Behind the fire in "Hear Her Saying", I am not opposed to "white thin young", but I am opposed to "must"

Qianjiang Evening News · Hourly News reporter Song Hao

You must have encountered such a girl, every day before going out, you have to put on makeup for a long time, the makeup is not perfect and you can’t see people; the photos in the circle of friends must be thin and smooth The beauty filter cannot be sent.

"Live on Weibo and in the circle of friends, put on the hottest imitation makeup, wear the same style on stars..." On November 17, the monologue "I heard her speak", produced by Zhao Wei and director of some episodes, was launched In the first episode of "Magic Mirror", actor Qi Xi interprets such a young woman who is trapped in "appearance anxiety"-

She is not confident about her appearance, with a collapsed nose, thin lips, flat breasts, big ass, and hair volume. Little, she pays attention to various beauty bloggers and learns various makeup methods. Every day, she has to sit in front of the mirror for almost three hours, turning herself into a white and thin beauty with a high European-style nose and large double eyelids in the eyes of most people.

At a classmate gathering, her carefully created image became the focus of the audience, looking at the desire, jealousy and joy in the eyes of the classmates. After returning home, she saw double eyelid stickers hanging halfway around the corner of her eyes. This was the most horrible scene she saw. It was even scarier than a horror movie. When did this drop? She even wondered if someone was whispering during the party, whether it had been seen.

thought of this, she was "trembling and sweating." Behind

's exquisite makeup, she is always worried that the "unbeautiful" that is disguised will be seen by others, and she falls into a deep "look anxiety".

After the first episode of "Hear Her Say" went live, it caused heated discussions, and countless women saw themselves in the heroine. The comments on

barrage are constantly brushed: "It's true, so am I" and "I have said all my thoughts." A Douban netizen from

said: “This episode is only twenty minutes and I watched it while eating. I feel a little depressed, a little relieved, sometimes I want to laugh, sometimes I want to cry." The 20-minute monologue of

hits contemporary times. Female pain points. Some girls' anxiety about looks and figure has almost become a sickness.

There was a girl like this in my circle of friends. She almost changed her face when she looked at her beautiful face. I did not feel the beauty, I only felt distressed, the cautious, unconfident heart behind the photo. They use makeup and PS as masks to gain a sense of security under heavy disguise. The thicker the disguise, the more vulnerable their hearts are hidden inside.

But, is it wrong to pursue whiteness, thinness, big eyes, sharp chin, and care about your appearance? Of course

does not.

must admit that this is indeed the mainstream aesthetic of the moment. Heart of beauty in everyone. The pursuit of beauty is the same both at home and abroad, men and women, young and old.

But, most people are like this, is this the only correct? Moreover, in the long river of time and space, the "mainstream aesthetic" has been flowing. Different times and countries have different mainstream aesthetics, and they are constantly developing and changing.

Zhao Feiyan in the Han Dynasty is a delicate beauty that can "dance on the palm"; the broken arm Venus of ancient Greece is a powerful and healthy beauty. During the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period, there were kings of Chu who liked "slim waist"; in the Victorian era, there were also ladies who were waisted. In the Renaissance paintings, the Mona Lisa were plump; in the Tang Dynasty paintings and pottery figurines, Yang Yuhuan was also plump and plump.

Even from the perspective of China in the past 40 years, the "mainstream aesthetic" is also changing. In the 1980s and 1990s, represented by Zhong Chuhong, Liu Xiaoqing, Chen Chong, and Gong Li, they were characterized by smooth facial features, plump breasts and fat buttocks. To this day, the standards of beauty have gradually become big eyes, clear snake faces, A4 waist...

The current aesthetic mainstream can be summarized in three words: white, thin, and young. From SNH48, Rocket 101 girls and other "girl group" members, to the new stars of X girls unearthed by big directors in recent years, they are almost all representatives of this aesthetic style.

Under this mainstream aesthetic standard, many women are trapped and become anxious about their appearance and figure.

In "Talk Show Conference", talk show actors Yan Yi and Yan Yue complained about women's body anxiety everywhere, "As long as you go online, you will have countless opportunities to feel fat" "Why should I put a coin on my collarbone" "...Self-deprecating, behind the humor, is it a mockery of the only standard of the moment? Under this standard of

, even the former goddesses Gong Li and Lin Qingxia are no exception. Not long ago, the scene of Gong Li shopping with her husband was photographed, and many netizens wore her figureComment on the head and the foot: "Blessed figure" and "swarthy skin".

I'm not against Bai Shouyou's aesthetics. There are many fans of Ju Jingyi and Hatsune Miku around me, and I think this is what the ideal beauty is. But there are also men who adhere to other aesthetic standards, some who like sisters, and some who like BBW (big beauties)...Z3z

Da Zhang Wei once said that he likes girls who are like New Year dolls. People really agree with words and deeds, his wife is like this.

A few days ago, singer Jiang Yingrong was evaluated for high body fat. She directly countered "women shouldn't only be white and thin", which triggered discussions on social networks. Bai Shouyou is just one kind of aesthetic style. We live in an open and tolerant modernity. Respect for the "other" and allow things different from ourselves should be the most basic ethical spirit.

I want to say to those girls who are in "appearance anxiety" that they don’t need to modify their photos to look like "ideal", and they don’t need to dress themselves up as the type that others expect. Beauty should not be single, everyone Has its own beauty.

I am not opposed to "white thin young", what I am opposed to is "must have to".

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