remembers chasing "Zhen Huan's Biography" for the first time, and especially admires Zhen Huan's EQ and IQ. Watching her fight back in the process of "blackening", she was hooked again and again. Later, I played the drama again, and I was more enamored with the "blackening" of Shen Mei Zhuang.
The "blackening" of Shenmeizhuang is actually a reversal of the trials of the world, from gentle and forbearing to insight into personnel and decisive reversal.
The first half of the life of the gentle and tolerant girl
Shenmeizhuang can be called a smooth wind. His father was the Jeju Association leader, and his grandfather held an important position in the capital, and his family was distinguished. She has read poems and books since she was a child, looks dignified and generous, and speaks politely, demonstrating the dedication of the ladies. The
family's education for her is traditionally virtuous and virtuous, and she also deeply agrees.
Before the draft, her mother and several aunts gave her a "pre-examination" training: the aunts told her, "The waist is softer, the emperor will like it", and her mother also warned her that if the emperor asked you what books you read, Don't answer "Mencius" and "Zuo Zhuan", but answer "Nv Ze" and "Nv Xun", because the emperor's draft is to enrich his harem, not to choose the female champion. When
first entered the palace, the emperor praised her for her generosity and dignity, and the queen mother praised her for being sensible, and soon she was favored by the holy. But Shen Meizhuang is still cautious and self-sufficient, tolerant and virtuous, and does not compete with others everywhere. Under the instructions of the emperor, he studied and managed the affairs of the harem seriously, and he also actively proposed effective solutions for the management of the harem. At this time, Shen Meizhuang's life goal is to "intent to cultivate virtue and be gentle and virtuous".
Shen Meizhuang's ideal of love is "I wish to have one person's heart, and the white head will not be separated". Although I knew in my heart that the emperor could not be dedicated, but when Zhen Huan was favored, Meizhuang still stayed up all night.
"Anyway, there will always be people in this palace. Instead of someone else, I would rather be you." This sentence is what Mei Zhuang said to Zhen Huan, but it is more like Mei Zhuang said to himself to comfort himself. There is so much helplessness and tolerance for love. Even if
is calculated by others, Shen Meizhuang is always at the forefront.
One night, Concubine Hua invited Meizhuang to teach her how to administer the Sixth Palace. She asked her to copy the account books in the palace and used a few candles as an excuse to remind the emperor to save money. After the copy, Concubine Hua thought that the copy was not good enough and asked Meizhuang to copy it again, and at the same time let the two candles be put out. Meizhuang was in the dim palace, and after finally finishing the copy, he was allowed to go back. The girl beside her complained for her, but Mei Zhuang told his maid that the book had been copied, and it would not be worth the loss to tell the emperor.
When forbearance becomes a habit, is it not a kind of sadness, love is so, and so is human affection.
How many girls around us are like Shenmeizhuang, who are well-behaved and sensible, listen to their parents, don't let their parents worry about them, and become good wives and mothers after they get married and give all their efforts to the family.
They are very docile and virtuous. They organize their homes in an orderly manner, take care of their husbands and children comfortably, and forget about themselves.
They are very tolerant. They have worked for the family for many years, but they have also lost the freedom to choose the vast world outside and the possibility of being themselves.
They have no income, but they are doing the most demanding work in the world; they are open throughout the year, but they are regarded as pampered; they occasionally complain, but they are said to be "to put a good day, but too much!"
In the heart of a docile girl, there is a soul that has been depressed for a long time.
The awakening after the false pregnancy event
Meizhuang was favored as soon as she entered the palace, and the emperor let her learn to manage the sixth house, which aroused the envy of the concubine Hua. An incident of "fake pregnancy competing for favor" caused Shen Meizhuang's life to fall into a trough. What Mei Zhuang didn't expect was that the man who had loved him so much didn't even give himself a chance to argue, and personally pushed her into "hell." After being confined, Meizhuang's heart was ashamed. What saddened her most was not the child who didn't exist, but the emperor never really believed her.
