shau Kee's business map has basically settled.

▲Through "borrowing to give birth to children", Li Jiajie overtook his younger brother Li Jiacheng.

I am as rich as Li Jiajie. I have spent my whole life, but it seems that I have not been able to find my love. I am so helpless that I need to use special means to continue my genes.

From then on, even though tens of thousands of people are by his side, he is still alone and alone. Not everyone wants to enter such a "rich family".

▲Li Jiajie used high technology to give birth to children, which caused quite a topic.

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