Deng Chao, in addition to being an excellent actor, is also a famous filial son in the entertainment industry. Others said: "A real mother is a real mother, and a mother-in-law is not a mother!" Deng Chao disagrees. After marrying Sun Li for so many years, he has not only been filial to his mother, but also very caring for his mother-in-law, which made people stand up. thumb!
Deng Chao in real life not only has the sensitive, delicate, smart and handsome characteristic of southern boys, but he also has the open and generous personality of North-South boys. So Deng Chao has always been very real, without any pretentiousness. He is a sunny boy who sings to make everyone around him happy even when he is depressed. Every time Deng Chao’s relationship with his mother-in-law is mentioned, Deng Chao’s eyes seem to be full of warmth...
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Deng Chao and Sun Li are in love with each other because of the drama. After the drama "Happiness is Like a Flower" was completed, the two decided by the way. Love relationship. At that time, Sun Li did not inform her mother of the relationship at the first time, because her mother Deng Lifang always wanted her to find a husband in Shanghai, but Deng Chao was from Jiangxi. Obviously Sun Li himself knew that Deng Chao was not satisfied. Mother's choice of son-in-law request.
Deng Chao is 3 years older than Sun Li. When Deng Chao was 29, he asked Sun Li to marry him. At this time, Sun Li felt that this matter could not be kept secret, so she mustered up the courage to tell her mother Deng Lifang everything. On the one hand, Sun Li's mother divorced very early, and Deng Lifang took a lot of hardship to bring Sun Li up. Although Deng Lifang was dissatisfied with Deng Chao at first, but after all, she couldn't hold back her daughter in love.
"Auntie, don't worry that Sun Li will marry out of town. I promise you that if you agree to our marriage, we will settle down in Shanghai in the future and take good care of you!" After hearing Deng Chao's words, Deng Lifang Naturally, his heart is more at ease. Through just a few days of getting along, Deng Lifang gradually changed his attitude in terms of personality and character. In the year of Deng Chao’s 30th birthday, he and Sun Li obtained a marriage certificate in Shanghai.
After obtaining the certificate, Deng Chao and Sun Li really bought a house in Shanghai and settled down. In the second year, they had their son Deng Hanzhi. From her daughter's pregnancy to the birth of a child, Deng Lifang was always with her. It stands to reason that this was originally the matter of Huang Meishang, who was Deng Chao’s mother, but unfortunately, Deng Chao’s father passed away this spring. Huang Meishang, who has never been out of the shadow of his father’s loss, has been in a depressed mood during that time. Of course, Sun Li's family also understood very well, so Huang Mei only came to Shanghai for a visit before returning to her hometown.
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Although Sun Li asked a nanny to take care of her daily life when she was pregnant, but as a mother, Deng Lifang could not believe that outsiders, so after Sun Li gave birth, Deng Lifang has been taking care of her grandson at her daughter's house. Six months after the birth of his son Deng Hanzhi, Sun Li and Deng Chao also returned to the crew to film again. While the young couple are moving forward in their careers, all family matters are entrusted to the mother-in-law.
No matter how busy or tired you are outside, every time you come home from the filming, you will say a greeting to your mother-in-law: "Mom, you have worked hard. Whatever you want to eat today is up to you, don't worry about money!" That's what Deng Chao said, but Deng Lifang, who has always been diligent and thrifty, could not be willing, but it was hard to refuse, so every time she chose a small restaurant not far from home. When he returned home, Deng Chao often bought a lot of fruits and desserts for his mother-in-law.
Of course, Deng Chao not only pays attention to food, but also often discusses with Sun Li which shopping mall to take his mother to buy clothes. I was afraid that I would not buy it to my mother's wishes, so I often pestered Sun Li to buy it with him. From the eyes of friends and neighbors around, they all thought this was Deng Chao's real mother! However, when they knew the inside story, they sighed: "This is not your mother, why are you so kind to her!"
Every time he hears such remarks, Deng Chao will say happily: "Mother-in-law is also a mother. Besides, she is so old and busy all day long for our little family. It feels like she is a little bit intolerant of being kind to her. I naturally have to respect her more." When these words reached Deng Lifang's ears, she said In my heart, I also feel that all my efforts are worthwhile. Sun Li gave birth to another daughter in 2104. This time, Huang Mei also went to Shanghai to take care of her granddaughter.
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When two mothers are in the same room, many problems also follow. Because the two people have very different personalities and family concepts, especially when it comes to taking care of their grandchildren, the two will inevitably stumble. Although this is a matter of cleaning up, it is ultimately for the stability and harmony of the family. As the head of the family, Deng Chao is bound to do something. The mother-in-law didn't have much to say, so Deng Chao had to get rid of his own mother, Huang Mei.
"Mom, please bear with me. Before you came, this house was supported by your mother-in-law alone. We should be more tolerant of others. I am not saying who is right and who is wrong. It is normal for your relatives to have conflicts. But after all, I can't see and see, I just want to make this family happier, right!" Deng Chao was on the side to relieve his mother Huang Mei, while Sun Li was not idle. He often talked to his mother Deng Lifang to resolve her prejudice against her mother-in-law.
So not long after, whether it was mother-in-law Deng Lifang or mother Huang Mei, they understood the hard work of the young couple from the bottom of their hearts, and the two quickly shook hands and made peace. In the year when Deng Han was in primary school, Huang Mei also told Deng Chao that she missed Deng Chao's brothers and sisters who lived in Nanchang. Deng Chao understands his mother very well, so when he sent his mother away, he also asked: "Don't miss us too much, take care of your body. We will visit you when we are not so busy!"
Since her mother left, Deng Lifang I often chant in Deng Chao's ear: "She doesn't know how well she is over there. When can you get away and pick her up again, we can talk more and get closer and closer." Hearing this, Deng Chao often persuaded his mother-in-law: "She actually doesn't want to come over to live, but she has always been in poor health. She is afraid that coming here will not only help you, but will also cause you trouble." Listen After Deng Chao's words, Deng Lifang turned her head and called Huang Mei, complaining to her: "What do the family say?"
Summary
As of now, her mother-in-law has stayed at Deng Chao's house for more than 9 years. In such a long nine-year time together, Deng Chao has never blushed with this mother-in-law, and on many things, Deng Chao is very happy to listen to the advice given to him by the mother-in-law who came over.
Who says that a real mother is a real mother, and a mother-in-law is not a mother anymore. In Deng Chao's view, mother-in-law Deng Lifang is better than a real mother. May I ask, why can't we embrace happiness in such a family environment? mutual encouragement! The pictures in
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