How deep the love is, how deep the hurt is. After seeing the true face of the emperor's love, Shen Meizhuang clearly realized that in this huge palace, the emperor was not the one he could rely on. He can not only make you spoiled and prosperous for a while, but also can take all this away in an instant, and put you in the most miserable situation.
Shen Meizhuang’s education at home is centered on seeking the emperor’s favor. The mother and aunts told her how to please the emperor, but they never told her how to save herself in the intriguing harem. At this moment, Shenmeizhuang had to start to reflect,Is the "man for heaven" tutoring that I have received since childhood really correct? After the
false pregnancy incident was clarified, Mei Zhuang looked particularly cold in the face of the emperor’s goodwill, and politely rejected the emperor several times. "I'd rather die by holding the incense on the branch, and never blow it down in the north wind", Mei Zhuang understood that since this feeling made him live so humble, don't worry.
When the imperial physician Wen Shichu gradually walked into her heart, she chose this beautiful love without hesitation.
When she was lingering with Wen Shichu through the warm love wine sent by the Queen Mother, she was no longer the mature, gentle, obedient girl. Today's Shen Meizhuang wants to live for himself thoroughly! More importantly, I fell in love with Wen Shichu by following my inner feelings, giving myself a feeling of sustenance in this harem with melancholic feelings. Don't say she is unbearable. Is there any choice for women of that era? In terms of her relationship with Wen Shichu, I admire her courage and determination. "Blackening"
, being your own master The "blackening" of
Shenmeizhuang is not foolish and brave. Every step she takes is carefully designed and full of wisdom. The "stable", "accurate" and "ruthless" style of acting makes people can't help but exclaim that the most scheming person in the harem is actually the "blackened" Shenmei Village! Fortunately, she sees through everything and disdains to fight for favor, otherwise, even this "Gong Dou Champion" Zhen Huan would not be her opponent.
First, look for backers in the palace again. After all,
is the imperial concubine, bearing the honor and disgrace of her mother's family on her back, and her mission does not allow herself to be silly. Shen Meizhuang now knows the way of survival of the harem very well. If he is not favored, there will be no backing in the harem and the situation will be dangerous. In the harem, the status of the queen mother is unshakable, if there is no emperor's favor, then you can only rely on the queen mother.
So Shen Meizhuang often speaks with the Queen Mother, and when the Queen Mother is ill, she ran before and after, taking care of her. The Queen Mother's first impression of Meizhuang was very good, and her ice and snow was smart, and she was highly regarded by the Queen Mother.
Because of the blessing of the Queen Mother, Shenmeizhuang was not implicated when Zhenhuan Group was unlucky.
was able to speak before the mother, so that Zhen Huan was protected from bullying by the aunts in the temple while practicing at Ganlu Temple.
Secondly, he is determined to be cruel and meticulous.
asked the emperor to severely punish Concubine Hua in order to kill Concubine Hua. When Concubine Hua set fire to pieces of Yuxuan, he deliberately burned his arm. Even Zhen Huan felt distressed when she saw it.
Zhen Huan's father was seriously ill in Ning Guta and no one was cured. Mei Zhuang asked Wen Shichu to give Princess Wen Yi medicine to make her fever, and then went out of the palace to tell Zhen Huan the news in the name of praying for the princess.
said that there was no one in the Qin Tianjian, Mei Zhuang smiled and said to Zhen Huan, "What's the difficulty? People eat whole grains, where can anyone get sick?" It didn't take long for the Qin Tianjian to change hands. Become a "owner".
Every time he faces a major crisis and needs to protect the people he cares about, Shen Meizhuang is always able to achieve meticulous thoughts, vicious methods, and direct goals.
Third, let the emperor be the successor.
