With the development of the times, many people's concepts have changed, , for example, fertility concept . In the past, people pursued the idea of having many children and grandchildren. Now people are pursuing a free life and don't want to be restrained by children. Therefore, after getting married, many young people are more inclined to be dink family and enjoy the two-person world, Li Jian is one of them.
Li Jian is a well-known singer-songwriter in today's entertainment circle, and many of his music has been liked by the audience. For the audience, Li Jian is a veteran cadre and a poet who sings shallowly. In addition to smooth sailing in his career, Li Jian's life is also very happy. Li Jian met from his wife when he was a child, and the two not only entered Tsinghua University, but also entered the wedding hall after graduation.
, but they have been married for many years, but the two have not had any children . Regarding the matter of not having children, during an interview, Li Jian said: itself is not an endangered species, so there is no need to continue genes.
After hearing Li Jian's answer, many netizens talked a lot about , and some even said that giving birth to a child is not just a continuation of genes, but more to make people complete.
Why do people choose DINK?
1. There is no reason to have a baby
As the times change, people's pursuit of life has also changed. People used to think that the three major things in life were getting a family, establishing a career, and having children. But people nowadays are different. There are still many things in life waiting to be done by themselves. Z1z is not only limited to having children.
2, economic conditions do not allow
For many young people, giving birth to children must be to give their children a good life and a good educational environment. But if your own conditions do not allow it, DINK is also a good choice. These people have a sense of responsibility and mission. For them, having children when they have certain financial conditions is also a way to be responsible for their children.
3. I don't know how to nurture
. In fact, nurturing children is a very big problem. Every step of a child's growth needs to be carefully watched. A slight deviation will cause a certain amount of harm to the child's heart. And many young people who choose DINK families are unwilling to have children because they are afraid of facing the problem of educating their children. They are afraid that not educating their children will have a certain impact on their children's hearts.
What preparations do you need to do to choose a DINK family?
1. Have the courage to face doubts
Although the times have changed many people’s ideas have also changed. But DINK's idea, which is contrary to the traditional concept of fertility, is still questioned. Therefore, choosing the DINK family must have a strong heart. Only in this way can they resist criticism and confusion from the outside world about their choice.
2, prepare for the elderly
has such a concept in traditional Chinese concepts, which is "raising children to prevent old age". But if you choose the DINK concept, the first thing you must consider is the issue of no child support. And while considering it, we should also prepare for the old age as soon as possible. Only in this way can the life of old age be guaranteed.
3, be prepared to rely on each other
For many people, children are the emotional bond that maintains a family. If there is no love between husband and wife, then the existence of children will make a family nurture genuine affection. For the DINK family, there are many uncertainties because there are no children to maintain. Therefore, the husband and wife need to be prepared to rely on each other so that the relationship between the husband and wife can last longer.
Choosing a DINK family has the benefits of a DINK family. After all, the husband and wife can enjoy their lives freely and will not be bothered by family trivial matters. but,There are also many difficulties that the DINK family needs to face.
As a young person, before choosing a family model, he should think clearly and be responsible for his choice.
