Hi everyone, I'm Cuckoo's mom.
On the hot search, I saw something like this:
Chen Yihan , who has not shown up for a long time, posted a set of photos showing recent photos of her after she was pregnant with her second child. Probably because she was pregnant, she didn't wear makeup, she appeared in the mirror without makeup, and she also had short haircuts.
The photos are neither beautiful nor refined. At first glance, the distance of a star is missing. is more of a daily life state for pregnant mothers.
is just such a group of photos, but they were "cured" by netizens on hot searches.
Some people say that she is too thin and a bit scary.
Some people also say that her eyes are very convex, like Dobby.
Some people say that she is at least 10 years old.
After pregnancy, pregnant mothers have facial anxiety. Seeing these ugly words about her, I wonder how this 39-year-old mother with a second child would feel?
However, fortunately, Chen Yihan ignored it. She only responded on social platforms and said that she had a physique "easy to lose weight during pregnancy" and did not control her diet. Because of severe morning sickness, I didn't gain weight.
Later, she posted another picture, wittyly calling out to netizens: "Are the eyes protruding? Stinky netizens~"
After reading Chen Yihan's response, Cuckoo's mother felt sad.
The pregnancy is hard work. Especially Bao Ma, who has morning sickness, vomits when she eats everything in the first trimester, and also vomits when she smells different smells.
People who can’t eat, vomit a lot, continue for a few months, and then full of vitality,It also has to be haggard.
However, at this time, the pregnant mother is also required to pass the test. Is it a bit harsh?
all say that giving birth is a watershed for women. In order to bring a new life into this world, my mother really gave too much.
One: In the tenth month of pregnancy, my mother's heart has been hanging
It seems easy for us to see others getting pregnant. From the moment I was pregnant, the wind was calm and the child was born after ten months.
This process is as simple as flowering in spring and fruit picking in autumn. But do you know how much fear and fear does mom have to worry about during the 10 months of pregnancy?
In the first trimester, even if you vomit to doubt your life, you have to swallow it hard. Because is afraid that the child will not get enough nutrition, that his brain will not develop well, and that he will lose it if he carelessly.
In the second trimester, is afraid of his Down syndrome, afraid of his deformity, afraid of his developmental abnormality .
In the third trimester of pregnancy, the pregnant mother's body and appearance are completely out of shape, and her belly is covered with stretch marks. I have a big belly and have difficulty breathing and mobility, and I can't lie down and sleep at night.
But at this time, my mother can't worry about worrying about herself at all. What she worries about is, has the fetus moved? Does he have an umbilical cord around his neck? Is he lack of oxygen?
......
Not waiting for the baby to actually land, the mother's heart will always hang on, up and down.
This is just a normal pregnant mother. What about those mothers who are physically weak and need to have a babysitter all the time?
I don’t know if you still remember,When Xu Ruoxuan became pregnant, the situation was not very optimistic. In order to save the little life in her belly, she stayed in bed for 142 days and received hundreds of fetal injections .
Mom, she was not a mother by birth either. She was also a girl who grew up as a big girl, and she was once a treasure in the palms of her parents.
But in order to be qualified for the role of "mother", women really did their best.
Two: The journey of pregnancy in October
After embarking on the journey of pregnancy, although relatives and friends around me will comfort them and say: "It's okay. After pregnancy, the body will be out of shape. Everyone is the same, and it will be fine afterwards."
Although pregnant mothers will laugh, but looking at the gradual change in the mirror, she will inevitably feel a little lost: "That girl, really is gone." What about changes?
Maybe the following set of gestation pictures can tell you the answer:
In the first month, the fetal baby is too young to be called a fetal baby, it can only be called an "embryo". The embryo is floating in a small furry ball like a fish.
The mother at this time, although there is no change in her body, she has to worry about whether she is drinking, smoking, or taking medicine. Because of these behaviors, fetal development may be affected.
In the second month, the fetus has a "human shape". At the beginning of the early pregnancy reaction, the mother will experience depression, laziness, morning sickness, emotional instability and other conditions.
In the third month, the facial features, hands and feet of the baby are clearly identifiable. When pregnant mothers have early pregnancy reactions, they will also have lower abdominal tenderness and back pain due to the increasing size of the uterus.
fourth month,The heartbeat of the fetus is active, and the hands and feet can do some small movements. The pregnant mother showed a "big belly" and was inconvenient to move.
In the fifth month, the fetus begins to grow hair and nails, and has fetal movement. Affected by progesterone, not only did the mother's belly grow larger, but her hips and breasts also became "fat".
At the sixth month, the baby has grown to about 28 cm long, 800 grams in weight, and has eyelashes and eyebrows. As the fetus grows rapidly, the mother's abdomen and weight are also increasing in direct proportion.
At the seventh month, the subcutaneous fat of the fetus is not enough, the skin is relatively wrinkled, and it looks like an old man. The upper abdomen of pregnant mothers also protrudes outwards, and the weight it bears often causes her mother's back pain.
At the eighth month, the fetus begins to face down, preparing for delivery. The enlargement of the upper abdomen makes it difficult for pregnant mothers to breathe. Moreover, stretch marks on the body increase.
In the ninth month, the fetal power tract increases, and the outstretched fists and feet of the fetus can push up the belly. Mother is often out of breath and may not be able to lie down to sleep at night.
At the 10th month, the fetal activity is restricted and the number of fetal movements is reduced, ready to be born at any time. The secretion of relaxin makes the pregnant mother's tight skin become loose.
The process of "becoming a mother" is not just a big belly. pregnant mothers also undergo a series of changes in their body due to the growth and delivery of the fetus.
So, when a girl becomes a mother, we really don’t want to blame her for losing collagen. Because without those progesterone and relaxin, she really couldn't bring a small life into this world smoothly.
The growth of life is great. But the mother who gave birth to this life is even greater!
3: Inside and outside the delivery room
Some people say that the delivery room is a "mirror mirror", reflecting the warmth and coldness of this world.
The documentary "'s first time in life " records the dads waiting outside the delivery room.
Mothers have been in the delivery room for a long time, and fathers are worried, anxious, and nervous.
A dad, after learning that his wife and twins are safe, he walked back and forth while saying to himself: "For the rest of my life, I will not do anything else, just guard you Three have passed."
Maybe, at the moment of taking responsibility, more than my mother grows up.
There is a mother who has unbearable pain during childbirth. In order to distract her, Bao Dad, , performed a folk dance in the delivery room. Bao Ma laughed, tears coming out of her eyes.
The girl was waiting outside the delivery room with the quilt. The doctor advised her to go back to the ward, and she shook her head: "I warmed the quilt, and it won’t be cold when mom comes out."
waited for 16 hours, and learned that the daughter-in-law gave birth successfully, and the mother-in-law cried out of control. She stayed outside the delivery room until the daughter-in-law came out.
a new life is coming,It's really not a matter of mother alone. The whole family, everyone's role, will change again.
If we say that the "ugly" traces on a mother's body are the imprints that give birth to life. Companionship, waiting, and co-raising are the most powerful protection for a family to give mothers and new lives.
is like this man in the subway, holding a book of gestation and seeing the gods. He told his wife and children with actions, and also told us: was conceived, and it was never his mother who was fighting alone.
May all mothers, in the journey of nurturing and raising, have someone to bear the wind and rain!
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