Eastern Han Wang Fu said: "The strange dreams are often accomplished but less inaction."
There is a reason why those strange dreams appear one after another. There is no dream in this world without reason, everything is "Fortune and reason" .
Dreams seem to be illusory, but in fact they are real. From the perspective of dream psychology, dreams originate from reality, but get rid of reality, and are finally processed by human subconscious desires.
To put it bluntly, the content in the dream is related to the reality we are exposed to. These real situations will be divided into different memory fragments by our brains to store memory.
When we fall asleep, due to the emergence of subconscious desires, the dream is processed by "desire". All people and things in are "combined" from different memory fragments.
For example, some elderly people dream of long-deceased relatives, which is also related to the "desire processing" mentioned above. Because of human desires, they will be related to human feelings, memories, ideas and pursuits.
If the elderly in the family dream of a person who passed away, they often explain these problems, which is very realistic.
1. The older a person is, the more nostalgic he is.
An elderly person has this characteristic: Remember to be particularly clear about the people and things in the past. But I basically don’t remember the people and things at the moment, and I don’t even care about them.
The past has long passed, and the past has long passed, and everything has been buried in the long river of history. Why do elderly people still remember it in their minds and even often recall it? The key reason for
is that creatures like prefer "nostalgia". The longer the people and things that have gone away, the more they can evoke memories deep in their minds, making people feel more "sighing".
The frequency of daily "nostalgia" is more frequent, and memories are extracted, which also stimulates inner desires. Therefore, after people fall asleep, desire will create the image of the deceased person based on the memories in their minds, so that they can meet each other.
The so-called "things to think about the day and dream about the night" is this.
From thinking to dreaming, the bridge among them is "desire". When nostalgic desire appears, people dream of the old friends who returned and the scenes of that year. Everything is both illusory and particularly realistic.
2. Return to the essence of love.
Taoist has this idea called "Return to the Simplicity".
people, when they first came to this world, they were relatively simple and had no distracting thoughts. But as they continue to grow, the distractions in their hearts will become more and more complicated.
This complex situation usually lasts until the early stages of a person's old age. When you are in your seventies or eighties, people will have fewer and fewer distractions and become simpler. In this way, we will reach the state of "returning to nature".
The same is true. In the early years, people were disdainful of feelings and believed that feelings were false, and only money was the most real. Therefore, they will abandon the most critical feelings at the most critical period.
One day in the future, when people get older, they will change their normal state and feel that money and other things are all false. Only emotion is the most precious. Gradually, they will resent their past stupidity and fall into emotional memories.
people are "sensual" creatures after all. The purest emotional sustenance will make them dream of the deceased.
3. The final judgment of conscience, the last side before returning.
Professor Zeng Shiqiang once put forward a point of view. Why did the expressions of people leave? It is because they were judged by their conscience, recalling the people and things in the past while examining their current selves.
From a psychological perspective, the old people before their death will keep showing the past scenes in their minds, just like the video, one scene after another. And the parties involved reflect on themselves in these "scenes" of memory videos.
Sometimes, dreams and this "memory video" coincide with each other. The old man, who is about to go to bed, is sleeping, and in a half-awake and half-confused state, their brains are also running, communicating memory.
Therefore, they will meet old friends who have already returned in their dreams, and feel particularly friendly, thinking that these "old friends" are here to pick them up home.
As outsiders, we may feel that the saying "take them home" is a bit terrifying. But in fact, is the inevitable result of the joint efforts of the brain and desires, and is a normal dream phenomenon.
people, being able to recall the people and things in the past, being able to encounter all this again is also a kind of compensation and luck.
Written to the end
For dreams, many people will think it is particularly illusory, and some people will scare themselves, thinking it is particularly strange and is manipulated and influenced by certain things.
After a deep understanding of dreams, we will find that all dreams come from reality. All changes are closely related to people's psychological activities. Dreams are the inner “non-instant reflection” of reality.
The old man dreamed of a person who passed away, either it was a problem of "nostalgia", a problem of "focusing on feelings", or the "inner judgment" before returning. Anyway, there are "reasons" together.
There is no need to be too afraid when facing dreams, it is just a construct of subconscious desires.
text/Shushan Youlu
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