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Author: Jun
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three years ago, Watanabe propose to build when Sasaki said:
"Although I am older than you, but I will come on to live long, long time. Please marry me."
Nozomi Sasaki also replied in his marriage declaration to marry Watanabe Kento:
"I will laugh in my heart when I am with him."
once thought this was probably the most beautiful love. Come on, "one room for two people, three meals for four seasons", and a person who can make you smile every day, slowly getting older in ordinary days.
but the slapped face came too fast, in only three years, Ken Watanabe cheated, and he was with many girls!
is secretly meeting with AV actresses and fooling around with company employees...
You know, Nozomi Sasaki is a Japanese national goddess, who has been listed in the "100 Most Beautiful Faces in the World" for five consecutive years. It can be said that who can marry Nozomi Sasaki, that is really a blessing from the previous life.
During the rising period of his career, Nozomi Sasaki chose to marry this uncle who was 15 years older than him, and gave birth to a son for him the following year.
has a beautiful wife and cute children at home. What is his dissatisfaction with?
Soon, Ken Watanabe gave the reason for the derailment- Nozomi Sasaki’s lack of housework caused a mess in the house! According to a related person at Watabe Jianfang, Nozomi Sasaki looks like a perfect wife, "but she is super lazy in terms of packing up, and Mr. Watanabe is also very troubled for this." The source of
revealed that Nozomi Sasaki's house was so messy before the marriage. There is no place. Although it has improved after marriage, the clean state cannot be maintained for long.
"Watanabe is a person with fine personality, and it is not surprising that the husband and wife are dissatisfied after living together."
This plausible and aggrieved appearance, it seems that Watanabe is the victim.
thought of the all-purpose excuse again, "I cheated, didn’t you force it?"
I always hear people around me say this point of view: "The world has a cause for a result, husband Wife forced her to cheat."
Look at her, she is so fat and doesn't dress herself up, it's strange that her husband doesn't cheat.
Look at her, so fierce, it's strange that her husband doesn't cheat.
Look at her, check her husband's WeChat all day long, it's strange that her husband doesn't cheat.
Look at her, working overtime every day, it's strange that her husband doesn't cheat. Because of these logics,
wanted to be part of the original partner. After discovering that her husband had derailed, it was not how to protect her rights, but to actively check her own shortcomings.
friend Xiaowen, three years ago, found out that her husband cheated.
Faced with her husband's filthy chat records on QQ WeChat and her messy condoms in the car, Xiaowen broke down!
When she questioned her husband, the man almost complained and said:
"Do you look at this house, does it look like home? It's messy and no one cleans up. Look at my colleague A Bing’s wife, who buys flowers every week. The layout is like a model room.
Last time, you even left a whole package of opened sanitary napkins on the dining table. I ask you, you said it was convenient. I'm so speechless! Z3z
I know you are from the countryside Yes, but can you live a little more romantically, you can also dress up a little bit western. Z3z
Winter and summer vacations, I propose to travel abroad, you always say that you can’t. Look at the clothes you wear, all of them are stalls...
Depending on your figure, the upper and lower sides are generally thick and square."
listen, is this human?
Who doesn't want to live a good life and buy good clothes? Who doesn't want to go out to play? But the family only has a small salary, raises children, and pays off the mortgage. How can I live without saving?
When it comes to tidying up the house, he will be the shopkeeper.To take children to cook and wash clothes, who has the energy to mop the floor, buy flowers, and do those poetic and picturesque things every day?
But at that time, my friend was full of self-blame after listening to her husband. She felt that she was not doing well enough, and she was not feminine, that pushed her husband into the arms of others.
After that, Xiaowen began to exercise and began to lose weight, and began to pay attention to dressing up.
Every day, when the child and husband are asleep, she will clean the house. She wakes up at 5 o'clock the next morning to make breakfast. Everything she does is to make her husband "satisfied" with this home.
In the past few years, she has lost more than ten catties, and her clothes have completely changed her style. She is no different from those girls who were born and raised in the city.
However, the husband did not take his heart back, he is still cheating.
Finally she cried: "I changed what he said. Why is he still like that?"
I admit that in the case of derailment, some of the derailers were indeed disappointed with their spouse and turned their feelings. Need to look for sustenance.
However, more cheating people have nothing to do with their spouses.
Xiaowen’s marriage should have ended five years ago.
We are just ordinary people, we are not perfect. He picks you at random, which is the legitimate reason for his cheating! All the derailments of
are nothing more than two reasons:
1, I have no sense of responsibility, and the moral bottom line is too low.
2, there is no new feeling for spouse.
The derailed people who beat them upside down are nothing more than shirk their wrong responsibility.
Therefore, we will see:
has some very good women, and her husband also cheated on the grounds that "wife is too independent, I feel a lot of pressure, so cheated."
has some housewives with no income, and their husbands cheated on the grounds that "wife knows how to buy food and cook every day, and she doesn't have a common language, so I cheated."
men are [single only] most of the time.撩】The state.
They hunted intentionally or unintentionally, they would stretch out their tentacles to seduce, even at that time he was not single!
In fact, they are just fighting for a fluke and trying to be greedy. The choice before them is never "A or B" but "A or A+B".
Don't overestimate love, don't overestimate men, let alone overestimate a man's love for you, and your sex.
feel more and more that women now live like crazy:
takes a baby full-time at home and wants to go to work because of fear of being abandoned by her husband;
fights hard in the workplace and faces many accusations. You don’t care about your family. Responsibility;
You are struggling between family and workplace, and someone will come up and ask you, how do you balance your family and career?
Who made them live like crazy? It is the "good men" who are full of morality and righteousness, who clearly derailed themselves and throw the pot to their wives.
has an infidelity rate as high as one-third, which has made women live tremblingly in their marriages. Now they don’t talk about cheating, and there are open excuses, "I cheated, I blame my wife for being bad." Z3z
wife wants to work, he To lie to her to bring children at home, she said, "I am responsible for making money and supporting the family, and you are responsible for being beautiful and beautiful."
When he cheats one day, he will put the blame on his wife:
What do you look like now? Are the two of us still good friends? How can people who don’t have a common language live together?"
Women are working hard outside, and men have reasons to cheat:
"Being outside every day, women don’t look like women. , With you, metoo tired. "Z3z
, I just saw a piece of news some time ago: man cheated on his wife for not dressing up
A man in Hangzhou was arrested when he was dating a beautiful woman for 400 yuan. The police asked that this man born in the 1980s is in the IT industry and has married a wife. Give birth to a child. The
man said that his wife does not dress up every day and only revolves around the children, so he cheats. Z3z
I agree that a marriage is not happy, and both husband and wife are responsible. Marriage management is not a unilateral thing, it requires a man and Women’s common cooperation.
, but firmly can’t agree with the gangster logic that "men cheating is the responsibility of women".
marriage has problems, men and women each have to bear their own responsibilities, but it is not the same as the cheating party, betraying the marriage There is a reason!
Finally, here is a reminder to the majority of male compatriots, no matter what the reason, you should not ignore the wife's contribution.
If you really want to cheat, you should accompany your children to do more homework, or handy Brush the toilet and put a bag in the trash can~
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