"As long as you don't agree, I won't marry her."
In March 2004, Huang Lei, who was already preparing to go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to get the certificate, suddenly called Rene Liu and told her that he was going to get the certificate with his wife Sun Li, who had been in love for 9 years.
Liu Ruoying was silent for a long time and replied with four words: " I wish you happiness ". After hanging up the phone, Huang Lei resolutely stepped into the grave of love.
Huang Duoduo was born the next year, and he became a slave to his daughter. In the next sixteen years, he spent tens of millions of education funds to create a genius daughter out of nowhere.
But when his third son was born, he began to worry unreasonably again, and even developed a heart problem. If not resolved, this worry would accompany him throughout his later years.
But looking back on the first half of his life, this sorrow is just another burden of happiness.
From a generation of romantic and artistic young people, he became a good man in the entertainment industry. Now, with the dedication of his wife, he is enjoying the joy of a family with "three sons embracing each other". Huang Lei has no regrets at all in his life!
In 1995, 24-year-old Huang Lei had just been admitted to graduate school and was ready to relax, so he took over the school's task of entertaining new students and stood in the crowd holding a small flag to shout.
When he called out the name of his freshman junior sister Sun Li, the response was a rough and bold middle-aged male voice. was startled and he immediately raised his eyes.
I saw a beautiful girl with long hair shawl, creamy skin, red lips and white teeth, wearing lavender trousers, a bright yellow cotton coat, and holding a small white umbrella in her hand.
, with his appearance and temperament, is so outstanding. , looking at it, he is definitely the best among the freshmen in this class.
Huang Lei was stunned for a moment, and countless pink love bubbles burst out from his head. But for the dignity of his senior brother, he tried his best to control his emotions. Only then did he notice that the person who had just spoken was Sun Li's father.
Sun’s father doted on his daughter at first sight. Even though he was carrying large and small bags, he still didn’t forget to help Sun Li register and find classes.
He immediately found a point to vent his anger, and stumblingly accused: "You girl, why do you let your father take so many things by yourself? You are so ignorant."
Sun Li's face instantly turned red when she was scolded. She glanced at the red sleeve tag on Huang Lei's arm and subconsciously thought he was a university teacher. She quickly apologized and took the sack from her father's hand.
Huang Lei didn't care about drinking . When he saw this, he immediately pulled the sack that Sun Li had just held firmly and asked to follow him. He escorted them all the way to the girls' dormitory before leaving.
This day was very embarrassing and embarrassing for Sun Li, but Huang Lei had a lot of aftertaste. He had been in many relationships during the four years of college, but this was the first time he had met a girl who made him so excited. After
, they met by chance intentionally or unintentionally, and left their contact information after two or three times. During that time, Huang Lei often asked Sun Li to buy snacks in the supermarket, and occasionally went for a walk in Ritan Park.
Two months later, Huang Lei learned from his roommate that there was a tall guy in the dormitory next door who was particularly attentive to Sun Li. He became anxious and invited Sun Li to the dormitory that night to express his love.
In order not to let his roommates affect his performance, Huang Lei invited them to a big meal early in the morning and asked them to make room for him.
After all, Sun Li is introverted and doesn't talk to herself very much. When she sees this group of big men, she will be so scared that she won't even dare to enter.
Looking at it this way, Huang Lei is quite considerate, but that's all. It was obviously a confession, but he didn't buy a bouquet of flowers, let alone prepare any snacks, and just chatted.
"Do you have a boyfriend?" Huang Lei's first sentence was so direct that Sun Li didn't say anything but lowered her head silently.
Huang Lei panicked, and was embarrassed that the confession was too sudden, but there was no way out at this point, so he added: "If you agree, just nod, if you don't agree, shake your head."
Sun Li nodded immediately and continuously. Despite her boring personality, she was also looking forward to this day in her heart. It was just a lady's reserve and shyness that made her feel a little at a loss when it was her first time to fall in love.
