A French beauty expert once said: "Hands are a woman's identity certificate." Others described: "Hands are a woman's second face." These statements are recognized by people, and hands have a full suggestive effect on others.
Hands are eye-catching and attention-grabbing body parts in human interactions. Especially when shaking hands, picking up things, typing, writing, eating and other dynamic activities of the hands, the hands will give people a stronger visual perception. Perhaps the fair face was disturbed by the rough hands, but the unattractive facial features were made up for by the slender and elegant hands. The role of hands to a woman is as important as the appearance to a woman, so the care and beautification of a woman's hands cannot be ignored.
In the female human body structure, the arms are closer to the body, echoing the overall curve of the body. The arms are connected to the hands that are most frequently exposed on the human body. They are not only soft and plump, but also fully express the beauty of women and rich information about the human body. The hand is the result of the highly differentiated end of the human upper limb and is an important feature that distinguishes it from animals. For this reason, the gestures we use repeatedly every day are an important form of body language that can help us emphasize what we want to convey to the listener and clarify the ideas of our speech. Used well, gestures can enhance your personal image and add personality charm, but used poorly, they can reveal many of your flaws and problems.
Whether a woman is elegant or not can be directly reflected in her movements. Many women like to use gestures to express their attitude. Carnegie teaches you to do this:
Method 1: When the other party reaches out to you, if you respond and shake it, it means that you are friendly to the other party; on the contrary, if you turn a blind eye or are careless, it means that you are not Willing to interact or cooperate with the other party. If you are interacting with others and extend your hand naturally with your palm upward, this can show your respect for others and your sincerity and humility; otherwise, it means that you are just hasty and lack sincerity. Clenching your fists means you are holding back, angry, or intending to attack or defend yourself.
Method 2: We all know that applauding expresses appreciation and praise. When someone tells you a story that touches you, you naturally extend your hands and applaud the other person, which shows your elegance. When getting along with others, if you extend your thumb to the other person, it is a compliment; if you extend your little finger, it is a disparagement; even more so, if you extend your middle finger, it means an insult. It is worth noting that an elegant woman should not extend her middle finger, otherwise your charm will be greatly reduced.
Method 3: For women, slender fingers are their capital to show off. However, you must remember that pointing with your fingers is the action that most reduces your own charm. It has the meaning of teaching others. If you want to give directions to someone, or tell someone a story about another person, you must not point out your finger. An elegant woman should pay attention to this even when giving directions to others. The correct posture is: with the elbow joint as the center, fingers naturally together, palms upward, pointing to the target. Likewise, don't point your finger at others, but support a person's self-esteem with your hands.
Method 4: Pay attention to designing and training some decent and elegant gestures to make your image more three-dimensional and beautiful. A more standardized and elegant gesture should be that the palm is naturally straight, the palm is facing inward and upward, the four fingers are together or the index finger is slightly apart, the thumb is separated, the wrist is straight, the hand and forearm are in a straight line, and the elbow joint is naturally bent. When doing movements, the control of retracting and releasing should be at the wrist and elbow joints, not the shoulder joints. Otherwise, the range of movement will be too large and it will give people the feeling of gesticulating. The opening and recycling of gestures should have a certain degree of strength, flexibility, and rhythm. They should not be sloppy, like dancing with water sleeves, which makes people feel lack of accuracy and confidence. Of course, everyone's gestures should also have individuality. On the basis of standardization and propriety, everyone should find their own unique style, which can be capable, elegant, calm, or gentle.
