I don’t know when people began to be ashamed of dedication, not only rejecting their own dedication, but also denying the dedication spirit of others.
Egoism has become the value orientation of current people.
Today George does not want to write about the gossip that he does not love her and he loves her in the entertainment industry, to talk about a heavy topic-"poverty".
Poverty was originally a helpless state of life, but now it has become a person's biggest shortcoming, and also the most unforgivable shortcoming.
When I wrote these two words, I felt very tender, because I just looked at the comment area of an article I posted yesterday, and many netizens left me with infinite emotion.
I saw the collision of two diametrically opposed values in the comment area, which alluded to the changes of the times. At the same time, several netizens left me with a deep sense of sadness.
Last night, I felt that in an article about the "Ordinary World" Sun Shaoan and He Xiulian about whether He Xiulian marrying Sun Shaoan is worthwhile, I wrote an article titled "The Ordinary World": How to evaluate He Xiulian? Her life pattern, self-interested people have no right to comment on the article, let’s look at the comments of netizens:
It’s a good sentence that people don’t serve themselves! This seems to be the most justified statement of many people's self-interest.
Some people use self-interested thinking to evaluate He Xiulian's feelings for Sun Shaoan, to evaluate the feelings of the couple. They think that He Xiulian married Sun Shaoan to marry a Phoenix man, and Sun Shaoan doesn't love He Xiulian at all. Sun Shaoan marries He Xiulian to take advantage of each other. , Suck each other’s blood to support their family and lead the villagers to get rich.
A netizen has already answered for me in the message area, and the answer is very good:
The saddest thing in this era is that a group of people with poor conduct will find various ways for their inferiority All kinds of excuses, and then trample on noble people for nothing. Then feel at ease that human nature should be like this.
George also replied to this netizen who shouted out the slogan of not for his own sake:
Someone can do what you can’t do, and someone can reach the height you can’t reach, you You can refuse to give, but please don’t face the greatness of others with sarcasm, let alone laugh at the cornerstone laid by devotees. No one accuses you of your self-interest, but please don’t be proud of your self-interest. It is very close to shameless.
I respect everyone’s choice in life. It’s not wrong for people to live for themselves, but if you deny or even slander others’ dedication to prove your own right, it’s not just selfish, but Shameless.
Back to the two words poverty I mentioned at the beginning, because the topic of "Ordinary World" He Xiulian's marriage to Sun Shaoan cannot be separated from these two words.
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About Love
Poverty is a state of life.
Some people are born into poverty, which has nothing to do with their personal qualities.
But because of poverty, it has become a shortcoming that he has to overcome throughout his life.
Sun Shaoan is such a man who has not voted well. Is it bad to blame him? No other reason can be found, this should be the only explanation.
He is tolerant and open-minded. He is responsible and responsible. He has many qualities that a good Chinese man possesses. Because of this, he got the love of two women.
Tian Runye and He Xiulian. But Tian Runye’s family background is too far apart from Sun Shao’an. In order to prevent his daughter from marrying Sun Shao’an, Tian Futang made mockery of Sun Yuhou and Sun Shao’an. Even if Sun Shao’an loves Tian Runye again, he is first of all a man. As a man, he With his due dignity, human dignity will not be half that of others because of poverty, but in order to survive, there is a choice.
Sun Shaoan was ridiculed by Tian Futang.Secondly, his own family background really cannot bring a good life to Run Ye. In addition, Tian Fujun’s future will also be affected by Tian Runye’s marriage. After many considerations, Sun Shaoan finally gave up Run Ye. This is something to see. The man's choice to the big picture.
Because of this, some people say that Sun Shaoan was afraid that Tian Runye would turn around after suffering from him but married He Xiulian, which is a use of He Xiulian.
If you ignore Tian Runye’s father’s position and Tian Fujun’s contribution to Shuangshui Village, if Tian Futang could recognize Sun Shaoan like He Xiulian’s father, how could Sun Shaoan not marry Tian Runye?
