Sisters who love to watch cool dramas must not miss " Wind Blowing Pinellia ". I especially hope that sisters who are immersed in love, hate, and love will take a look! If you still have the dream of getting rich overnight, learn from Xu Banxia and focus 98% of your energy and courage on your career!
The Douban score of this drama is now 8.4, which is already a relatively high score as a domestic drama. Although it is still a drama about the heroine, it is also a group scene, and every supporting role is flesh and blood. Moreover, there are no absolutely good people or the Virgin White Lotus in this drama, which makes you feel comfortable to watch.
Why do you think women should watch this drama? Because as a successful female entrepreneur, Xu Banxia is as impulsive as a man and regardless of consequences, but she is also as tenacious as a woman and does not care about the so-called face! Girls should learn from Xu Banxia's courage to achieve their goals without any consequences.
1. Making money is the most important thing. Don’t care whether you are a woman or a man.
Xu Banxia was originally a college student in the 1980s and 1990s. She was very proud at that time, but in order to integrate into the circle of those native bosses, she directly concealed her education. What’s the point of face? It’s just that local bosses can take her to make money. It is even more amazing in the novel. She directly eats herself for 200 pounds, so that others will not regard her as an ordinary woman, which can save a lot of trouble. For example, Feng Yu's wife will not worry that something will happen to her and Feng Yu.
She asked Wu Jianshe to take her into scrap steel, and Wu Jianshe said that her top priority was to find a good person to marry. Her answer was: Good men are all married. I am so young and don’t want to make money. What do I want?
So, as long as you can make money and face, as long as you have a goal in your heart, you will always succeed!
2. Never drag on the relationship! When choosing a man, you don’t choose the right one, but you can compete with yourself!
How many women are trapped by love and will achieve nothing in their life. Maybe we can't learn the courage to go all out in business like Xu Banxia, but we can definitely learn it well in dealing with relationships! The first person to deal with
was Tong Xiaoqi. Logically speaking, because she had been in jail for five years, she must have had a love affair. But she threw away the hairpin that symbolized Tong Xiaoqi's feelings for her, because she knew that he was definitely not the other half she wanted. The second person to be processed by
is Dr. Su, Dr. Su Yishi and IKEA, and Xu Banxia himself has not considered it. But they were not the same person at all. Xu Banxia was devoted to his career and Dr. Su just wanted to live a life. So after Xu Banxia thought it through himself, she directly rejected Dr. Su.
Zhao Lei proposes to Xu Banxia
3. Doing anything is an exchange of interests. Only with efforts can there be rewards
This world is realistic, and everything is an exchange of interests. Xu Banxia’s principle of dealing with people is that I can help you do this, but you also have to repay me. For example, she helped Qiu Bizheng investigate Guo Qidong, so she could borrow one million later. She promised Zhao Lei how much benefit she could bring to his company, and then saw her yard and proved her strength, so he was willing to pay her advance first.
In daily life, girls are prone to emotional work, whether in their relationship or at work. For example, if they love me, they won’t treat me like this. I have no credit for the company and have a hard work attitude. This is all troubled by mediocre people!
If you want the person you love to love you, focus first and become stronger! If Xu Banxia was not persistent in staying in Russia and refused to come back and tried every means to find new scrap steel channels, would she and Zhao Lei have any subsequent stories?
Of course, the same is true for the other hand. If you are kind to a person, but others take it for granted and do not give you any reward, you can also pay your respects directly. The same is true for working in
. You can bring greater benefits to your boss to make money, so everyone will have a better future together. But if one day you cannot create value, you will have to be abandoned. Therefore, work should be to create value, not to try your best to catch fish. If you find that your income and your efforts do not match, you can also directly fire the boss. Don’t be emotional and stay for whom.
Even though we are all ordinary people who cannot learn all the excellent qualities of Xu Banxia, at least we can also follow her! Especially for girls, don’t have psychological limitations just because you are a girl! If you want to succeed and realize your dream, you should not restrict yourself from looking down on yourself. Whether it is a man or a woman, you can do whatever you want for your dream.
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