How does it feel to know that your spouse is in love? This is the answer from women

When a woman encounters a derailment, the attitude of many elders most is to persuade and not to leave. Because in their opinion, as long as men are willing to bow their heads and admit their mistakes and turn their heads back, then this marriage still has the value of maintaining. What's more, people will make mistakes, as long as they know their mistakes and can correct them, they will persuade women.

But being derailed, this kind of thing did not happen to me, no one knows how painful "it" really is.

So, how does it feel to know that the other half is cheating? Look at the answers of these women!

1. Sitter: The whole body is frozen like blood, my brain is blank, and my body is trembling with anger.

's husband cheating, I actually feel a little bit vaguely. Because during that time, he always had many excuses to be outside, either working overtime or having a friend's appointment. But at that time, there was still a bit of luck in my heart, thinking that there might be something really wrong, so I comforted myself not to think too much.

until that day I accidentally saw the WeChat chat window on his mobile phone, and saw other women calling him husband, saying that he missed him. My heart suddenly shook. At that moment, I felt my whole body was numb, and my mind was blank. When I clicked on WeChat to read it, I felt my whole body trembling. It's really hard for me to accept that a man who I love and trust so much actually calls someone else’s wife on WeChat and tells them that I love you.

2. After the rain, the weather is clear: I feel very uncomfortable, and I feel that my breathing is painful. It was the woman who added my WeChat to provoke me, and then sent me a lot of chat records and group photos of two people.

When I saw those photos and chat records, I felt the blood in my whole body rushed to the top of my head, my heartache was severe, and my tears couldn't help but fall. Then I kept thinking about what happened during this period, thinking about how stupid I was, and I didn't even notice that he cheated. I didn't know how I came here for the two days, so I felt confused and could not sleep at night.

Fortunately, everything is over now. From now on, I will love myself and make myself live better.

3. Snow ear: knowing the moment of being derailed, the first reaction is not anger and sadness, more nausea.

has seen many examples of derailment before. At that time, I was very fortunate to have a happy family. I felt that I was really lucky to meet my husband. However, how strong the sense of happiness was at that time, only to realize how cruel I was when I was cheated.

my husband cheated on me through friends. She was eating out, and happened to meet my husband and another woman who went in arm in arm, so she took a picture of me. The moment I saw the photo, I was completely stunned, and then when I reacted, I felt disgusting, just like you ate a piece of delicious meat, and after chewing it for a few times, I realized that someone else had chewed it. , Disgusting makes people nauseous.

Now, although we have not yet divorced, I can no longer accept sleeping in the same room with him, so we are now sleeping in separate rooms.

4. Sunflower: Like a bolt from the blue, I suddenly feel that the man around me is terrible

My husband cheated on this matter, and many people may not believe it. My husband and I have been married for so many years. He has always treated me very well and always said that marrying me is the happiest thing in his life. He cooks all the food in my house. When I go out on business, I will bring gifts to me when I come back. Many friends say that I married a good man. When

found out that he was cheating, I felt like I was given a whip. Moreover, after he was discovered by me, I simply tore his face and said that he found the self-esteem of a man with that woman. Moreover, he cheated in the second year of our marriage, but kept hiding from me. I just feel that I don't dare to believe in men anymore, nor in love anymore. People who love you so much at ordinary times hate you so much, who would dare to believe in love anymore.

Conclusion:

Guo Degang once said in a variety show: Stay away from people who always persuade you to be generous, and you will be burdened when you strike him!

Actually, in many cases, when we are outsiders, because we can't empathize with the suffering of others, our empathy will be greatly reduced, and it is easy to persuade others with principles. But once it happens to myself, maybe I will respond to that sentence: Although I understand a lot of things, I still have a hard time living a life.

On the topic of dealing with the derailment of the other half, I think it is more for the person to choose the path they want to take. After all, the pain is pain on oneself, and outsiders should stop acting as a saint.

Finally, I want to say: In marriage, the lover only loves seven points, and the remaining three points love himself.