Once upon a time, the song " Sunshine Always After the Storm and Rain" became popular all over the streets and alleys. The passionate melody of youth and inspirational lyrics have ignited the burning light in the dark life of many people.
But perhaps not many people know the singer of this song - Xu Meijing . At the beginning of the millennium, she became a first-line singer with this song, and even became the "Queen of the World" with Faye Wong .
However, more than 20 years later, "The Sunshine Always After the Storm" will still hum in people's mouths unconsciously from time to time, and those affected by it may have entered the third generation. But its singer Xu Meijing has almost disappeared from people's sight.
In fact, now she still appears on the street from time to time, singing the songs she used to. However, few people in the past could recognize her - it seems that the world of songs and the entertainment industry with bright lights and wine have completely forgotten her.
But in fact, life today may mean more of a rare peace for her. In a sense, it can be regarded as "sunlight after the storm".
As early as 2006, she was told by her doctor that she suffered from schizophrenia . Her life for a long time can be described as "unbearable to look back".
The reason why her life is so ups and downs is divided into two distinct parts, which is inseparable from the two men who occupy an important position in her life.
The so-called "love can make people lose their minds", Xu Meijing may be a living example. Her love may only bring her a short-term happiness, and a lifetime of disaster.
1974, Xu Meijing was born in Singapore, but at that time her parents named her " Xu Meifeng ", which should mean to hope that her daughter will become a phoenix. The name "Xu Meijing" was changed only after she debuted.
Her family is from Singaporean Chinese, and her parents are engaged in ordinary jobs and their family background is average. When she was elementary and middle school, she went to school step by step to study. If you want to tell me the difference between her children around her, it was probably because she liked singing very much since she was a child. And she has a good sense of music. She always shows off her skills at school.
. As we grow older, the future career development direction is no longer out of reach. Xu Meijing began to seriously consider the future, and she wanted to turn the music she liked into a job she relies on for a living.
The idea was unexpectedly opposed by the elders, but she did not give up and knew that she was not on a whim. And she was undoubtedly lucky, and she was favored by fate at the age of 18.
1992, Xu Meijing participated in the Miss Chinese Contest in Singapore and won the awards of Miss Photography and Miss Friendship for her beautiful appearance and sweet voice.
Although these two awards have nothing directly to do with music, they gave her the opportunity to be exposed in front of the media for the first time, laying the foundation for her future career as a singer.
After this, there will be some media events to invite her to attend. Once, she met Chen Jiaming at a party, completely rewritten her life path, and began to have a relationship with him for more than ten years.
That time, Xu Meijing was dressing up in the dressing room and hummed a song unconsciously. Chen Jiaming happened to pass by outside the door and was immediately attracted by the song, so he pushed the door open and looked for the person who sang.
As a result, it happened to hit Xu Meijing and change her clothes inside. She was so scared that she almost screamed when the door suddenly opened. Chen Jiaming quickly said "I'm sorry" and then closed the door.
wait for Xu Meijing to push the door out, and Chen Jiaming was still waiting outside. He apologized for his recklessness again and handed over his business card, expressing his appreciation for Xu Meijing's singing and felt that she would have a very good future in the future. He hoped that if possible, she would have the opportunity to cooperate in the future.
At that time, Chen Jiaming was already a famous music producer. His keen intuition told him that Xu Meijing must be a rare genius in music.
In the year, Xu Meijing participated in an event called "Looking for Superstars", where her singing skills impressed many seniors, and she also signed a contract with Jiahe Records.
At that time, this company was showing a booming momentum, and Xu Meijing's addition added new vitality to it. From that time on, Chen Jiaming officially became Xu Meijing's agent. Under his leadership, Xu Meijing quickly made her mark in the entertainment industry.
Then, a series of albums flew from Xu Meijing's recording studio to the market, such as "Repentance", "All Returning to the Night", and "A Friend", carrying the dream-like youth of a generation. And the familiar "The Sunshine Always After the Storm" is one of the songs in the album "All Returning to the Night".
Her songs often have a faint desolation in the peaceful melody, making people's hearts tremble slightly. She soon became a household name singer as her songs looped into the mouths of the singles.
From an ordinary person to a star will be a drastic change for anyone. For Xu Meijing, the subversive changes in life during this period may be more important than their careers, as well as their emotions.
The person who gave her the first understanding of love was Chen Jiaming.
can't tell who was moved first between them. Anyway, they were the tacit cooperation of one writing and one singing, the one charging forward and the other protecting the latter, allowing the delicate flowers to grow between the two of them. The name of this flower is love.
But the birth of this flower itself carries the original sin - Chen Jiaming has long been a husband. The author cannot be sure whether Xu Meijing is suspected of "knowing three to three" - maybe she really didn't know at the beginning, maybe she was unconsciously in love with the other person and was already in amazement.
At the beginning, they just spread their emotions in the office and secretly made small moves. This may be the best time in this relationship - after all, for every girl, the expectation of an ambiguous period may make people extremely sweet. Later, Xu Meijing was brave enough to confess to Chen Jiaming.
result Chen Jiaming refused at the beginning, citing his identity as a married man. While Xu Meijing was disappointed, she had to say that Chen Jiaming made the right choice.
If this matter ended here, it was just a story about a young girl falling in love with a married uncle. If she told her, Chen Jiaming would probably have to be praised, such as good men who stick to the bottom line and are loyal to marriage.
