Those unbearable pasts can only be considered passing by if you stop crying when you talk about them.
In 2016, the powerful Carina Lau participated in " Venus Show ".
In the entertainment industry, Venus is a famous sarcastic tongue, "dare to ask anything".
In the show, Jin Xing really said that "whoever doesn't open the pot" and asked about Carina Lau's kidnapping that year.
Carina Lau smiled slightly, and did not avoid it, but seriously told the "darkest moment" in her life.
calmly mentions the subtleties and the state of mind of my mind at that time.
is calm.
In some previous interviews, Carina Lau would also deliberately "generously" say: Everything is over, Thanks for not infringing on me.
In fact, if you are used to covering up some of the trauma in life with deliberate thanks, it only means that it is still a thorn in your heart.
Only when you speak frankly and there are no more ripples in your heart, this means: you have come out.
Carina Lau faced with Venus, like a phoenix reborn in Nirvana.
In the show, Jin Xing asked Carina Lau very "gossip": They said you are worth more than 800 million yuan now?
Carina Lau glared at her eyes and blurted out: My whole body is priceless.
At that moment, Carina Lau was shining with glory.
Perhaps just like the saying goes: All those who cannot kill you will make you stronger.
But, what exactly did Carina Lau encounter back then?
01 used to
If time could go back, perhaps Carina Lau would definitely refuse the invitation from Zeng Zhiwei and to call her to play mahjong.
One morning in 1990, Carina Lau received a call from "Mahjong" Eric Tsang: "Three missing one, can you come?"
Carina Lau, who likes to play mahjong, happily agreed, and she drove into the car and went out.
. Tsang and others were waiting for a long time. Carina Lau and others rushed over. Everyone was wondering, but the security guard at the door came knocking on the door. He said to Tsang:
. "It seemed like Miss Liu was driving just now, but the car crashed into the iron gate. A car caught up with her behind. They took Miss Liu away..."
. Tsang and others hurried out to check and found that it was Carina Lau's car, but the seat belt was cut off. Carina Lau is no longer in the car.
Everyone was very anxious and didn't know what to do. Someone called Tony Leung who was filming , .
Hearing that Carina Lau was kidnapped, Tony Leung was panicked, and he suggested to the crew: Don’t shoot anymore. Then you have to leave.
The panicked Tony Leung couldn't even drive by himself, so he had to let Jacky Cheung drive him over.
3 hours later, the untidy Carina Lau appeared in front of everyone. She was a little lost, but said to the police:
is just three gangsters. They stole one of their watches and more than 1,000 yuan in cash, and then put her back.
A policeman felt it was strange because he picked up an earring at the scene, but according to Carina Lau, it should not be hers.
The policeman said angrily: It turns out that it was not yours. It seems that there was no fierce battle in at the scene.
Carina Lau nodded in a hurry.
At Carina Lau's request, the police had to deal with the case .
Everything is calm until 12 years later.
In 2002, " East Weekly Magazine " saw a photo with a very eye-catching title: "The female star was abused and taken in the photo."
At that time, all the spearheads were pointed at Carina Lau.
That period became the most difficult time in Carina Lau's life. She hid at home alone, not eating or drinking, but just kept crying.
Tony Leung, who was by her side, said a very gentle word to her:
This circle is so messy, if you are tired of it, then let's go. I will accompany you wherever you want to go.
At that moment, Tony Leung looked like a hero:
He was furious in clothes and furious in the mountains, but in the end, he was willing to let the horse go to the south mountain and retreat to the world for his beloved.
Perhaps it was Tony Leung's company and encouragement that gave Carina Lau the power to be reborn from the ashes.
She bravely stood up and expressed great anger at the behavior of publishing photos in the East Weekly magazine that affects the lives of artists.
At that time, as the president of the Performing Arts Association, Anita Mui , and Leslie Cheung , Jackie Chan and others launched the "Heaven and Earth Not tolerate" action to denounce "East and Earth".
Under pressure, East Weekly magazine finally publicly apologized and temporarily suspended publication.
