The trend of society is developing towards diversification, and tattoos are deeply loved by young people with personality. Nowadays, young people are more avant-garde and pursue personality, while tattoos are to express their own personality. However, tattoos are an alternative manifestation in the eyes of elders, and few elders can accept tattoos from their daughter-in-law.
Young people pursue personality, but you should also pay attention to their proper attitude. Although the current society is open than before, tattoos are only the demand of niche people and are not widely accepted by the public. Especially in some specific occasions, you should pay attention to your sense of proportion, otherwise it will cause conflicts and will have an impact on yourself. On the wedding day, the bride's tattoo became the focus of the audience, and the mother-in-law turned against each other on the spot. Let's see what's going on.
When I was a teenager, I was a girl who pursued personality in the extreme. At that time, I was obsessed with tattoos and felt that only in this way could I express my personality. On my 18th birthday, I had an rose on my chest . I hope I can bloom as beautiful as a rose.
As I grow older, I gradually become mature and no longer use external things to express my personality. However, I still like my tattoos very much. It records my growth and past and has special significance. Moreover, I don’t want to bear the pain of tattoo washing , so I keep the tattoo on my chest.
When I was in love with my boyfriend, I thought if he would mind if I had a tattoo. I asked him clearly, and he said he didn't mind and I felt relieved. When my boyfriend and I went home to meet my parents, I specially wore tighter clothes so that he could cover my tattoo. Elders generally mind girls tattooing tattoos. I dare not agree to the first time I met the man’s parents.
After training in the workplace, I have become gentle and dignified. My performance has won the love of my boyfriend’s parents. After dating for a period of time, we successfully reached the stage of marriage. Wedding is the most important moment in a woman's life. What I like is a low-cut white wedding dress. Wearing this wedding dress will definitely reveal my tattoo.
I asked my boyfriend again if he wanted to wash off his tattoo? If it is revealed at the wedding, will it attract dissatisfaction from relatives, friends and elders? My boyfriend said he didn't need to wash it. He thought my tattoo looked very good, which is also part of me. He didn't have to be wronged for the sake of others' eyes. In this way, I wore my favorite wedding dress and married my favorite man.
The wedding was full of guests, and the door was greeted with joy, and the audience's eyes were focused on me. I think because I am a bride, everyone likes to look at the bride, so my eyes are just about me. But I found that everyone was always staring at my chest, and I suddenly became panicked. It turned out that everyone was looking at the tattoo on my chest.
Judging from the different perspectives of everyone, my tattoo is not something that the public can accept, and many relatives present are talking about them and talking about the tattoos on my chest, pointing fingers. My mother-in-law got angry on the spot and accused me of being an inappropriate woman. I used to deliberately wear strict clothes and prevent them from seeing them. I deceived them.
I tried to maintain a smile and explain to my mother-in-law, but my mother-in-law, who was born in a scholarly family, couldn't listen to it and thought that I was a bad woman in preconceived thought. The daughter-in-law who was about to pass the house was pointed at by relatives and friends. Her father-in-law couldn't bear the face and the color was very ugly.
In the end, the wedding was terminated. As for the rescheduled, it was still so incomplete. I had no idea. Afterwards, my husband explained to his parents that he said he had known that I had a tattoo for a long time. Tattoo was just a manifestation of pursuing personality, and this should not be used to distinguish whether a person is good or bad. He said that when we get along, we can feel that I am a girl with good character and should not deny me with my early tattoos.
Fortunately, my husband is on my side. With his patient guidance, his parents finally forgive my behavior. I accepted my in-laws’ opinion, which was to wash off the tattoo.They say that pursuing personality is the behavior of young people, but as elders, they still cannot accept such over-personality. They hope that I can consider other people's opinions and not damage our reputation.
I washed off my tattoo and then we re-choose a good day for the wedding. My husband and I got married successfully. I was still scared when I thought of the ups and downs that happened in the last wedding. I know that I am not wrong, nor my parents-in-law, but in solemn occasions, you should still restrain your personality and not collide with the public's aesthetics.