After confirming their relationship, the two began a nine-year love fairy tale. Early every morning, Huang Lei would prepare breakfast in advance, run downstairs to Sun Li's dormitory, and ride a 28-meter pole to pick her up from class.
In winter, knowing that Sun Li was afraid of the cold, she specially placed a small soft cushion in the back seat and put two bottles of hot milk in the two coat pockets.
In this way, while riding a bicycle, your lover can put his little hands in his clothes pocket to warm them while holding him.
When there is no class on weekdays, or on weekends, the two of them go to the movies, go on outings, and play some hobbies that young people like. Over time, they became Nortel's famous golden boys and girls.
However, no matter how sweet the love between two people is, it is difficult to get married in a short time.
Because one is a freshman and the other wants to stay in school as a teacher after graduate school, they both believe that youth is infinitely good and should not be bound by marriage.
In 1997, Huang Lei became an acting teacher at Beijing Film Academy. In four years, he trained 26 well-known actors including Hai Qing, Yao Chen, Lin Yichen, and Du Chun. During the
period, Huang Lei also signed a contract with Fenghua Records, teaching students while releasing albums. The popularity of his first album "Walking and Singing" earned him the title of " Literary Youth ".
Two years later, Huang Lei decided to return to his job. "April in the World" made him famous.
At this time, Sun Li had just graduated from college and was signed by Tangren Company, and began to appear in small roles in major TV series.
It was inevitable for them to have conflicts when they were both busy at work, not to mention that Huang Lei was often rumored to have scandals at that time.
For example, Alyssa Chia had just divorced her ex-husband, so she sent Huang Lei a text message saying "I miss her so much".
and Zhang Ruoying have been in contact through letters since they collaborated on " Lost Time ". When it was rumored that they were secretly in love, Huang Lei defined this relationship as the "fourth emotion."
Song Jia is not too big a deal to watch the excitement. The words of praise "Every young and artistic young woman in the 1980s has a Huang Lei in her heart" made Sun Li even more appreciative.
On Women's Day in 2004, in order to prove his love for Sun Li, Huang Lei directly dragged her to the Civil Affairs Bureau and received the first batch of marriage certificates without consulting her family in advance.
As for weddings, they are very free and easy. Only lay people care about the ceremony. They want to be the coolest trendsetter . There is no need for banquets or blessings.
In 2005, Sun Li kept vomiting and dizzy for no reason. After a hospital examination, she was told that she was pregnant.
She shared the good news with her husband that night. Huang Lei was so happy that he immediately quit most of his jobs. He concentrated on being Chef Huang and made Sun Li gain 60 pounds in ten months.
After Duoduo was born, Huang Lei advanced from a wife slave to a daughter slave. In order to train Duoduo to learn piano, he spent tens of millions to buy a European-style villa in Shunyi District, Beijing.
is just for children to be neighbors with musician Lu Siqing , and to have an artistic environment at the right time and place.
It is worth mentioning that Lu Siqing's son is Lang Lang 's favorite disciple. Since Duoduo moved to his new home, he and his son have become childhood sweethearts and often practice piano together.
In 2019, two children joined hands to compete in the Singapore International Piano Competition and successfully won five awards together.
When she reaches primary school age, Huang Lei spends 300,000 yuan on tuition every year and will send his daughter to an international aristocratic school.
When he reached high school, he sent Duoduo to Beijing Shunyi International School. This school has more than just tuition fees of hundreds of thousands.
They have a rigid requirement that they only recruit foreign students, and their parents are also required to be foreigners.
But Huang Lei still sent his daughter in. It is hard to imagine how much thought he put into his daughter at that time.
Huang Duoduo has lived up to his father’s efforts, with the support of tens of millions of education funds.
I can communicate with people in English at the age of three, read books in English by myself at the age of eight, write scripts in English at the age of nine, and dub foreign animations.
In addition to focusing on Duoduo's studies, Huang Lei also spends plenty of time with his daughter.
