The 11-year-old Haohao is in the sixth grade of elementary school. Because of his poor oral English, his father bought him an iPad to take online English courses. Haohao's parents are usually busy, so he is using the tablet himself. One day, Haohao's father came to Haohao's desk and just used his tablet. He didn't expect to see some indecent "erotic" videos as soon as he opened it. Dad Haohao suddenly felt angry and wanted to beat Haohao immediately.
But Dad Haohao suppressed this impulse, because he felt that if this matter is not handled properly, it is likely that the relationship between father and son will be bad, or the child will be burdened. So Haohao's father went to the toilet and said to his son: "Tomorrow my father will take you to a place to help you solve your doubts." Haohao happily agreed.
The next day, Haohao's father bought a book on physical hygiene in the bookstore and read it with his son. By the way, he mentioned what happened last night: "Dad knew that you were watching some adult videos. First of all, Dad didn't want to blame you, but thought that this was a very normal behavior. However, those online videos are broadcast by criminals, which will affect the mental health of children, so try not to watch them in the future. We can learn about this knowledge through formal and healthy channels." Haohao nodded, expressing willingness Listen to dad.
Haohao’s father’s approach demonstrates his high IQ and is worth learning from. Perhaps, many parents will encounter the same problem as Haohao's father, but if it is not handled properly, it will have a bad psychological impact on the child, so don't "talk about sex change".
Conversely, if children or young people lack sex education, there are many harms.
1. Lack of sex education has led to a high rate of juvenile sex crimes.
In recent years, there have been endless cases of juvenile sex crimes. Everyone remember the very famous "Li Tianyi case". Juvenile delinquency like this has a lot to do with the lack of sex education for children since childhood. Some teenagers are not bad in nature, they commit crimes entirely out of curiosity.
Parents are always in a state of keeping a close eye on their children’s physical hygiene. However, there is a lot of bad information in this area in society and on the Internet, which is always full of children's senses. The concealment of the parents further stimulated the curiosity of the children and gave some bad information on the Internet a good opportunity. Therefore, the curiosity of children should be properly guided, rather than blocked.
2, teenagers are prone to early love and early pregnancy.
Qingqing is a high school student with excellent character and academics. She has fallen in love early in the second year of high school. After falling in love with classmates, Qingqing can no longer study at ease, and her grades have dropped in a mess. Later, she dropped out of school because of pregnancy.
After the child enters puberty, the hormone levels continue to improve, so that the child begins to have a good impression of the opposite sex. If there is no correct guidance, it is easy for children to distract their study energy, and the children will not want to study and delay their studies. Some young people have a relationship prematurely due to the influence of some online information. The child's body and mind are not mature, and a momentary impulse will bring lifelong harm to the child.
3. Lack of sex education affects the mental health of young people.
The lack of sex education has caused many children’s mental health problems. Some children have a deep feeling of guilt towards the opposite sex when they enter puberty and feel that they are not good children. There are also parents who find that their children are showing signs of premature love, they criticize and criticize them, leaving a shadow on their children's psychology. Parents educate their children in relevant aspects from an early age, and the children will form a good mentality and a sound personality.
Many parents find it difficult to talk about sex education, let alone where to start. For children of different ages, parents can adopt different methods to educate their children.
1. When children are in their early childhood, parents can educate their children in simple and understandable ways such as picture book stories.
For young children, mom and dad can tell the children through storytelling, where do you come from? Some picture book stories will also be about the different knowledge that boys and girls have. Mom and dad can buy it for their children to read, and they can carry out related knowledge and safety education.
2, 8 to 14-year-old children, parents can appropriately deepen the education of sexual knowledge.
As children grow older, their bodies will undergo great changes. Sometimes, children will have some questions and doubts about physical hygiene, parents should choose the appropriate way to educate their children. For example, buy books on physical hygiene and study with children.
In daily life, tell children how to pay attention to physical hygiene. Guide children to consciously reject bad information and inappropriate behavior.
3, no matter what age children, the prevention of sexual assault safety education can not relax.
For children of any age, parents must educate their children on the prevention of sexual assault. Children’s ignorance is more likely to give criminals an opportunity. Parents should educate their children from an early age, that they have the right to privacy of their bodies, even those close to them must not infringe. Only by educating children to stay away from material temptations and struggling with strangers can children stay away from danger.
Parents are the guides in the growth process of children, and the healthy growth of children cannot be separated from the careful nurturing of parents.
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