What ordinary people like, most don’t like this constellation, no matter how close people are, they can’t really understand them.

We often say that good things come and go, but in fact, this is the meaning of letting things happen and letting nature take its course. Sometimes what we strive for with all our strength may not always belong to us. Instead, what we don’t fight for, and we don’t crave for, end up mostly in the end. can stay with us.

If everyone can live and do things with such an ordinary mind, they will surely live a relaxed and natural life, but this is only if, after all, ordinary mind is not so easy to cultivate.

Pisces, which is very different from inside and outside.

Let us first discuss a very interesting topic "double standard". The double standard problem is not a problem of a certain constellation, but a common image problem of human beings, or it can be said that there is no objective perspective and broad thinking. People with degrees basically have double standards.

People with double standards live unreal and selfish lives, but the problem is that many people are prone to this, so don't dislike this double standard, or that double standard, the crow in the pig's den is the same black color.

has a very realistic example. I have a friend who has a problem. He likes to pick his nose and feet very much. He watches movies and picks his feet. He never thinks there is any problem with it.

But he can't see other people like this, he feels disgusting when he sees it, and rejects this person when he feels disgusted.

includes his wife. Once we went out for a dinner, his wife broke the news, saying that he didn't want to approach him when he saw his booger digging, and was very repulsive.

But he picks his own booger, and his wife never rejects it, so his wife thinks it's unfair, and there are other things in life that are similar.

cites this example to illustrate the truth "what you like in , others may not like it, and there is no obligation to like ".

" you hate, others may like it, you can't just because others like what you hate, then you hate others ".

Of course, for this kind of thing, most people will hide their true thoughts and opinions in their hearts, and they will not show any sound on the surface. I don't know how many people will be trapped in this "selfish" circle of

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If you are standing in this "selfish" circle to recognize people who look at Pisces, then I can tell you plainly that you will not understand Pisces, let alone understand Pisces people.

Because most of Pisces people's cognitions and ideas are "in violation" of the outside world.

For example, you are Pisces' girlfriend, what habit do you ask Pisces to change for you, can he change it? The answer is no, everyone who has tried it should know, even if you are doing it for him.

Another example is that some people like active, enthusiastic or even fanatical people. It doesn't take much effort to get along with such people, and the atmosphere can be driven by them, but Pisces doesn't like it.

You said Pisces, change your job, your job has no future, you need to change the environment, will Pisces change? The answer is still no.

Many people say that Pisces love fantasy and are super emotional people, but I can tell you clearly that Pisces people are far more realistic than you.

In fact, their sensibility will only appear when the heart is really moved, and they are realistic in other cases.

Some people like a person will be very active, and even start a fanatical pursuit.

But Pisces likes a person very much, they will distance themselves from this person, and the more they like, the further away they are from this person.

As long as the Pisces are sincere, he will be cowardly. The stronger the sincerity, the more cowardly people will be, even to the point of " likes a person and doesn't let the other party catch any clues ".

Some friends may say, "Does Pisces feel inferior, or is Pisces not good enough?"

does not rule out this situation, but even if a Pisces has capital, he will not easily approach the person he likes, because This kind of love is very pure, he doesn't want to destroy it, and he doesn't think he is pure enough.

Speaking of this, do you have a very "holy" feeling?

Beautiful and handsome guys are very eye-catching, most people are willing to take a few more glances, let alone like them, but Pisces is not like this, Pisces will not make this choice.

Pisces look at the edge of the eye, look at the feeling, as long as the feeling is right, the other party is the most handsome and eye-catching in the world.

The growth of Pisces has a process, but this process is also different from most people. The basic situation of Pisces' growth is to go with the flow.

A habit may remain unchanged for decades, a hairstyle may not be changed for more than ten years, and a game may be played for more than ten years.

Some people may feel tired, but Pisces will not feel that way, because they are used to it. No matter how good things are outside, they can never compare to the old atmosphere that they are used to and can bring comfort and security to themselves. .

This is not simply nostalgia, nor does it mean that Pisces will not contact the outside world, and will not understand and recognize new things.

But after all this happened, Pisces still insisted on his choice.

This is the basic characteristic of choice for Pisces, and this characteristic can be seen everywhere in the life of Pisces.

For example, the mate selection of Pisces, the characteristics of husband and wife, are basically not handsome or beautiful in the eyes of others, but cute, silly, sweet, fat, and good-looking.

Of course, when young Pisces fall in love, they like to be tall, handsome, beautiful, and playful, but after experiencing it, they will not choose such a person again, why?

Because my heart is too tired, I am afraid all day long, worry about what the other party has done to make me feel sorry for myself, and want to know what the other party is doing all day long.

A "semi-decadent" energy will appear in Pisces slowly. They seem to be very inactive and passive. They don't take the initiative to fight for many things, but wait or let nature take their course.

This feeling is very comfortable for Pisces, so in the end, Pisces' choice is basically finalized.

They will choose people who seem to give people a sense of security "won't hurt people, won't betray, won't mess up", which is the basis of security, especially those who look chubby and stupid.

Pisces need "habit", and the concept of this habit can also be understood as sticking or relying.

As long as you can stick to it, or can rely on it and develop a habit, this is the sense of security that Pisces needs.

But this is not the only aspect of Pisces. In those Pisces who are hurt by emotions and beaten by reality, we will see another type of Pisces. This type of Pisces has basically been established, and it is difficult to change or change.

Pisces who have lost hope in their relationship and are completely desperate in their relationship are extreme.

This extreme is not from the outside in, but from the inside out, and they may seem very indifferent, they may be very heartless, or they may be independent enough.

But please believe that this is not what they want, and they are not happy, let alone relaxed.

All this is because they can't get the sense of security they need, there is no one who can stick to the habit, there is no one who can be trusted and can be used to rely on.

Pisces is very different inside and out, and the thoughts in his heart are not unified with the external state.

No matter how close people are, they can't really understand them, but there is one thing that Pisces is stronger than many people, and that is the truth of reality and inner world.

When a Pisces thinks that he is poor and that he is not good, it is useless no matter how much others raise him, he always recognizes the reality.

It is the normal life of Pisces people. What do you do when you are happy, and what you do when you are not happy, you will be discouraged if you are tempted, and you will not cooperate or fight if you are not motivated. This is also the normal state.