Shen Meizhuang and Wen Shichu had a secret knot. In order to give birth to a child in a fair way, they made a small plan to coax the emperor around with just a bracelet. "The bracelet was lost. It didn't matter at all, but the bracelet was rewarded by the emperor when he first entered the palace. The bracelet was lost, but I couldn't lose it." See how skillful these words are! The emperor was a suspicious person by nature, and he didn't even doubt her at all. Although
was later spotted by An Lingrong, he suffered a bloody death after giving birth to a child, but he strengthened his natal family. Father Shen Zishan had a princess' granddaughter, and he had a patron in the palace.
once saw a comment about Shen Meizhuang on Weibo, saying that she is the most decisive woman in the play, and there is no one. The audience can give such a high evaluation to the young master Mei Zhuang, I think, maybe she has lived a life that many people want to live but dare not live.
teaches you to be your own heroine
In fact, looking around us, there are so many women struggling in the difficulties of their lives, tired and confused but still bravely moving forward. They stumbled all the way, like Shen Meizhuang, from a meek and forbearing little girl to a wise, courageous and able to control their own life. Of course,
does not encourage every woman to follow the example of Shen Mei Zhuang in "Zhen Huan Biography", after all, her time and environment are too restrictive for women. When choosing to enter the palace, Shenmeizhuang had no retreat. She can only holdWithin the scope of her control, she worked hard to protect the love that supported her. It doesn't matter if she is "scheming" or she is "unbearable". When she faced Wen Shichu's concern with a faint hint of shyness and happiness on her face, I knew that no matter what the outcome of this life is, she was worth it.
"I can't ask for it, but I ask for it." When you feel that you are confined to Xiaotiandi and cannot move forward, you should look back at your own heart: whether you have acquiesced to this way of obedient behavior and accustomed to the life of boiling frogs in warm water; whether you are too afraid of the outside world and break your own With flying wings, but in turn complained that others never gave him freedom. The process of "blackening"
is full of struggle and determination. How can "blackening" make our lives better? When
decides to truly live for himself, it not only requires courage, but also wisdom and strength to support it.
First of all, stop believing in the nonsense that "men are responsible for making money and supporting the family, and women are responsible for being beautiful and beautiful". "I raise you" is the most poisonous oath, it will only make women without financial status fall into the dust.
Women must have an independent job and financial resources. Don't care about the amount of money, it is about whether you have an independent personality and the confidence to live. Even if you can't go out to work at the moment, you must have a skill to be able to take care of yourself, and be able to take care of yourself and your family in case of emergencies.
Second, in the world of love, when you meet the right person, you must know how to cherish it; when you are unhappy, you should be able to leave unhurriedly. How does
know if he is the right person?
People who truly love you can give you the courage to be yourself and accompany you to become a better version of yourself, instead of wasting your youth.
And those men who always criticize you and use language violence to suppress you to gain a sense of self-superiority, the farther away from them, the better.
Third, "Being kind to yourself and life requires a little idealism and proper self-centeredness". Only a woman with an interesting brain can truly enjoy life.
can be a spring day, go out in the wild to basking in the sun and chat, without having to worry about family dinner;
can be a lazy late morning, listening to music in the kitchen while making a delicious breakfast Lunch, instead of worrying about the pile of laundry in the washtub;
can also be reading a favorite book quietly under the lamp in the middle of the night, without having to worry about where the husband who has not returned home is talking about the wine... ····Z1z
Today's women pay more and more attention to self-growth, and pay more and more attention to the quality of marriage and the quality of life. They can not only manage the happiness of the family with their heart, but also dare to say "no" to unhappy marriages. This is undoubtedly an improvement in the growth of women. Life is a spiritual practice. To realize self-worth and live out the true self is the tragedy that every woman must experience.
When struggling to get out of the darkest moments of life, facing the first rays of dawn on the horizon, and showing a confident smile, I want to say sincerely to those brave and lovely sisters: You, the "black" look is so beautiful !
About the author: Shui Zhimei, a student of Tang Xiaoxiao's writing class, a junior high school tutor, likes to write, read books, and chase dramas.
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