Wang Bi said: "Nothing is irresponsible, it must have its own reasons."
The emergence of all things is not random, everything has its own inevitable truth. For example, what people we meet and what things we encounter are all related.
Even the "dream" we don't care about does not appear casually. All dreams must have their own reasons. There must be a reason for the things you dream of.
The originator of dream psychology Freud said that Dreams are the satisfaction of subconscious desires. Dreams are a window to consciously look at the unconscious.
To put it bluntly, what kind of desires and pursuits we have, these desires and pursuits will be weaved into a seemingly illusory dream. But in fact, illusory dreams such as are all related to reality.
For example, if we dream of deceased parents and relatives, are these dream scenes false? In fact, the picture of the dream in is related to our memory fragments.
There is no need to feel fear of dreams, nor does it mean to ignore everything that happens in dreams. Because the appearance of dreams is more or less a "psychological" hint.
It turns out that dreaming of long-dead parents and relatives from time to time often has these hints.
1. Extreme longing for relatives.
As the saying goes, "I think about it on a day and dream about it at night."
Excessive longing for my relatives will mobilize memories related to my relatives intentionally or unintentionally. Once these memories appear, they will inevitably have an impact on our dreams.
psychologist Freud believes that the content of dreams is related to the people and things that have been exposed to in the past week.
It is said that when he was a child, Freud was scolded by his father for wetting the bed. When he grew up, he remembered this incident again. That night, he dreamed that he and his father went to the train station and went to the toilet at the station to get rid of his hands.
Regarding the dream situation this time, Freud put forward a point of view. Dreams are in the form of fantasy, allowing people to experience the instinctive satisfaction of this dream.
After all, this is all related to daily "thinking". You should know that people are particularly nostalgic creatures and also value emotions. At this time, dreaming of relatives is inevitable.
2. Contact with objects related to them.
A psychological researcher has conducted such a survey and found that What people think and changes in their thoughts are related to the "objects" they come into contact with.
When we come into contact with some old photos, we will recall the people and things in the photos; when we come into contact with some old items, we will recall everything related to these items.
What we often call "Looking at things and thinking about people" is this truth. does not have certain objects, so it will not cause any thoughts . The pull of all thoughts is the inevitable result of the mutual contact between "people" and "things".
Why do some people dream of the past and even the dead after worshiping their ancestors? It is because they have come into contact with objects related to their ancestors.
A psychologist has said that dreams connect distant but related memories and strengthen them into a story.
To put it bluntly, as long as these memories are in our minds, we believe that these memories will be driven by the objects we are in contact with, thus creating a dream like a "story".
3. Some changes have occurred in the family.
famous psychological expertHao Bin teacher believes that dreams are the manifestation of psychological conflict in some cases.
What exactly is "psychological conflict"? Two words can be summarized - contradiction.What we think in our hearts and everything we see in our daily lives and contact with.
For example, the siblings in the family become disregarded after their parents leave. We were heartbroken about this situation and gradually became a "contradictory" mentality. The emergence of this ambivalence is one of the causes of "dream". There are two assumptions. First, the family changes are the "cause", and the parents who dream of leaving are the "cause". Secondly, dreaming of the deceased parents is the "cause" and the changes in the family are the "cause".
Generally speaking, the first assumption is in line with psychological logic. , and the second assumption does not conform to the mainstream statement. That is what we often call "supercreative statement".
There is no need to think too much about "dreams of deceased relatives". As long as there is a "conflict" in the person's psychology and if there are problems in the family, a "dream" will naturally arise. Everything is very normal.
to the end
Dreams are both realistic and illusory. The key is to analyze from different perspectives. But one thing cannot be denied, that is, the emergence of the dream in is closely related to the real psychology of human beings.
Why do people who are in trouble and are particularly sad have darker background tones in their dreams? Why do people who are in good times and have a happy mentality have a brighter background tone in their dreams?
This is the inevitable result of the mutual joint efforts of the "human brain" and "desire". Emotions will mobilize different desires. And different desires will woven into different dreams.
So, dreaming of deceased relatives is not a bad thing, and there is no need to make a fuss, it is normal. We just need to keep a natural mindset.
All dreams come from the past and the present reality.
text/Shushan Youlu
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