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Variety queen Andy Mui , she started to appear on the stage at the age of 4 and a half until her life ended at the age of 40. She is the daughter of Hong Kong and is a grassroots star born for the stage. Behind her gorgeous and lonely back is a strong and fragile heart, who has been longing for being loved all her life, but in the end she married the stage in a wedding dress.
Anie Mui
40 years of life, seven relationships, each time is the investment of love, and the result is all by chance, just like a woman's flower, blooming from gorgeous to full bloom.
Anita Mui was born in Mong Kok, Hong Kong in 1963. This little baby girl at birth did not bring luck to this poor family.
Anita Mui has two brothers and one sister. Her father is seriously ill at this time and can no longer go out to work. Her mother is worried when she looks at this hungry baby girl.
But what they didn't expect was that this baby girl later became a figure in Hong Kong and even Chinese.
Soon after, her father passed away. In order to make a living, four-year-old Anita Mui and her sister took to the stage. Unexpectedly, this stage accompanied her whole life.
Children Anita Mui
First love
The missing fatherly love is only the stage childhood, leaving regrets in Anita Mui's heart. She longs for family affection and is cared for.
Because she has been performing on stage since she was a child, Anita Mui dropped out of school very early. When she was 13 years old, her mother hired a family teacher for her, who was also a boy who was in his prime at the age of 16 or 7.
At that time, Anita Mui's cousin also lived at home. Whenever the little teacher came to class, Anita Mui always held her cousin with her.
My cousin has a gentle and shy personality, and Anita Mui has liked to play with boys since she was a child. She is always careless, lively and cheerful. Unexpectedly, two girls with different personalities fell in love with the little teacher at the same time.
For a long time, Anita Mui didn't want the three of them to get in touch with this emotion. So, on this day, she said to the little teacher: "You must choose one of us sisters today. No matter what the result, I accept it."
13-year-old Anita Mui has a bold personality and is motivated. In comparison, her cousin is too weak, and the outcome can be imagined.
First love is sweet and beautiful, and also youthful. Not long after, this relationship was opposed by Anita Mui, and she died prematurely.
The pain of a broken heart can only be numbed by music. During that time, Xicheng Xiushu's music became Anita Mui's youthful memory.
Miss
17-year-old Anita Mui has become a graceful woman, and a new relationship slowly appears without realizing it.
On this day, Anita Mui and her sister Mei Ai Fang witnessed a case on the road, so the two sisters were taken to the police station for inquiries. A young and handsome policeman came to record his confession, and his sister fell in love with the policeman at a glance. Anita Mui didn't feel it, because at this time, she only had her idol, Hieki Nishiseki.
The smart sister knew that Anita Mui was brave, so she asked her to ask the police for a contact number. Anita Mui generously asked for a call, and the three of them became friends and often came out to have tea and dinner.
However, Anita Mui felt something strange soon. The police had a very average attitude towards her sister, but she liked herself a little more.
That day, the police confessed to Anita Mui, and she felt panicked, "I seem to fall in love with him, but don't I like Xicheng Xiushu? How can I like two people?"
My sister also realized the police's intentions and decided to quit and fulfill her sister's relationship. She could see that her sister also liked this handsome policeman.
Sister said to Anita Mui, "Idols are for worship, they can be kept in their hearts, and what can accompany them is the true love."
Sister's words made Anita Mui realize that, in this way, Anita Mui and the handsome police got engaged after dating for a year, and Mama Mei was also very satisfied with the marriage.
girl Anita Mui
If things develop like this, Anita Mui will enter the marriage and live an ordinary life, but she is a legend after all, and she is destined to have an extraordinary life .
After dating for a long time, the conflict between the two gradually became apparent. The fiancé was fickle and often stared at other girls when walking on the street. Anita Mui's personality is unacceptable and she often loses her temper.
This incident finally became the fuse for the two to break up.
That year, Hideki Nishise held a concert in Japan. Anita Mui wanted to go to Japan to support her idol. Her fiancé couldn't understand why a person who was going to get married was so enthusiastic about other men.
