The finale of "My Favorite Family", Tong Tiejun and Lin Haiyan finally got married, Lin Haining and Tao Chunmei's children are already five years old, Tang Meixiang was deceived by Sun Daqiang and wanted to die with him, but fortunately she was rescued by Lin Haining. She also learned that Lin Haining had been promoted to dean, and Tao Chungen, who she looked down upon at the time, also became the boss...
The so-called cause and effect is that everyone is responsible for their own choices, paying for their own lives, and everyone has their own taste. From this point of view, this ending is pretty good.
However, in this drama, there are still three women who are "uncomfortable". Their intentions are difficult to calm down, and they are subjective factors and helplessness from objective factors, but in the end, they are all thought-provoking.
01 Xiao Xiaoya.
Xiao Xiaoya is the woman Zhan Liang loved all his life, although his life is actually very short.
Feng Zhanliang and Xiao Xiaoya fell in love, and the two were already planning to get married, but due to an accident, Xiao Xiaoya lost her legs and could no longer have children. In order not to drag Zhan Liang down, she asked her friends to tell Zhan Liang that she was dead. And she never appeared in front of Zhan Liang again.
Feng Zhanliang, who "losts" his lover, is in a bad mood. He goes to Xiaoya's place to pay tribute to her every year, and vows not to get married in this life.
However, fate is so good that Lin Haiyan is pregnant with Tong Tiejun's child. In order to give the child a name, Feng Zhanliang lied that the child was his own and married Lin Haiyan. Just at this moment, Xiao Xiaoya came to find Zhan Liang under the persuasion of her best friend. When she saw Zhan Liang helping his pregnant "wife" home, she shed tears.
Ten years later, Xiao Xiaoya heard the news about Zhan Liang again, that he had already died. And in the past ten years, she always thought Zhan Liang was living a happy life.
Xiao Xiaoya never expected that the lives of the two of them would be lost in this lie. Zhan Liang, who should have lived, was dead, but she, who was already dead, was still alive.
The two of them were so in love. If Xiao Xiaoya hadn't told that lie at the beginning, they would have had a few years of time together, or perhaps the experience of fighting Liang would have changed, that would have been great.
Another point that is difficult to calm down is that before Xiao Xiaoya died, she learned that Lin Haiyan was not really Zhan Liang's wife, and Zhan Liang loved only her from beginning to end. But she turned around and left because she saw his "wife" and missed the last meeting with him.
There are not many lies in love, whether they are good or malicious. Only by being honest and facing each other bravely can you have fewer regrets and more perfection.
02 Yao Yuling.
Tong Tiejun's mother Yao Yuling is a very kind and loving old lady, but her last life was bitter.
Lin Haiyan came all the way to marry Tong Tiejun, but by chance he was taken by Chen Yaowu. As Lin Haiyan's fiancé, Tong Tiejun naturally bears the brunt and becomes the target of Chen Yaowu.
Under Chen Yaowu's design frame-up, Lin Haiyan was forced to marry him, and Tong Tiejun was forced to go to the remote third-branch factory. Yao Yuling endured the pain of separation from her son and watched her daughter-in-law marry someone else. When Tong Tiejun left, he didn't even see his mother's last time.
During the days when Tong Tiejun left, Yao Yuling was lonely and depressed, but she never complained. She still regarded Lin Haiyan as her child, and Lin Haiyan still called her mother.
After Chen Yaowu's death, Lin Haiyan met Tong Tiejun once. Tong Tiejun had a car accident at that time, but it was fine. In order not to worry his mother, he told Lin Haiyan not to tell her mother that they had met.
But that time, Lin Haiyan became pregnant. In order to fulfill this lie, she married Feng Zhanliang. Yao Yuling, who had originally hoped that her daughter-in-law and her son would be able to reunite her relationship, not only did she say nothing, but also took the initiative to help Lin Haiyan take care of her child.
until Yao Yuling died, she didn't know that Junjie was her own grandson. At the last moment, Lin Haiyan lay in her ear to tell her the truth, and Yao Yuling never responded from beginning to end, which was the biggest difficulty.If there were no such a series of concealment, at least, Yao Yuling would have some comfort in the last period.
The biggest regret in life is to raise your son but not to wait for his parents. Many times, in order not to worry about our relatives, we choose to report good news but not bad news, but sometimes, the truth is actually more comforting to the hearts of the people. When you use countless lies to make a lie, it is very likely that you have missed the best thing in your life.
03 Guo Shuimiao.
Guo Shuimiao is Chen Yaowu's ex-wife and gave birth to two children for Chen Yaowu.
Chen asked Wu to return to the city and deceived Guo Shuimiao to divorce him, saying that as long as he settled down, he would go back to pick her up immediately. After Chen Yaowu came back, he hung Tang Meixiang while designing to marry Lin Haiyan, and never had the idea of picking up Guo Shuimiao for a moment. Poor Guo Shuimiao waited for him stupidly for several years.
During the days when Chen Yaowu left, Guo Shuimiao pulled two children alone. His son Shengli had a fever and she carried him to the hospital. As a result, the child fell into the water halfway. Although he was rescued by the villagers, he delayed the treatment and Shengli's brain was burned out.
Guo Shuimiao couldn't wait for Chen Yaowu, and she probably knew in her heart that Chen Yaowu wanted them anymore, and she also planned to live her life with her child. But unexpectedly, she fell seriously ill again. In order to find a home for the two children, she traveled thousands of miles to find Chen Yaowu's family.
At that time, Chen Yaowu had just passed away. The old lady of the Chen family was not mentally ill and did not like her two children. Knowing that Chen Yaowu had married another wife, Guo Shuimiao originally planned to entrust her two children to Lin Haiyan, but when he heard Lin Haiyan say that she had a grudge against Chen Yaowu, Guo Shuimiao was embarrassed to speak.
Guo Shuimiao left with concern like this. She did not find a place for her child to feel at ease, but her life was not controlled by herself. She first loved the wrong man, and then she was worried about the child. The life of this miserable woman was short and regretful. But she is not a bad person, this is the unsatisfactory thing.
You cannot be anxious about love, and you cannot be blind in marriage. Before getting married, you must see clearly what kind of person the other person is. After getting married, you must have the ability to live independently. When a woman places her happiness and destiny on a man, her ending is also destined to be misfortune.
Conclusion:
Love, marriage, family are all eternal propositions in life. At the same time, they are the most solid and fragile things in the world.
says it is strong because it can withstand the test of time and space. Even if we wait for a long time, even if we are far apart, we can all love the one we love deeply. It is said to be fragile because it cannot withstand too many lies and cannot tolerate too many impurities. If you are not careful, you will leave regrets.
I hope these three women will be unsatisfied and will let you understand these principles. I also hope that your life will be less regretful and more perfect.
Author Profile: Meeting and missing each other, a woman who likes to read and write, focuses on the creation of emotional directions and articles in film and television, as well as analysis and answers of emotional problems in the field of emotions. I hope my words can accompany you to move forward warmly.
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