"Thirty Only" is on fire, and there are three heroines on fire together, including Mao Xiaotong who has been silent for a while. The last time Mao Xiaotong appeared in the public eye was about her unreliable relatives and ex-boyfriend who was scumbag.
In 2018, a “popular actress refused to have a father” news caused an uproar on the Internet: a man named Li Chao accused his daughter of abandoning herself in a program for help , And asked for 50 million alimony. Who is Li Chao? Mao Xiaotong’s biological father, his daughter divorced his ex-wife when he was 2 years old and left the child to his ex-wife to raise the child alone. For decades, he ignored his wife and children. Seeing that his daughter became a star, he jumped out and performed a clumsy performance in front of the public like a clown. .
The most poisonous chicken soup in the world is "the world's parents." Look at Li Chao, you can't even call a "person", let alone "father" "Two words. At that time, Mao Xiaotong was cheated by his ex-boyfriend and his career was being criticized.
Li Chao made such a fuss. Although the film crew knew her innocence and hardships, they did not dare to use her easily to prevent investment. What ridiculous things her unreliable father did, which affected Mao Xiaotong’s style Comment, resulting in the new film not being released, investment was lost. Such negativity is undoubtedly fatal to an actress in her early career.
How did Mao Xiaotong do it? She said: "Life is a lemon, but I want to learn how to make this lemon into delicious lemonade." So, we saw her stunning appearance in the "New Dance Forest Convention", let Venus The "chair dance" was applauded by the film. So, she waited for Zhong Xiaoqin, who was gentle and brave, with clear and shiny eyes in "Thirty Only".
Mao Xiaotong has a terrible father, but fortunately, she met a great mother and did her best to give her a native family without any regrets. It is precisely because of his mother's persistence and bravery that Mao Xiaotong has achieved today's achievements step by step.
Native family, as the name implies, is the family in which we were born and grew up. And our current family is the child's native family. In a sense, what kind of native family we come from determines to a certain extent what kind of native family our children will go out of.
Parents in the 1970s and 1980s had almost no concept of family education. They were burdened by life for many years and were under pressure from their livelihoods. They had no time to pay attention to family education. Of course, they were not very good. Channels for them to learn. Therefore, most of them may yell at us, and their thinking patterns are also surprisingly similar: "I scold you because I love you!" "I beat you, and it's for your good!"
But we are young at that time, how helpless and fearful we were when we faced their faces twisted by anger...
Now, we have our own children, when When we have devoted all our efforts to raising children, if the children are not as good as we imagined, can we control our emotions and not yell at him? When we gave up some of our good hearts for the sake of our children, left the job that was on the rise, and returned to the family with a great sense of dedication and sacrifice, we found: "Everything I do is for his good, and how does he I can't always do what I want." At this moment, we can hold back our dissatisfaction and not complain to our children or husbands?
Gradually, we may become people like our own parents. Childhood is a past that has already happened. It is a fait accompli. It is horizontal in front of us like a mountain, which can neither be ignored , There is no detour, let alone change.
The only thing we can do is to find the firewood stack, the riverside, the alley entrance in the deep memory, the thin and lonely thin figure with his back facing the light, approach him and hug He sincerely shook hands with him to make peace. If you don’t want your children to have such memories in future life, do thisThis kind of salvation should give him a different native family.
Wu Zhihong, a well-known psychological counselor, believes: "If parents just blindly seek out how to solve their children's problems instead of finding the causes themselves, the children's problems cannot be solved. Therefore, parents should This is the best way to grow up with your children." So, facing the various "growth troubles" of children, have you found the reason in yourself?
To reshape a culture and rebuild a life, there is a long way to go. On the road of raising children, what is a favorite? Every family has its own form of expression. But happiness and happiness are perceivable and need to be experienced in detail from every little thing. Only when feelings are soaked in the whole life can there be peace of mind at every moment.
We do not plan for the distant future, we just live in the real present and enjoy each other's true love. Only by learning to express love can our children know how to love and be loved, and all hopes for the future will come slowly in the long love.
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