Hello everyone, I am Crackling, a melon-eating girl running on the front line of the melon field.
Many of my friends’ childhood gods He Junxiang overturned because of an interview yesterday.
In the interview, he mentioned that he wanted to ask some secret recipes to make sure that the third child was born again.
When the reporter asked if this is okay, he nodded very naturally and said -
"Yes, because it is not seven or eight weeks to confirm the gender, it is confirmed that the son is reborn, if It’s a daughter who might not want to be born again."
Although, after this interview came to light, He Junxiang soon issued an apology statement-
strong21 and strong The wife really hopes that her children have boys and girls, and the two daughters also want to have a younger brother. If it is a boy, of course it is best, but men and women are definitely equal."
However, it is clear that this flirty apology will not be able to stop the crowd. Netizens still criticized him mercilessly in the comment area.
Actually, if it weren’t for this matter,Many people may not know that He Junxiang has done a lot of outrageous things in the past.
For example, because he did not want a Virgo child, he chose to have his wife give birth to a second daughter ahead of time by caesarean section.
good guy, Wu Zun looked at the expert.
And when his wife was pregnant, He Junxiang couldn't hold back his stealing heart.
He was photographed by paparazzi in the middle of the night to go to KTV with a certain beauty. After the party ended, he took the opportunity to hold hands with the girl, and the two even hugged tightly in the end.
After the incident was exposed, He Junxiang also had an attitude of not admitting it, saying that we are just ordinary friends.
What this said, Yu Xiaoguang got up immediately after hearing this.
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In fact, He Junxiang was able to look at the camera so grandly, saying that he only needs a son. It is also because he has a son to pass on the idea of the family, he is not in Wanwan. few.
early this year, Kimi dad Lin Zhiying everyone should still be impressed.
At that time, he exposed a shovel that he started to work on the social platform, saying that the front of the shovel can give birth to boys and the back can give birth to girls.
Golden shovel is indeed a traditional custom in Wanwan. The meaning of shovel is actually very obvious, which is the homophony of "birth".
Actually, it's just an introduction to the customs. The key is that Lin Zhiying added: I have three boys' shovel. I gave it to two friends before and it really worked.
This can be said to have precisely stepped on the thunder of Chinese mainland netizens. Is it great to have three boys? Why don't you help me shovel a boyfriend out first.
Yi Nengjing appeared on the show two years ago, even though and Qin Hao's family said no, she still wanted to give Qin Hao a baby. Her idea was somewhat influenced by her father .
At that time, Yi Nengjing's mother gave birth to seven daughters in order to have a son for her patriarchal husband.
When her mother Wye could be quiet, her father said-
"If this baby is still a daughter,I'm going out to have a son.
In the end, Yi Nengjing was born. Her father found out that she was another daughter. He turned around and left, and finally had a son outside.
strong span7 span7 span9 The experience of Fu Juan is worse than that of Yi Nengjing's mother.
After Fu Juan got married, she got pregnant seven times and miscarried four times. After finally giving birth to two daughters, she got cervical cancer again. After healed, she became pregnant again, and she gave birth to a daughter.
In order to be able to recruit a younger brother, she even named her youngest daughter ouyangdi di_span_span_span _span_9span.
Unfortunately, there are probably too many people who use the word di to recruit her son, and it fails. In the end, their husband and wife could not wait for this son.
Even though she is now in her 50s, Daughter Ouyang Nana is also doing well in the entertainment industry, and Fu Juan is still very sorry for not being able to have a son.
Maybe many friends can’t imagine it, and wanting to have a son is for many bays. As far as the artist is concerned, it is indeed something that can be directly said on the stage.
"A good wife in Wanwan" Li Peizhen , I once talked about how glorious is the birth of a second son in Kangxi——
When you know that your second child is pregnant with a son When I walked out of the hospital, I brought wind.
The other female guests beside her immediately cast envy eyes at her and asked her if she could walk sideways.