Anita Mui insisted on going to Japan, but after returning from Japan, the relationship was irreversible.
When Anita Mui was 40 years old, she sighed that "life is impermanent, and you must cherish the people in front of you." Maybe it's an understanding of this relationship.
Exotic Love
In 1982, Anita Mui won the championship in the Newcomer Singer Competition and made her official debut. Her ever-changing and generous personality was like a clear stream in the environment where sweet songs were at that time, with unique style.
1985, Anita Mui went to Japan to promote the album and met Japanese singer Kondo Mahiko . They left a deep impression on each other.
In the year, Mahiko Kondo came to Hong Kong to hold a concert and met Anita Mui again. The two of them were talking about each other's feelings at the dance party. Mahiko Kondo couldn't help but kiss Anita Mui, and this kiss made Anita Mui fall in love with him.
When Kondo Mahiko left Hong Kong, she bought a diamond brooch and gave it to Anita Mui. She has always treasured it. It can be seen that she cherishes this relationship very much.
Since then, the phone has become the bridge of contact between the exotic couple. Whenever she has time, Anita Mui flew to Japan to see Mahiko Kondo, and the two left a very wonderful time in Japan.
Anita Mui also bought a house near Mahiko Kondo in Tokyo. Every time she goes to Japan, she put down the halo of a big star and even does it herself.
Anie Mui and Mahiko Kondo
However, the wholehearted efforts are exchanged for the betrayal of the Fengliu singer.
In the Japanese entertainment industry, the scandal between Kondo Mahiko and idol singer Nakamori Akina was also very popular, which hurt Anita Mui who was dedicated to his efforts.
Anita Mui returned to Hong Kong with a heart-wrenching love-stricken Anita Mui, devoted all her energy to her career and was unwilling to talk about this love again. Unexpectedly, at this time, a call from Mahiko Kondo continued his relationship with her.
Kondo Mahiko called Anita Mui and said that he and Akina Nakamori had broken up and asked her to come to Japan. She wanted to take Anita Mui to meet her family.
The ecstatic Anita Mui flew to Japan again and met Mahiko Kondo's family. Everyone got along very happily. The two reconciled and started a romantic relationship.
I never thought that a happy life is always too short. Soon, Anita Mui discovered that Kondo Mahiko not only had a broken relationship with Akina Nakamori, but also had an intimate relationship with Matsuda Holyko .
These scandals made it difficult for Anita Mui to accept. She was so painful that she committed suicide at her home in Tokyo, but was later rescued by her neighbors.
This relationship is something Anita Mui cannot let go. She keeps her house in Tokyo and misses the happy time she once was.
At Anita Mui's funeral in 2004, Mahiko Kondo's eyes were red with tears in her eyes and left with the help of others. Perhaps, he had regretted it at this moment.
Later, when interviewing Anita Mui, the reporter asked, "Who is your favorite?" Anita Mui replied: "I won't say who he is, it should be this part of a long-distance relationship."
Love at work
Miao Qiaowei and Anita Mui
1984, Anita Mui and Michael Miu had a relationship, and Michael Miu became popular all over the country for playing Yang Kang. The two have many cooperative relationships and many opportunities to get along at work, and soon rumors broke out.
However, in the end, Michael Miu chose Qi Meizhen . He said, "Amei has nothing to say as a friend, but she just goes deeper and you won't be able to do it."
Anita Mui once lamented that she was "two" "Fate, once she has someone she likes, another person will immediately appear and compete with her." This may be fate.
Anita Mui and Michael Miu
Leslie Cheung and Anita Mui
Leslie Cheung and Anita Mui
Leslie Cheung and Anita Mui are more like "Qing" "They are a pair of golden boys and girls on the stage. They often hug and even kiss in the street. These actions make people guess that they have had feelings beyond friendship.
The two have similar childhoods. Anita Mui has to sing and make money at a young age. Without children of the same age as her friends, she has always been lonely inside.
Lee Leslie Cheung's childhood is a relationship of parents Bad, he has been living in the countryside with his grandmother and has no children of the same age. Loneliness has always been buried in his heart.
