text |Qingfeng
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A few days ago, when Xie Na was out for a meal with her family, she was photographed obviously pregnant.
It is understood that this is Xie Na's second pregnancy after the twins. She was pregnant before and gave birth to two daughters. This time she started to fight for three children and continue to have children.
Seeing her pregnant belly, many netizens were shocked and said: "With twins, it is really too brave to give birth."
Some netizens said, "I will never have another baby." It’s enough. One time is enough.”
For a woman, she wants to have another child after giving birth and dares to have another child. This kind of courage is given by a man.
Only if a husband loves his wife enough, the wife will give birth to children regardless of all risks. If the husband is not loving enough, and the wife feels too much helplessness after giving birth to a child, then the wife will give up having children and dare not have another child. , I am afraid that those painful experiences will come again.
My friend Xiao Ning is a person who dared to give birth to a second child from . She had a second child in more than a year after giving birth to her eldest son.
She said that she is not afraid of giving birth to a second child, because her husband understands and cares about herself, and also helps her with the baby, so she dares to have a second child.
Xiao Ning’s husband treats Xiao Ning very well, especially when Xiao Ning gave birth to her first child. For Xiao Ning’s health, as long as the child cries every night, he will coax the child and let Xiao Ning Sleeping more, so facing such a husband, Xiao Ning dared to have a second child.
In fact, every woman who dares to have a second child has all the courage given by her husband.
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Every woman knows that childbirth is not easy. We have to experience the uncomfortable and inconvenient pregnancy period, and risk our lives to have children.Even more, you have to take care of your children day and night, and you have to endure the deformation of your body.
Actually, none of these women can't stand it. They all dare, whether it's once or twice, but for them, the husband's care is more important than this.
When they are pregnant, they need the care of their husbands, when they have children, and they need the love of their husbands. After giving birth, they also need the understanding and assistance of their husbands so that they can overcome this difficulty more easily. .
But if the husband doesn't care about it, for them, this experience is really too painful.
The husband of friend Orange is a person who doesn’t care about it. After Orange gives birth, the child cries every night, and the husband will find it troublesome. So every time he hears the child cry, he will scold the child. Every time the child is not behaved, Will complain about oranges.
Later, in order to be able to rest well, he went to the second bedroom and let Orange take care of the child by himself, not caring about his body.
even often quarreled with Cheng Zi for this. Seeing her husband like this, Cheng Zi said that she had had enough and would never have a second child again.
So when her husband started to urge Orange to have a second child, Orange resolutely said that he didn't want it anymore.
Sometimes, it’s not that women are afraid, the pain of having a child, or their body deformation, but they are afraid of experiencing a disappointment to the extreme, and they are afraid to face these emotions again, and they don’t know if they can. Can resist it, so they dare not have a second child.
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Some people say: Women are emotional animals.
In other words, a woman cares about feelings very much. When they marry a man, they entrust their life to this man. In their eyes, this man is the best.
But if this man doesn’t care about their feelings at all,When they need it most, regardless of their feelings, they will be completely disappointed.
Disappointed in this man, disappointed in marriage, disappointed in love, disappointed in the future life, so facing such a man, women will also learn to calculate and love themselves instead of doing it alone What makes myself more uncomfortable.
After all, childbirth is a matter of two people, and raising a child is a matter of two people. Once they are solely responsible for them from the beginning to the end, they will not even attract the other person’s dislike. If he is willing to pay for a man, he will never give birth to a second child.
In fact, a couple must be in love to be together, and the family also needs every member of the family to work hard to maintain it, and raising a child requires the parents to complete it together.
If these tasks have become women's tasks, then which woman is willing to burden herself for no reason?
So, love your wife! Let wives feel happiness in their marriage, and feel the love and care from men when they are most vulnerable.
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.About the author:
Qingfeng, a multi-platform contract author, a mother who loves a baby and a demon, deeply studies children’s psychology and is committed to growing up with children.