But unfortunately, Xu Meijing was in love at that time and didn’t know that some feelings could not be touched, while Chen Jiaming was just a hypocrite, or his former reason was still broken through under temptation.
They did not cut the mess quickly, but continued to have an ambiguous relationship. Then Chen Jiaming failed to control himself and broke through the boundaries, and then the two of them started to have an underground relationship.
This relationship is too shameful, but it does not affect their lingeringness. It may hide secretly, but instead adds the torment of expectation to the relationship, and then makes it look even more fascinating.
At least at that time, Xu Meijing was trapped in, only caring about the sweetness brought by this relationship, and selectively ignoring that it had broken through the moral bottom line, and never thought about what kind of future this shameful relationship would bring to herself.
Of course, the real problem will still be brought to my eyes: other young couples in love will always unconsciously talk about the future and what kind of wedding they will want, but these are topics between Chen and Xu, deliberately avoiding them in tacit understanding.
What Xu Meijing thought at that time was that as long as she could be with him, whether she had a status or not, I wouldn’t care whether she talked about the future!
Friendly, Chen Jiaming said that he would divorce and marry her, but he has always been just talking. Later, this incident was exposed by the media. It is conceivable that a married man cheated on a well-known singer, and the public's spit could drown the two of them.
At this time, Chen Jiaming lost his determination when he made a vow. Instead, he ran quickly with oil on his feet, leaving her alone to face the surging public anger.
This blow finally made Xu Meijing wake up. She decided to escape from this deformed love and leave this sad place. Later she met Yuan Yaofa , who is also a male singer.
The same interests and hobbies and similar life experiences made the two gradually have a good impression of each other, and then they naturally fell in love and lived together. Originally, Xu Meijing should have mustered up the courage to invest in a new relationship, hoping to usher in a future that can be expected.
It also started with a sweet beginning like an idol drama. The two of them vowed to make people feel like they had ended their hardships and found true love.
After a period of time, the enthusiasm slowly faded away. Yuan Yaofa devoted more energy to his work, giving Xu Meijing less and less companionship and less patience. The two of them are no longer as sweet as before, and quarrels happen from time to time.
Then Yuan Yaofa fell into a career crisis because he offended the company's senior management, and their relationship dropped to freezing point.
This made Xu Meijing feel a sense of crisis about this relationship, but what she did at this time was not to calm down and think carefully about whether the two of them were really suitable, whether this relationship was still necessary, nor to find time to sit down and chat with her boyfriend, but to try her best to catch Yuan Yaofa.
As the saying goes, the tighter the sand is, the faster it leaks, and in fact, the same is true for feelings. The more you please, the more you will make the other person feel that you care. You are sure that you will never leave, so you will become more unscrupulous.
Just at this moment, Xu Meijing found out that she was pregnant. She felt that this was a rare opportunity and could use her child to keep Yuan Yaofa.
But Yuan Yaofa probably had no intention of continuing this relationship. The arrival of the child only means endless troubles in the future for him, so he asked Xu Meijing to abort the child.
Xu Meijing naturally refused and begged hard, but this resulted in Yuan Yaofa's worsening, or it was just that his nature was exposed - his temper became worse and worse, and he even began to fist and kick Xu Meijing.
The physical pain finally made Xu Meijing wake up again and escape again. And this time, she seemed to have reached the end of her journey - with scars on her body and a heart full of holes. There has been no big breakthrough in my career for a long time.
During that time, Xu Meijing focused on charity work. She paid attention to the education and growth of children in remote mountainous areas. After the Wenchuan earthquake, she actively participated in charity activities and donated money. Perhaps she also gained inner redemption by helping others.
The calm days didn't last long. Maybe it was because I heard that Xu Meijing broke up with her boyfriend, and Chen Jiaming appeared again.
He called Xu Meijing and said that he had divorced. He said that he loved the only one of his favorite people from beginning to end. He is now in Singapore, so that they can be together openly in the future.
Xu Meijing then realized that many years have passed and she has never forgotten this man and believed him again. It was only when I flew over and found out that Chen Jiaming had not divorced at all. His wife also came out to clarify to the media that divorce was a rumor, and the couple were living well!
It has come to this point, and Xu Meijing has to admit that the man she has loved for so many years is just a complete scumbag - he will never give up his family, but he can't control his desire to find a lover outside. Sweet words are just his way to stabilize women. And she, Xu Meijing, is just the target of others playing with.
This time Xu Meijing walked firmly, but she was even more scarred. Her spirit began to become abnormal. In 2006, she was taken away by the police in a big quarrel in the hotel. It was rumored online that the cause was that the hotel guests insulted her. She asked someone to apologize and started causing trouble.
In the end, she was diagnosed by the doctor and replaced by schizophrenia, which became the biggest melon in the entertainment industry that year, and basically became the last impression Xu Meijing left in the public's hearts.
Now, she has basically disappeared from the public's sight. Occasionally, either the guests at the party don’t attract much attention, or they occasionally sing songs that brought themselves into the glorious era on the streets, as if recalling those youth. However, those years are really like sad songs, loneliness, pain, and cannot heal.
In fact, if Xu Meijing had not met Chen Jiaming, she might not have been as popular as she later, but she would not have had the ups and downs in her relationship. Isn’t it a kind of happiness that she will grow up with her favorite music in a peaceful life?
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