Zheng Kai took his wife Miaomiao to participate in the couples reality show, Wife's Romantic Travel Season 6, when she was with Zheng Kai, Miaomiao was like his shadow and could not be separated for a moment. In the absence of Zheng Kai for several episodes, she obviously felt that Miaomiao was not adaptable. Maybe she was constantly adjusting herself in the process, and her mood was easy to fluctuate soon after giving birth. Finally, she couldn't help but cry in front of the camera and in front of all the wives. In the
program, Miaomiao seems to be unaccustomed to living alone without Zheng Kai by her side. From the previous program, it can be found that when Lu Yi appeared as a tour guide at the first stop and needed to sleep in a separate room with his wife, Miaomiao made it clear that she did not agree with her sleeping in separate rooms with her husband. Miaomiao's statement at that time was indeed inappropriate. She didn't care whether other people's husbands slept in separate rooms with their wives. She only asked Zheng Kai to be with her when he was a tour guide, which was a bit like a young lady's temper. Not only does it violate the principle of fairness among tour guides at each station, but also making such a willful proposal in front of several sisters who are obviously more qualified and famous than her, with a hint of Zheng Kai's bad temper of overly pampering her at home, can easily lead to the consequences of not being welcomed in the future.
In this episode, Miaomiao first separated from the crowd, hid and cried alone for a while. After returning to the team, no one came forward to comfort or ask questions. This shows that Miaomiao did not get along well with everyone before, and there may even be some estrangement, which may be related to some willful expressions before.
or Zhang Yunlong asked first, what they said, and Miaomiao cried in front of everyone that she was easily isolated, was not interested in a collective environment, and had no friends...
Perhaps it was this kind of frankness in some work environments where we didn't get along for a long time that made others recognize and accept Miaomiao again.
Chen Qiaoen and Liu Yun also generously shared their past experiences of not being liked by their classmates. Chen Qiaoen even admitted that he had no friends when he was a child and could only go to cemeteries to play. This was also a very special experience.
It seems that the previous cry has made Miao Miao open up. Not only is she relaxed mentally and emotionally, but she can always substitute the thoughts of a philosopher in her thoughts. Although she is the youngest among the wives, she said some concluding remarks in this program that make people reflect the most. The program team even gave her the title of "Sugela Miao".
It’s no wonder, even Zheng Jun and Lu Yi were joking on the sidelines. Maybe after a few days of journey, Miaomiao may become another person, maybe another person that even her good husband Zheng Kai doesn’t know, and a person with more independent thinking ability.
After seeing the experiences of Miaomiao and several sisters, many people will take on their own roles. Everyone will encounter strange people and strange environments from time to time during their growth. Social fear has become a common anxiety for many modern people. At the same time, like Miaomiao, they also worry about not being able to integrate into strange people and environments. The worst part of this is to be isolated like her.
Just like the enlightenment of my sisters, if you are ordinary enough, you will not be isolated, or you are too good, too alternative, have individuality, or have congenital deficiencies.
These may be the reasons for being isolated, but they should not be the fault of the isolated person. Being too good and being isolated is because of jealousy; being individual and different is because of not being tolerant; and being born deficient is because of discrimination. Either reason is due to the malice and limitations of that group. All people like Miaomiao need to do is accept themselves.