As the saying goes, happy people heal their lives with childhood, and unfortunate people heal their childhood with life.
Two people with similar experiences are easier to communicate and appreciate each other. They are more like brothers and sisters, and some fans and friends once called out, "They are handsome men," together! Anita Mui just smiled and said, "It should be a talented woman, handsome men," which shows that they have had feelings.
The same childhood experience, the childhood sweethearts make them choose to leave this world in the same year. I believe that they will definitely continue their relationship in another world.
Anita Mui and Leslie Cheung
Liu De Hua and Anita Mui
Anita Mui's important man is Andy Lau, who is also the person she wants to marry the most.
Anita Mui once said to Andy Lau, "If I am old and still no one marry me, you can marry me reluctantly." Although it seems like a joke, it also reveals sadness and helplessness.
Liu Dehua's feelings for Anita Mui are more like brothers, but Anita Mui treats her as her idol and her ideal husband.
In an interview, Anita Mui revealed that she had a crush on Andy Lau, and the news reached his ears. Liu Dehua said, "Amei is a good friend. She is not my ideal partner. My ideal wife is long hair and draped over her shoulders. She is gentle and virtuous. But Amei doesn't have these two points."
From then on, Amei put away her secret love and thought that Andy Lau was her brother. The news that she was sick was also the first one who knew.
Anita Mui, who has always shown strength, has always longed for someone to come into her heart, understand her, and take care of her. It's just that the sea of people is vast and it is hard to find a soulmate.
Anita Mui and Liu Dehua
Zhao Wenzhuo and Anita Mui
In 1992, Zhao Wenzhuo, who was still studying at China Sports University, was selected to participate in the movie "New Fang Shiyu" and came to Hong Kong to film.
First came to Hong Kong, Zhao Wenzhuo, who grew up in the north, was very uncomfortable. He could overcome his eating habits, which was language communication. There are difficulties. Hong Kong actors don’t like to speak Mandarin very much, which makes Zhao Wenzhuo feel very lonely and helpless.
. He is lonely and goes to the gym to pass the time. At this time, he met Leslie Cheung. Leslie Cheung asked him, “Would you like to accept a student? This student’s Mandarin is very good.” It was this coincidence that Zhao Wenzhuo met Anita Mui.
Anita Mui and Zhao Wenzhuo
Anita Mui is 8 years older than Zhao Wenzhuo. Anita Mui's generous elder sister's big personality makes Zhao Wenzhuo feel no pressure. Anita Mui always laughs loudly and says, "You don't understand Cantonese, I'll translate it for you. Who bullies you? Tell me, I'll help you fix him."
After spending a long time together, Zhao Wenzhuo has an indescribable attachment to Anita Mui. Anita Mui also has a good impression of this northern brother. She said, "Zhao Wenzhuo is the person who understands her the best."
Who knew that the difference in living habits gradually became an insurmountable gap between the two people. Anita Mui likes to smoke and drink to Disgo, and Zhao Wenzhuo doesn't like these. Anita Mui's generous personality, always wears arms and sometimes kisses when dealing with men, which makes Zhao Wenzhuo, who grew up in the north, feels very uncomfortable. This relationship lasts for a year, and breaks up because of a big misunderstanding.
As for any misunderstanding, neither of them wants to mention it.
Later, Zhao Wenzhuo learned that Anita Mui was seriously ill and was deeply saddened. At the funeral, he wrote "I love you this life, and it's easy to go."
In Zhao Wenzhuo's heart, no one can replace Anita Mui.
In November 2003, at the farewell concert, Anita Mui was wearing a white wedding dress and singing "Woman Flower" affectionately with tears in her eyes. For the last time, she married herself to the stage.
Anita Mui's farewell concert
"Flowers bloom and fade are always empty, fate does not stop, like the spring breeze blows and leaves, women are like flowers and dreams."
"Women's flowers sway in the world, women's flowers sway gently in the wind, hoping that there will be a pair of gentle hands that can soothe my inner loneliness."
Isn’t this a portrayal of her life?
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