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Recently, Jane Zhang was on the hot search because of a performance error. Her gossip boyfriend Chen Qiushi wrote a small composition to help her out, and the words between the lines revealed the distress and consideration for Jane Zhang.
Chen Qiushi and Zhang Jingying have been rumored for more than a year, because Zhang Jingying did not admit or deny, everyone thought they were just friends.
did not expect Chen Qiushi to write a small composition from the perspective of her boyfriend, indirectly acknowledging their lover relationship, and everyone sent blessings.
Zhang Liangying's emotional experience has been twists and turns. When she debuted, she and her boyfriend Feng Ke were together, and they started a company together.
Zhang Liangying trusts Feng Ke very much, and Feng Ke manages all her income. Even if she goes downstairs to buy a cup of coffee, she can't even pay.
Feng Ke bought a villa, drove a luxury car, and even suspected cheating. Zhang Liangying’s mother saw all this. She reminded her daughter many times that after no results, she even made media exposure.
Zhang Jingying and Feng Ke talked for 12 years. She wanted to have a result, so she put aside the girl's restraint and took the initiative to propose to Feng Ke in the audience.
Feng Ke's attitude was very strange at the time. He spent a minute in the audience, then reluctantly went on stage and gave a few perfunctory words before stepping down.
Zhang Liangying cried at that time. Their feelings were on the verge of breaking up without getting married. Under pressure, Feng Ke and Zhang Liangying got married. What's interesting about
is that there was Chen Qiushi in the best man group of Zhang Liangying's wedding, which shows that Chen Qiushi and Feng Ke also knew each other.
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Chen Qiushi is the violinist of Zhang Jingying's concert. They are very good partners at work and very good friends in life.
Zhang Liangying and Feng Ke’s wedding, Zhang Liangying’s mother did not attend, and this hard-won marriage left within a year.
Zhang Liangying stayed in the hotel for five months, and the relationship with her mother was also cleared up. In her downturn, Chen Qiushi gave her warmth.
may be too high-profile in the last relationship, Zhang Jingying, who has a new relationship, will no longer open his relationship or show affection. In addition to being Zhang Liangying's important music partner, Chen Qiushi is also a classmate of Zhang Liangying's good friend Wang Zhengliang's wife.
was worried that Zhang Jingying would be let down again, Wang Zhengliang even issued a post questioning Chen Qiushi.
It’s just that Jane Zhang is no longer the innocent girl she used to be. She has the ability to judge the sincerity of this relationship.
Time can prove everything. Just look at Chen Qiushi's small essay maintaining Zhang Jianying and you know that Chen Qiushi is serious.
Zhang Liangying comes from a single-parent family and has lived with her mother for many years. She suffered a lot before she became famous, and she also lacked a sense of security.
Zhang Liangying chose Feng Ke, who is much bigger than herself, because she fancyed him for maturity and stability to make up for the lack of paternal love.
However, reality taught her a lesson. She used twelve years of youth and wealth as the price in exchange for a bloody lesson.
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Next, let me analyze the three suggestions I gave you when choosing a mate, each of which is the truth.
First, don't let down your self-esteem easily.
As the saying goes, poles are not business, but they are also suitable for marriage and love.
If you love someone, you must keep this love in your heart, not always on your face. For him, willing to let go of everything, including self-esteem.
Ideal is plump, but reality is skinny. Facts have proved that what is unavailable is always in turmoil, and what is favored is always confident.
Zhang Jingying is a shining star. She is willing to put down her self-esteem and propose marriage in order to get someone.
At this moment, she has already lost, the more humble one party loves, the other party will be arrogant.
Just imagine, if he really loves her, he will not drag her away from marrying for 12 years. When facing a marriage proposal, he has no surprises, only panic.
I like a lyrics by Fan Xiaoxuan very much. If you love me, you will come to me and you will know that I can't live. Girl
, if he really loves you, he won't have the heart to see you sad, and won't let you put down your self-esteem and ask him. When you don't even have self-esteem for him, it just happens that he doesn't love you that much.
Remember, protect your self-esteem, and find someone who loves you like your life.
Second, don't pay the money casually
The biggest failure of Zhang Jingying and Feng Ke's relationship is that Feng Ke is in charge of her economic power, which is also the inducement of their emotional deterioration.
Some people say that men who spend money on women have almost no sense of responsibility. The most important thing in marriage is a sense of responsibility. A man with a sense of responsibility will become the pillar of the family. A man without a sense of responsibility will only hide behind a woman.
Giving money to a man is equivalent to cultivating his likes and dislikes. Marriage is a lifelong event. You have to face the trivial matters of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea. Once you have a child, you have more things.
Find a responsible man, he will be responsible for making money to support the family, sheltering you from wind and rain, rather than thinking about how to get something for nothing.
If marriage is divided into three classes, first-class marriage men make money and women housekeepers, second-class marriages are under the AA system, and the third-class marriages are where women make money and give them to men. It is true that men and women are equal before marriage, but at this stage of pregnancy and childbirth, it is destined that women need more sense of security than men, and women housekeepers will have a higher sense of happiness at home.
Third, not overly dependent on the relationship between Zhang Jingying and Feng Ke,
, is a dependence and too much control. The best sense of proportion in the relationship between men and women is independence and dependence.
Dependence is a manifestation of intimacy, but excessive dependence is a pathological manifestation. No one can bear another's life.
It is better to rely on yourself than to rely on others, to rely on others by thinking, and to hand your own destiny into the hands of others. In the end, it is like boiling a frog in warm water, slowly losing the ability to live.
When you are weak, the bad guys are the most. Only when you are strong, you will not be underestimated.
Zhang Jingying, who left Feng Ke, is no longer the little girl who only promises and dare not call the shots.
Her aura is getting bigger, and people are becoming more and more confident. A self-improving woman has the ability to control her own destiny.
Yi Shu said that self-improvement and independence is the charm that a good woman can show herself. Z2z
Smart women must always understand that no matter who you are, whether you are married or not, it is better to be beautiful than to live beautifully.
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