"Any good child is not a miracle, but a traceable cause and effect."
The mother of the schoolmaster found the common ground among the top students in the college entrance examination
There is someone who is particularly good at planning and summarizing. Xueba’s mother, after reading a lot of reports about the top students in the college entrance examination, found that these champions have different family backgrounds and different interests, but all have something in common, that is, they all have a strong independence and self. Management ability and strong learning ability. And these commonalities are one of the necessary and indispensable factors for their success.
For example, Xie Xinying, who has a total score of 726 in Chongqing Science No. 1, and the legendary "Three Yuan and No.", when asked about the secret of learning, her head teacher said: "Her study habits are particularly good, especially self-control. Self-management skills are very good, and I admire them all.”
Xie Xinying’s parents, in order to cultivate her self-management skills, began reading her stories and picture books since she was over one year old, and let her sleep by herself. , To cultivate her independence and self-management ability.
Xie Xinying fell in love with reading and gradually developed the ability to read efficiently, and was very independent, so she could do her own thing.
Other champion parents also mentioned Let children "do their own things", and cultivate their independence and self-management skills from an early age, which is a great help to learning.
The importance of cultivating children’s independence from an early age
Italian educator Montessori once said: " _15span ."The American educator, Dr. Robert also proposed, Modern child education has ten goals, the most important of which is independence. In order for a child to achieve success after he grows up, he must have independence. The ability to think, choose, judge, and solve problems independently, only on the basis of these can you cope with the challenges of life, otherwise it will be difficult to adapt to the needs of modern society.
So what? Can they cultivate their children’s independence and self-management ability?
Many parents worry that their children are thrown away every day, messing up on the desk and in the schoolbags; not sleeping in the morning, not sleeping at night, chaotic time management; doing homework and doing things Procrastination...Can such a child be saved?
Don’t worry, I will share the method summarised by Xueba’s mother and share it with everyone. Parents who need it can collect it.
As the saying goes, “You can see farther by standing on the body of a giant”, then will follow the “research results” of Xueba mothers, and it will also make us have a clearer goal on the road of cultivating children and make it easier to overtake in corners.
If you are a preschool parent, then you can develop your child’s independent character and self-care ability early, and if your child is in elementary school, it is now too late.
Do your own things by yourself
Children’s independence is not something that is desirable right away, but is gradually cultivated in life.To cultivate independent children, parents must give their children opportunities, do not arrange to do things for the children, and do not prevent the children from doing things on their own. Let the children do their own things from elementary school to improve their self-care ability, for example, let him organize things by himself In the bed, you can put on clothes, wash socks, sweep the floor, etc., which not only can exercise your child’s independence, but also enhance your child’s self-confidence.
Children before the age of 3 like to imitate and try, as long as there is no danger, adults can let the children do things within their power, such as let him clean up his toys, throw out the garbage, etc. Children in kindergarten can do more by themselves, wear clothes, fold the quilt, and clean up the dishes. These are good things that can be done in kindergarten, and the children can continue to keep them when they return home. Parents should not stop or stop them because they are reluctant to bear their children. instead.
Preschool independent character and self-management ability are mainly self-management in life. As long as children are given enough freedom and trust, they will develop independent character and self-care ability.
Secondly, read more relevant books to cultivate children’s independence
After entering elementary school, children need to let them understand the importance of self-management, which mainly includes self-management in learning and Time self-management. Children are slow to do homework, get up in the morning, procrastinate in doing things, cannot think and solve problems independently, and love to make excuses, all of which lack the ability of learning and time self-management. Parents should let their children realize the importance of self-management and conduct self-management. The most effective way for is to let children read related books.
Here, Xueba's mother recommended a set of crooked rabbits "Strong1strong Learn to Manage Yourself-A Fairy Tale of Independent Growth" .Through interesting and representative stories, this set of books allows children to understand the importance of self-management in the story and improve their self-management ability.
In the book, through fantasy imagination, beautiful language, exquisite illustrations, fascinating plot, subtle, it is natural to educate children, let them know the importance of independence and self-management, rather than rigid Make sense.
Through 10 independent growth themes, this set of books allows children to learn self-management, overcome procrastination, dullness, and sloppy habits from three aspects: independent character, learning ability, and social adjustment, and let children learn to be serious, persistent, and overcome inferiority. ,Not give up.
For example, in the book "Procrastination and Procrastination", a little girl who likes to procrastinate when she gets up and eats is sent to Procrastination by her mother. This country is procrastinated from the king to the subjects. No one cooks and eats raw potatoes, so she has to cook and eat them by herself, but the king asks him to be the royal cook, but in the end it drags on and refuses to pay her. She finally experienced all kinds of procrastination here, and realized that procrastination is not a good behavior.
In addition, this set of books can also be used as a bridge book , which can cultivate children's reading ability and allow children to take the first step in independent reading.
Not only is this set of books recommended by Xueba mothers, many mothers around them also say that it is a must-read for their children, and it is praised by 330,000 excellent mothers across the country, which is definitely not worse than .
If your child is in the early transitional stage or has entered elementary school, this set of books must not be missed. This set of books will help preschool and lower elementary students to cope with the new elementary environment in three aspects: independent character, learning ability, and social adjustment.Let children successfully complete the transition of adaptation and role. Each set is equipped with a parent manual for school preparation to cultivate children's good study habits and learning ability, and accompany them to walk every step from kindergarten to elementary school.
The original price of this set of books was 128 yuan, and now the group purchase price is 64 yuan, which is great value. Follow Xueba’s mother to copy homework, and copy it to the end to have the effect, don’t hesitate, buy it now!
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