Vicky, who "unfortunately" gave birth to three daughters, also complains that every time he hears pezhen fake model hypothesis that he wants to have three daughters, he feels very harsh .
Even , the funniest and most open-minded in the hearts of many old Kangxi audiences, Caihua sister , all walked back and expressed that she was very envious of her second child as a son. Zhen——
"Pei Zhen is very happy. The second child is a boy, and a boy and a girl are 100 points. Like my two daughters, how hopeful the second is a boy."
It can be seen how deeply the concept of attaching importance to boys has been planted in their hearts.
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If only because of the idea of having a son,Just try a few more times, but there are many people in this circle who are almost desperate for a child.
You should have heard more or less, Chen Haomin The news that Jiang Lisha and his wife gave birth to three girls, one boy and four children in five years.
After many caesarean sections, the damage to the mother's body was very serious, but even so, Jiang Lisha still said that her son Jingui wanted to have another one.
Sister, I really like gold and expensive things so much, it is better to buy more gold bars, the value-added space may be bigger than my son.
Qiongyao male protagonist Lin Ruiyang and his wife Zhang Ting also have a long way to have children.
Because Zhang Ting has been unable to conceive a child, she tried IVF. She did it nine times and got more than a thousand needles before finally conceiving the child.
When she was pregnant, she was so painful that she could only crawl and walk because of the wrong placenta.
Even though the first pregnancy had been so hard, Zhang Ting tried the test tube again and finally gave Lin Ruiyang a son.
The bitter queen who became popular with the song "Station" Zhang Xiuqing , after praising the kingdom 12 years younger than him,At the age of 43, he still embarked on a long way to seek a child for the wishes of his in-laws.
First she drank a bunch of remedies requested by her mother-in-law, such as frog soup and mouse soup.
After Zhang Xiuqing found out that these things were useless, she began to take traditional Chinese medicine to help her conception while taking the injections prescribed by Western medicine. Within two years, she received 288 needles, which cost 300,000 RMB. In the end it was unsuccessful.
When Zhang Xiuqing talked about this experience on the show, there were many mothers-in-law in the audience who proposed some secret recipes for "baoshengzi": duck tongue red and cat meat.
I just listened to these recipes and thought I was going to die. I didn't expect that there would be so many artists in Wanwan trying these recipes.
, an artist who has always been bold enough to talk about anything Lin Xiuqin once revealed on the show that their family tried a lot of home remedies in order to have children.
This one is also related to frogs, but it is a bit more yue than the frog soup from Zhang Xiuqing above. It is the kind that is served with rice wine.
However, Lin Xiuqin is still better than Zhang Xiuqing in one point. She let her husband Chen Zhiyuan swallow it. According to her, at that time her husband swallowed a tank of frogs, and the frogs popped out every time they hiccup.
This fantastic picture,Anyway, I can't imagine it.
Concluding remarks——
The birth of offspring should be a purely beautiful thing, but because of the various unreasonable expectations in society, It has gradually become a burden on many women.
Many women who are born without fertility often have to buy a child at the expense of their own health because of the expectation of their husbands in-laws.
The mother who gave birth to a daughter had to follow the so-called idea that men can only pass on the line and give birth to a son for her husband's family.
Joan girl Zhou Danwei In an interview, I once felt that I had paid too much to give birth to a son for his ex-husband Xiao Junlang.
In order to be able to get pregnant, she tried almost all the remedies and went to the hospital to break the egg needle after a short period of time. In six years, she did 14 IVF without success.
Later, because of physical damage, Zhou Danwei unfortunately also suffered from breast cancer. Fortunately, she found her life in time.
Now 63 years old, after experiencing so many winds and rains, she finally understands: It is up to you to decide whether to have a child or not, and you must not be forced by outside pressure.
It is undeniable that even in this era, the predicament women have to face is still an insurmountable mountain.
But because of this, as a woman, she should recognize that her value is more than just giving birth to offspring and put herself first in life.
Only those who first learn to love themselves can have the ability to love their next generation.
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