Since she was two years old, she has been taking her to participate in drama tours, thus invisibly burying her daughter's dream of being a drama actress.
In 2010, Huang Lei and Sun Li were putting on makeup backstage, while 4-year-old Huang Duoduo was holding two candies and sitting on a small bench next to her in a daze.
At this time, music suddenly started playing on the stage, and Duoduo was attracted to it. She walked through the dark side corridor of the Poly Theater and trotted all the way to the center of the stage.
The 1,400 audience members in the audience were all very curious about this little person who suddenly appeared, and even mistakenly thought it was an easter egg in the drama. Fortunately, the stage manager noticed her immediately and quickly picked her up.
That night, Huang Lei kept apologizing to Director Lai, but he was very generous: "You should not apologize, and you must not criticize her. You should remember that this is the anniversary of Xiao Duoduo's debut on stage."
This accident reminded Huang Lei. Afterwards, every tour, the young couple would be very alert. As long as one person puts on makeup, the other one will take care of the child.
In fact, Xiao Duoduo did it on purpose. She was born to like the drama stage.
Since there was no chance of sneaking onto the stage, she secretly memorized all the actors' lines and acted coquettishly to her father before every performance, begging for a chance to be on stage.
Huang Lei didn't want to dampen his daughter's enthusiasm, so he could only lie to her: "You are too young and too short. The audience can't see you when you stand on the stage."
But Duoduoduo was a brat, and one sentence made Huang Lei laugh: "Then you hold me and act."
In 2018, Huang Duoduo became a 12-year-old girl. She finally starred in her first drama "The Book in the Water" with the help of her father and uncle He Jiong.
Now four years have passed, Huang Duoduo has completely become Huang Lei's pride, except for the two major hardware advantages of piano and drama.
Violin , painting, poetry recitation, and story recitation have won awards, and she can also design skirts and make rings in private.
With such a daughter who has excellent academic performance and perfect artistic ability, Huang Lei's life has been worthwhile.
But unfortunately, his son has become a worry for him in his later years!
In 2013, Sun Li gave birth to a second daughter, named Huang Shaoai.
Although the little girl is not as talented as her sister, she is more quirky. She often fights wits and courage with Huang Lei and Sun Li in order not to go to bed early.
In 2017, the third child Lin'er was born in this family of four. Huang Lei was already 41 years old at this time. In another ten years, the child will be just ten years old.
This kind of age shock made Huang Lei annoyed for a time, why he had to have a third child so late.
When his child reached the rebellious stage, he was already sixty years old. If he wanted to educate him, he could only use his words. He could only think about "beating a filial son with a stick". After all, at that time, he was already so old that his body was so weak.
But what is even more poignant is that the child is in his prime, but he is already in his twilight years. He and his wife cannot arrange everything for him.
For a big life event like getting married, the three siblings can only deal with it by themselves, which is painful to think about.
Therefore, Huang Lei completely changed his concept of parenting. He no longer spared no effort in raising his eldest daughter. He pampered his younger son as much as he wanted.
He must use his utmost energy to give his son the best childhood and establish the best outlook on life for him, so that even if he is old, as long as he has two sisters to help him, he will not go astray.
Conclusion
Huang Lei once said: "Love is love, it will never turn into family love".
His mother and children are his relatives, but Sun Li will always be his wife, his lifelong lover and lifelong partner.
A successful woman may be a strong female boss, but for Huang Lei, Sun Li is the most successful lady in his mind.
Although she gave up her career as an actress early for the sake of this family, it was because of this dedication that she gave herself a family, which made him believe that marriage is not numb and useless, nor will it become more and more dull.
But a lifelong love, even at the last moment of life, each other is each other's loyal audience.
In order to commemorate his love with Sun Li, Huang Lei also specially published a family photo album to record the fleeting moments of happiness and preserve them as eternal memories.
Sun Li gave Huang Lei three lovely children. This wealth is far more valuable than the amount in the passbook!
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