In "Goodbye Love 2", the relationship between Ai Wei and Chen Meiling has become clearer, especially Ai Wei insists on divorce and is very determined. Not to mention Yi Lijing, even ten Yi Lijing cannot shake his determination.
Chen Meiling still doesn't want to divorce. It makes people angry when she looks at it. She just hopes that she will wake up soon.
The marriage between Ai Wei and Chen Meiling is, in Ai Wei's view, a cooperative relationship that shares resources between the two parties. Once certain conditions of cooperation change, their cooperative relationship will be adjusted accordingly, otherwise, the contract will not be able to continue to be fulfilled.
Chen Meiling had physical problems, and it was because of a force majeure incident in their marriage relationship. According to the agreement of in the Contract Law, after the force majeure incident occurs, both parties shall bear their respective responsibilities according to the actual situation. Chen Meiling endured the pain caused by the illness, and Ai Wei assumed the heavy responsibility of taking care of the patients.
Although Ai Wei gave all his care to Chen Meiling during her illness, in front of the world, he was such a responsible husband that he could not ignore the real pressure on Ai Wei. Moreover, at this time, Ai Wei could not find any exit to relieve this pressure. He could not blame anyone and could only bear it silently.
When he tried his best to help Chen Meiling save his life, the risk temporarily passed, but he knew the existence of the risk and could make a comeback at any time. He didn't want to bear such pressure again, so he activated the defense system and asked Chen Meiling to take good care of her body.
But at this time, Chen Meiling didn't listen to him and insisted on fighting with him, telling her not to play mahjong, but she insisted on playing. What should I do if there is a physical problem? It's not that I, Ai Wei, come to take care of you, but I have to bear the consequences of what you did. This is what Ai Wei said that Chen Meiling will take him into injustice.
I don’t want to take care of you who are sick anymore, so I want you to be obedient and not play mahjong. In this way, even if you get sick again, I can’t blame you. I will feel better if I bear it myself. But Chen Meiling didn't listen to me, Ai Wei. If I get sick again, the villain in my heart would come out to stop me from continuing to take good care of you. I can't convince myself, do you understand? It was you who forced out the darkest and darkest part of my heart. I didn't want to show this part to people outside, nor could I accept the criticism from others. I was in a dilemma because of your reasons. Why do I have to bear the consequences? I can't bear it, and if you refuse to listen to me, then I can only leave you. In this way, I have no obligation to take care of your life and health. I will bear the things you do yourself and don't let me take on.
This is the most real inner monologue I think after reading these issues.
Chen Meiling fell ill for the first time, which was force majeure. Both parties jointly assumed the responsibility, and Ai Wei could not complain. If Chen Meiling's condition worsens due to playing mahjong, this is Chen Meiling's responsibility. Ai Wei does not want to continue to resist the burden on her and can only choose to give up. But if Chen Meiling listened to Ai Wei's words and lived in the way he asked, then if something went wrong, he would still be willing to face it with her.
Aiwei obviously treats marriage relationships as cooperative relationships. Ai Wei is interested in Chen Meiling's character, temper and appearance. He is willing to give his love for these things and give Chen Meiling what he thinks is considerate and caring. Once these things on Chen Meiling change, his consideration and concern will be reduced or disappear.
Ai Wei is bound to divorce. I really don’t understand the reason why he came to the show. The other person, Zhu Yaqiong, insisted on divorce and was on the show to fulfill the sense of ritual she pursued. Is Ai Wei coming to the show to find a good way for his divorce? Let everyone see that it’s not that Ai Wei has no true love, but that Chen Meiling is too ignorant. She blames her for the divorce?
Ai Wei's view of marriage, which is more rational than emotional, is nothing wrong with him. The abominable thing about him is that he is not honest with his view of marriage, but uses the other party's weaknesses to achieve his goals, push the responsibility for divorce to the other party, and sacrifices the other party's image to maintain his image. Others are not stupid, just waiting for Chen Meiling to see clearly for a long time and is willing to let go.
looks so annoying, wake up early! Chen Meiling!
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