article and Ma Yili have been divorced for two years, and the two have gradually emerged from the divorce and started a new life.
The new life has begun, but the old fetters still exist.
On the evening of April 4, some netizens exposed the article and the video of Ma Yili 's eldest daughter Wen Junzhu participating in the competition alone.
Netizens claimed that Wen Junzhu came to the game alone, and did not see either the article or Ma Yili in the audience. The results of the children’s competition were not satisfactory. won the second-to-last place .
After the results were announced, Wen Junzhu stood lonely in the center of the stage. was 13 years old indeed without his parents.
At present, Ma Yili has entered a new crew, and the article was exposed by the media at the end of March, and it seems that he has a new relationship.
Ma Yili is busy making money, and the article is busy starting a new love life , Wen Junzhu is indeed very distressing.
If the ridiculous thing of the year does not happen in the article, Ma Yili will not divorce him, and their two daughters will not be reduced to the point where everyone is embarrassed.
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After seeing the incident on Monday, the article immediately severed all ties with the third person, Yao Di, and staged a prodigal return and return to Ma Yili.
It is commonplace for celebrities to cheat. Ordinary men and women will separate and reunite, and celebrities are also mortals.
The article derailment is hateful not only because he betrayed Ma Yili’s feelings and their marriage, but also because he hurt his eldest daughter Wen Junzhu and the youngest daughter who was a baby .
Ma Yili was pregnant when the article was derailed. When the news came to light, the article's youngest daughter had just reached 100 days.
As a father, the article is too dereliction of duty.
Wen Junzhu’s nickname is Ai Ma, it’s an irony.When the parental relationship changes, it is the children who suffer the most.
The article used the image of the father more than once to try to make a comeback.
After seeing the incident on Monday, the article and Ma Yili were photographed to watch Wenjun bamboo dance training together.
Whenever the media reveals that Ma Yili has been divorced, the couple will appear together with their daughter.
The article and Ma Yili's move is not only to keep their jobs, but also for the sake of their two daughters.
However, the damage has already been done. What use is it to make up for? It's too late to make up for it.
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Ma Yili has gradually started to release herself since her divorce from the article.
Before the article went wrong, Ma Yili was a housewife wholeheartedly and put all the focus on the child.
After the article accident, Ma Yili made a swift comeback and returned with a high profile "The First Half of My Life".
After that, Ma Yili put most of his focus on work. If love is gone, he must work harder to make money.Only money can give people a sense of security.
Women are always so involuntary, especially married women. Choosing a job means ignoring children, and choosing children means giving up self-worth.
Ma Yili is a smart woman. After seeing the face of the article, she seems to have found a balance between life and work.
Under the lens of the media, she is no longer a casually dressed housewife, she is back in the spotlight, exquisite and enchanting.
For Ma Yili, she has regained her self-confidence and regained control of her life; however, for children, such a change is not so easy to accept.
The mother who accompanies wholeheartedly by her side suddenly leaves to work, and the child's inner world will suddenly become empty.
The emotions of the child are written on the face, and the loss and loneliness cannot be concealed.
So people often say that marriage needs to be cautious, because marriage is not a romantic relationship. Marriage means assuming obligations and responsibilities.
Especially after the birth of life, one must shoulder the responsibilities of father and mother, and mutual loyalty is the most basic commitment to children.
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The end of the article and Ma Yili’s marriage is an inevitable result. I believe they have done their best to minimize the damage.
But damage is damage. Since it has happened, try to accept it.
For Wen Junzhu, playing alone and feeling the loss alone may become the norm in the future.
After all, after the article is still young, there will be a new love life, and the same is true for Ma Yili. After suffering marital injuries, she is even more free.
It’s not necessarily a bad thing to mature earlier. The impact of what parents do must be unconditionally accepted as children.
Nicholas Tse is a typical example. The failed marriage of Xie Xian and Deborah affected his outlook on love and marriage.
Nicholas Tse spent his entire life healing the trauma of his parents’ failed marriages, and ultimately he could not avoid embarking on the old path of parental divorce.
He and Cecilia Cheung fell in love and ended in a tragic end. For a time, he abandoned himself and left in a muddled life. Fortunately, Faye Wong's reappearance cured his view of feelings.
I hope Wen Junzhu will not follow his parents' old path in the future. This is the kindness of a stranger to the children.
Everyone has the right to be a parent, but I hope everyone is eligible to be a qualified parent.