It is helpless for Sun Shaoan to give up Tian Runye. He married He Xiulian to completely put down Runye and let himself and Runye get out of this relationship that has no results and is not blessed.
However, the delay of the scholar can be taken off, and the delay of the woman can not be taken off. In ancient times, it is an indisputable fact that Sun Shaoan married He Xiulian to heal her emotional injury, and Run Ye married Li Xiangqian to fulfill the family's wish.
Her love for Sun Shaoan is almost paranoid. Sun Shaoan is an obsession that Runye can't let go of, because she can't let go of it, which has become her half-life pain.
Her suffering was not caused by Sun Shaoan, but by class differences.
Her family is Sun Shaoan, so you need to look up and see the height. This is the real gulf that is difficult to cross between them.
Therefore, many people say that Sun Shaoan gave up Tian Runye for fear of her suffering. Such a statement cannot be said to be wrong, but it is not comprehensive enough. In fact, Sun Shaoan has no choice at all in this relationship, he is only eligible to abstain.
If he marries Tian Runye, Tian Futang will hate him, and Tian Fujun’s future will be blocked by offending Li Xiangqian’s father. Sun Shaoan and Tian Runye will become sinners in the two families. This is an indisputable fact, Runye’s The second mother will spread all the grievances on Runye's head. Under this pressure, Sun Shaoan wants to develop the economy in the village more difficult.
Sun Shaoan married He Xiulian because both He Xiulian and her parents gave a great affirmation to Sun Shaoan. One must first be respected to talk about other aspects of happiness.
But here in Tian Runye, except for Tian Runye's love, what Sun Shaoan feels is the humiliation that comes from poverty. Pay attention, it is humiliation.
You may often see people scolding others to be poor B, but you will never hear the words "rich".
Why? Because poverty makes people feel shame, while being rich makes people feel confident and honorable.
is He Xiulian who made Sun Shaoan feel appreciated and affirmed like never before. This feeling of being absent due to poverty is what Sun Shaoan needs most. It is far more than love for Sun Shaoan. It is much more important.
Some people say that Sun Shaoan doesn't love He Xiulian, he loves Tian Runye.
What I want to say is that Tian Runye is Sun Shaoan's fond memories of youth, and He Xiulian is Sun Shaoan's life.
He and He Xiulian are the real couple in distress. However, in order to reveal the truth and cruelty of life, Lu Yao wrote He Xiulian to death. Many people understand her death as a disease caused by overwork. The poverty that Sun Shaoan was born with was Sun Shaoan's fate, so He Xiulian's early death was also her fate, which has nothing to do with Sun Shaoan's love for her.
There are a lot of happy people in this world who have left suddenly. We cannot blame their loved ones for not loving them enough.
Couples in distress are enviable, but at the same time they are also avoided by many people.
Because distressed couples are always paired with poverty.
Sun Shaoan's love for He Xiulian is no less than Tian Runye.
He gave He Xiulian enough trust, respect and loyalty. He knew that Tian Runye had never forgotten him, but he did not have anything to do with Runye. He was very rational and restrained. Sun Shaoan only Tian Runye regards it as a good memory in life.month.
In the memory of each of us, there is most of such a person, such a memory, is it because of this, what the lover around us now does to us is equivalent to being sucked by us ? Is the existence of the other party the result of our deliberate use?
People are always used to growing up in suffering.
Sun Shaoan's love for He Xiulian is even higher than that of Tian Runye. They not only have love, but also rise to the height of family affection, even their comrades in life. They have a common goal. They work hand in hand, not only changing their living conditions, but also leading the whole family and even the villagers in Shuangshui Village to get rich. Their feelings are like-minded feelings, which are higher than love.
Of course He Xiulian has given a lot, but her contribution is very clear, and her contribution is also willing. She was convinced by Sun Shaoan's responsible and daring qualities and willing to follow her husband to fight. Wife, what is worthless in your eyes is priceless in her eyes.
The best love is to complete each other. Sun Shaoan and He Xiulian complete each other. If this is not love, what is love?
Have a common life goal, act together and fight side by side, watching her husband’s happiness is her own happiness, this is He Xiulian’s love.
