To give birth to a child still has to consider more, don't let the child become the cannon fodder of marriage.
never advocates that parents will live their lives for the sake of their children, but also hope that current parents can be more responsible, especially some idols should actually do more positive energy demonstrations.
Yesterday, the divorce of the actor Wang Lixin was on the hot search, and the entertainment circle has a lot of points. The divorce of celebrities is not uncommon, but this time the divorce copy of the man has caused a lot of controversy.
For example: calls his ex-wife a "roommate" and sends his wife a "good person card" (calling his wife a good wife, a good mother, and a good daughter), and then bluntly: get out of the car first. When
was asked about the reason for the divorce, he said: has nothing to do with derailment and domestic violence, and just broke up peacefully because of the disagreement between the two people's personality.
can't help but make people complain: both gave birth to the second child, only to find that the two people have different personalities? This series of operations of Wang Lixin looked silly to a lot of netizens.
You need to know that Wang Lixin and his wife paid you back to me in the previous variety show. How come 's eldest daughter is only 5 years old, and the second son is only 3 years old and suddenly divorced?
And the man's copywriting is really uncomfortable, especially when announces the divorce, calling his wife his roommate . Z2z
usually joked and said that, forget it. Calling your predecessor like this in formal occasions does give people a feeling of immature , which is really unacceptable.
Wang Lixin’s wife mentioned in the program before that after he gave birth to his eldest daughter by caesarean section, Wang Lixin went out to work the next day, hoping that Wang Lixin could accompany him more.
When Wang Shuoxin talked about his wife, he also broke the news that his wife suffered from postpartum depression when she gave birth to a son by caesarean section twice.
Wang Lixin’s wife has been a full-time mother of most of the time after marriage, and takes care of the children by himself.
is indeed a good mother from the dynamic point of view, and Wang Lixin of is also a person who worked very hard at . It is a pity that the two of did not reach the end.
In fact, in this marriage, the two children are the most innocent. After all, the impact of divorce on children is still relatively large, especially for a few years old.
How will the divorce of parents affect their children?
Children’s personality is easy to be sensitive
No matter what the reason is for divorce, the impact of parental divorce on children is not small, and children will care about the divorce of their parents.
, especially when parents start their own families in the future, many children will be more difficult to accept. That is why the current couples are encouraged to have a rational childbearing. Don't give birth to save the marriage or avoid giving birth.
Otherwise, it is also a kind of irresponsibility to the child. Children who have experienced the divorce of their parents have a personality equivalent to other children and may be more sensitive.
Children’s views on marriage will change
Parents’ divorce also affects children’s views on marriage, especially when the child is too young, it may not be possible to understand why two people in love separate.
If the parents really broke up peacefully, it’s okay. If the parents are contradictory, often verbalize each other, fight hard, and break up after the family is upset, the impact on the children will actually be greater. If
is serious, it may even affect the children's view of marriage when they grow up, so parents should also treat marriage sensibly.
Some children from single-parent families may not even have the courage to enter marriage because of their parents’ marriage.
Children may have a sense of lack of security.
Children need the company of their parents most when they are young. Although most men in society today are unable to accompany their children, the existence of a father is a sense of security for children..
Because of the influence of blood, the child's dependence on the father is destined to be no less. If the child faces the separation of his parents when he is young, it is easy to feel insecure.
Parents should have more sense of responsibility to create a good growth environment for their children.
Now the social atmosphere has changed. If the road to marriage really cannot go on, in fact, it is not advocated that couples will live for the children, but we hope that parents will have more sense of family responsibility .
Although society has progressed, and many people have an enlightened view of marriage, I personally understand the helplessness of some husbands and wives, but I still hope that most people should be rational and take marriage seriously.
Don't get married and divorce impulsively, let alone save your relationship with having a second child. Only when both parents have sufficient sense of family responsibility and know the responsibility of being a parent can the impact on children be minimized.
hope that parents can establish a correct concept of fertility
In fact, the impact of celebrity divorce on children is relatively small, after all, celebrities have good enough material conditions to make up for their children.
But after ordinary people get divorced, the children's situation is more embarrassing, especially for some early-married couples in rural areas. Many couples marry early and give birth early under the arrangement of their parents. After a disagreement, they start to divorce.
In the end, the husband and wife had their own lives and threw the children as oil bottles to the elderly in the family. This is actually very common. The reason why
has this situation is actually because some parents are immature, have not established a correct view of parenting, and have no sense of responsibility.
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