It was from this time that Carina Lau was no longer the fragile little girl, she became the heroine who could control her destiny.
Everyone’s life is unique, and you should write your own life script.
But, what happened back then?
Later, "Big Boss" Chen Huimin mentioned this in an interview.
He said: At that time, Carina Lau was caught and took photos, but he came forward to give the photos to Tony Leung, and the criminals were locked up.
But a photo was missed at that time. After a gangster was released, he saw the photo and sold it to the entertainment newspaper for money.
So there are photos that were later exposed.
However, as the same "big guy", Chen Huimin changed the statement in another interview:
He said that Carina Lau was taken away at that time, but no videos or photos were taken. Those people just found a model named that looked very similar to Carina Lau...
I don’t know which of these two statements is correct.
However, none of these matters anymore.
It has been 32 years since this incident. What’s important is that Carina Lau in the story has come out and has gained a happy life.
02 couple
Carina Lau and Tony Leung have a long-distance love race for 19 years, and finally became a couple, and they were both in love.
Many people are not optimistic about Carina Lau and Tony Leung's marriage.
After all, the two are too different:
Carina Lau likes to be lively and often meets with friends to play mahjong; but Tony Leung is silent and is also very "socially terrified" in participating in activities.
In many interviews, when Carina Lau took Tony Leung to participate in the event, the scene was like a shy primary school student being pulled by a parent.
Carina Lau is a vigilant. Even at home, she and Tony Leung have their own separate bathrooms.
Once, a good friend Shu Qi came to play at home. Because he didn't understand the situation, he used Carina Lau's bathroom. As a result, Carina Lau directly redecorated the bathroom.
Tony Leung likes freedom. When he is in a bad mood, he will take a plane to the London square to feed pigeons for an afternoon, and then come back by plane.
When Carina Lau called a group of friends to come to play mahjong at home, Tony Leung hid alone in the house to watch the video - perhaps because he kept thinking about the performance, he was "one eye is a play."
Now, the two have been married for 14 years, and they are still as loving as before, which makes people realize:
Perhaps, the best feelings in the world are all evenly matched.
Moreover, the character that once seemed so "incompatible" may be just "complementary".
is like screw cap just screwed on the corresponding screw, tightly sewn.
Tony Leung’s introversion, Carina Lau’s extroversion has become his protective circle; and Tony Leung can always steadily take over Carina Lau’s domineering aura.
Isn’t this a happy life!
In fact, if you look closely, you will find that Carina Lau and Tony Leung are not only complementary personalities, but also like a pair of "heroes" who support each other.
Back then, Mr. Jin Yong created the martial arts novel " The Legend of Condor Heroes ". In this novel, Jin Yong actually created the "imperfect protagonist" - Xiaolongnu was once defiled, while Yang Guo broke an arm.
This is a scene that will not appear in any other novel. How can , as the protagonist, have stains!
Now, Carina Lau and Tony Leung are like Xiaolongnu and Yang Guo.
They are not perfect, but they combine perfect feelings that are enviable.
If you ask, how did Yang Guo and Xiaolongnu live after they retired from the world?
The answer may be - They lived to be Tony Leung and Carina Lau.
03 Conclusion
People who have not cried bitterly in the middle of the night are not enough to talk about life.
Each of us will experience all kinds of twists and turns in our lives, and we will even fall into a deep pit and feel desperate.
However, in the deepest despair, perhaps the moonlight of hope can be seen.
Just like Carina Lau, she has experienced so many ups and downs, and finally became what she is now.
Once Carina Lau participated in " Ace vs. Ace ". She made this summary of her life:
"When I was young, there were two guardian angels: strength and patience. They are retired now. My guardian angels are: tolerance and compassion."
Because I have experienced it, I understand, because I understand, so I am compassionate.
May each of us live our own wonderful life.
There is nothing impossible in life. No matter how difficult the setbacks in front of you are, the day finally passed.
is just like Pushkin in the poem:
And what has passed will become the most intimate nostalgia.
Go and experience it, and live every moment of life with a steaming moment!