"Tiger Mom and Cat Dad" stills
Zhao Wei once starred in a very down-to-earth parent-child drama "Tiger Mom and Cat Dad". Once it was broadcast, it aroused the deep resonance of countless parents.
The "tiger mother" in the play steadily grabbed the hearts of the parents with a wave of vigor as soon as it came out. The "tiger mother spirit" has played a full role in educating his daughter, Tu Niu: when a child is not polite and bullies a child When he slapped his hands, he didn’t feel soft; the child was unwilling to brush his teeth and was warned “either stay in the toilet all night or clean the toothbrush by himself”; the child did not finish the day’s homework, so the tiger mother directly pulled the child up in his sleep Do homework.
Zhao Wei gives a very harsh feeling in "Tiger Mom Cat Dad", but in real life, Zhao Wei is actually a well-educated motherly mother.
In a variety show, Zhao Wei's godson is very impressive.
"Span21span Chinese Restaurant " arranged a few mothers to take their children to Thailand to play together. When the meal came, everyone finally found a Chinese restaurant to eat. The manager of this Chinese restaurant is Zhao Wei.
During the ordering session, a 4-year-old boy wanted to eat sweet and sour pork ribs. But no fresh ribs were prepared in the kitchen today, and there were so many customers in the store that day, there was no way to spare manpower to purchase ribs. If you want to eat spare ribs, you can only provide a prepared garlic roast spare ribs.
But the little boy refused to compromise and kept urging: "Why haven't the sweet and sour ribs I want made yet? I want to eat sweet and sour ribs!"
As the store manager, Zhao Wei came to Xiaoxiao to calm the boy's emotions. Next to the boy, he kindly teased the little boy, "You are so handsome! You are even more handsome than Chen Kun!"
The boy was praised and was a little happy. But after a while, he started to make noise again, knocking on the table for a while, kicking on the stool for a while to express his dissatisfaction. The boy's mother didn't mean to care about the child, but instead watched the child lose his temper.
later,Zhao Wei decided to cook it herself, using the existing garlic roasted pork ribs to make a sweet and sour pork ribs for the little guests. After making it, Zhao Wei personally brought the ribs up and said with a smile to the child: "Baby, see the sweet and sour garlic roasted ribs made by Auntie personally cook for you. Come and try it and see if it tastes good?"
As a result, the boy just tasted a bite, he unceremoniously threw the ribs into the bowl, pushed the bowl aside, pouting and complaining: "What kind of sweet and sour ribs are really unpalatable! I won't eat it, take it. Let's go!" After speaking, I was ready to go out and play without eating.
Zhao Wei quickly got up to chase the child, and stopped the child from running out to play alone. She chased and shouted: "Little handsome guy, it's raining outside, don't go out first, you will catch a cold if you get wet!"
And the boy's mother didn't say a word during the whole process, let alone correct the child's misbehavior.
After the dining incident, Zhao Wei gathered several mothers together to exchange their children's educational experiences.
One of the mothers said: "My child is a teenager, and I rarely take him out alone. This time I came out to play, but the child told me that he never wanted to play with me again."
Zhao Wei Question: "Why?"
The boy's mother continued: "Because the child looks down on me everywhere. Especially at home, the child's grandmother spoils the child too much, and the child thinks he is the eldest of the family."
Zhao Wei said: "This is the problem of adults. As a parent, you can't let your children feel aloof. Everything is child-centered. If you take your children too seriously, your children will not take you seriously in the future!"
The mothers immediately agreed with Zhao Wei's statement.
Education is like investment. Our child’s education is a long-term investment, which determines the double destiny of parents and children in the rest of their lives. As Zhao Wei said, in a family, a child cannot be called the eldest of the family. As a parent, you should not take your children too seriously, and only pay attention to releasing the children’s nature, and not paying attention to the guidance and education of the children. After a long time, the child has a privileged position in his consciousness, enjoys the highest treatment, and has no idea of respecting the elders and others.
If things go on like this, children will become selfish,More and more self-willed, it is not only the parents but the children themselves who ultimately suffer.
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