And many people think that Sun Shaoan should let He Xiulian live in a good house, eat well and be well-dressed when Sun Shaoan is rich. Only in this way is love. If Sun Shaoan is such a small man, how is it worth Tian Runye and He Xiulian? How about two good women to love without complaint?
The shining point of the character of Sun Shaoan is that he takes care of the overall situation. He has an overall view. Otherwise, a person who has not graduated from elementary school, why should a beautiful teacher miss it?
Ordinary His extraordinaryness lies in the greatness of humanity.
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About poverty
The noble person is noble because he has qualities that ordinary people do not have.
The so-called despicable is the pass of the despicable, and the noble is the epitaph of the noble.
It is everyone's right to choose how to live, but it is really shameless to maliciously denigrate the nobility of others in order to whitewash one's own bad deeds.
talked about his work and love with the little friend yesterday.
He has a girlfriend who has been talking about for nearly two years. Last year, two people had different opinions on buying a house, and they quarreled frequently and broke up. The most important reason is that the woman's mother thinks that his condition is not good.
The girl is a pure-minded girl, and he is a careful-minded person who refuses to give up his sincerity easily.
The two people broke up for a long time without forgetting each other, I advised him to find this love back.
He said something like this: Whenever the two of us touch interests, I always have selfishness, but she always treats me stupidly without any reservations. When we are with her, I have I have a deep sense of guilt, and I know myself, I can never give my heart to anyone completely, so I don’t want to carry this feeling to live forever.
He has been struggling from the bottom to the extent that he is now highly valued by the leaders in his unit. It is not easy to walk all the way.
He knows the feeling of poverty, and he has tasted the pleasure of money and power.
He said: If I put emotions and interests in front of me, I will choose interests without hesitation, but I respect people who choose emotions, after all, choices are different between people.
I said: If this goes on, you will hurt many people and you will be lonely.
He said: I will learn to enjoy loneliness, but I can't learn to endure poverty.
Learn to not tolerate poverty-this is a sentence that impressed me very much. I can feel his mood, and I can understand his choice.
But I am a completely different person from him, but this does not prevent us from becoming friends that we have made every year, becauseI can tolerate his values, and he also respects my choice.
We deliberately avoid conflicts of interest, so we are all friends so far. He will tell me many things he doesn't want to tell others. He said that this is something that you can't buy with money.
Everything will stay on the front line, and we will meet each other in the future. This is the bottom line he left for himself. He still has a part of his original intention with me. In my heart, he is still the one I just met ten years ago. A young man who is mature but still childish.
Poverty is terrible, but more terrible than poverty is lack of thought.
No one wants to be poor. In the process of expelling poverty, some people know how to share gains, some kick all competitors away, and some even use all means to achieve their goals, some people In order to chase fame and fortune as a criminal class............
Those who are as willing to share and contribute as Sun Shaoan, they have noble character, they have reached a height beyond our reach, and we as ordinary people, in order to change Struggling for personal fate, no one will blame us for being not noble enough, and no one will accuse us of being selfish, but at least we should have a grateful heart.
Sun Shaoan and He Xiulian showed his great character in the process of confronting poverty, and He Xiulian’s love for Sun Shaoan also includes understanding and support for his career, which is measured by self-interest and material desire. The so-called happiness is not a concept at all.
Value and non-value are determined by values. Judging from He Xiulian's values at the time, all her efforts were worthwhile.
If dedication is ridiculed, then we will enter a society controlled by capital. Poverty will become more terrifying. The poverty you avoid will be avoided by others. In the long run, Sun Shaoan and Sun Shaoping, who account for the majority of society, should Where to go?
The judgment of He Xiulian’s life and marriage has never bypassed the word poverty. If there were no people like Sun Shaoan and He Xiulian to give and give, we might not be able to keep the poor and talk about wealth. , And there is no chance to have a meal and nothing to do to laugh at the noble soul.
Because of hunger and poverty, it is a shame that needs to sacrifice the interests of some people to expel them.
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