There is a very popular term called "freedom to dress". Under the constraints of secular concepts, dressing is not a matter of one's own free will. Because dressing up is not only related to personal preferences, but also attracts the attention and evaluation of others. In this regard, there are greater restrictions on women, and some people will be criticized if they dress slightly differently than ordinary people. There was a parent in Shanghai who dressed up sexy when picking up her child. Unexpectedly, she attracted the attention of many people. A parent next to her kept staring at her long legs, as if she was thinking about life.
As women, we all love beauty, especially young girls. You can dress up however you want and you don’t need to care too much about other people’s opinions. But at the same time, women have a special role. Different age groups will have different identity changes. When a girl becomes a mother and a wife, she needs to be more dignified. After all, she has to take into account the feelings of her family when she goes out. It is said that people's words are terrible. Many times, gossip can destroy a person, so most people will restrain themselves. Of course, different economic conditions and different environments will have different dressing habits. People have long been accustomed to this, but sometimes there are contrasts.
When people see someone who is well-dressed, they will definitely take a second look. There are many young and beautiful figures on the street, especially in summer, so there is nothing wrong with wearing cool clothes. Such a figure appeared at the entrance of a primary school in Shanghai. A parent was standing in the crowd wearing an off-shoulder skirt and a top hat. Among all the unpretentious parents, she was a dazzling presence, and many people couldn't help but Look at her twice. The strangest thing is that a parent next to her has been staring at her long legs, looking particularly fascinated, and this is also a woman.
Someone took a picture of this and posted it online, and netizens started talking about it. Some netizens said that this parent was too vain. Why did he dress up so grandly after picking up a child? Is it to gain a sense of presence or to show off. Some netizens also noticed the eyes of the parents next to them, which were full of envy and helplessness. They may have thought of how they looked wearing a simple T-shirt, trousers and sneakers, riding a scooter. Comparing this with the glamor of others, they instantly made her realize that people The gap between people.
In modern society, many women are like this parent who rides a scooter. They are busy with work and family, and are forced to become yellow-faced women. The focus of their lives is no longer on themselves, but on their husbands and children, completely losing the opportunity and time to dress up. You have to know that everyone is at the same age, why can others take care of themselves so well and be so good at dressing up, but I am so gray and can never get the attention of others? Maybe this is the question this parent is pondering.
As for the parent wearing an off-the-shoulder skirt, it is obvious that he has no pressure in life. He pays great attention to dressing up and taking care of himself, so he looks much younger than the other parents. Her skin is fair and her legs are white and straight. Although she is the mother of a child, she shows no signs of being tired by life. Those who don't know her would think she is a young girl. This is the cruelty of reality. Different people have different lives, and different environments create different ways of doing things and dressing styles. Many times, we can see a person's lifestyle and quality from his appearance.
Many netizens think this parent is too ostentatious. Maybe they are overthinking it. People may dress like this every day. There is no need to pretend to be ugly when you come to school. What is wrong with dressing up to pick up your children? You have to raise your children from a young age. The aesthetics are even better. There is no need to blame her for such a thing. After all, you don't need to point out other people's lives. Everyone just needs to live their own life. If you are miserable in life, you have no reason to blame others. Most people who like to do this kind of thing are jealous.
I would like to ask, if everyone does not need to worry about life like this parent, goes shopping every day for beauty treatments, and has a graceful figure, wouldn't he wear beautiful clothes and go out like her? This is the love of beauty that everyone has, rather than a show of vanity. Girls and women alike have the freedom to dress. Others do not need to read too much into this, otherwise, they may be the clown.
