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Yu Rongguang is a famous male actor who is loved by the audience and is well-known.
has been in the art for more than 40 years. He has participated in hundreds of film and television works. He is a powerful figure who combines actors, directors and producers.
Yu Rongguang has been clean and has no scandals. He has been married to his first love Wang Yuling for 35 years and has been praised by people in the circle as a model couple. They also have a son and have a happy family life.
However, Yu Rongguang suddenly divorced when he was 63 years old, which was very surprising.
is still divorced when you reach this age? Half of my life has passed, I got divorced if I want anything. Why is this? I think this is a point that most people don’t understand.
and was divorced, and was divorced like a court-like divorce. This makes people wonder what exactly caused their marriage to be broken;
What makes people wonder what kind of person Yu Rongguang's wife Wang Yuling is, and what confidence does she have?
01 Companionship is the longest confession
remember a joke on the Internet before, men don’t make money but have time to accompany them, and men can make money but have less company. Which one would you choose?
Some people choose to have more money, but the reason is that everything is enough for men. Some people choose to have less money and need to accompany them. Some people want both, and each has their own choice.
Indeed, compared with two choices, choosing one, it is perfect to choose both, but things in the world are not that perfect, and you may regret choosing either one.
The most important thing is to look at the relationship between two people. If you have love, you can nourish each other. If you have money or not, you will be happy; if you have money or not, you will not be happy no matter how much you consume it. is still relying on yourself after all.
Yu Rongguang and Ying Er's "Emerald Phoenix" stills
Yu Rongguang and Wang Yuling have no love?
Some, they were in a free relationship at the beginning, and the two of them had been together for decades, and they had walked a long way together.
Then why did you suddenly get divorced when you should have enjoyed happiness in your later years?
probably because of disappointment.
Yu Rongguang is one year older than Wang Yuling. He was born in a family of operas and has been dealing with opera all his life.
Yu Rongguang's father is Peking Opera performing artist Yu Mingkui . He was born and raised by listening to Peking Opera.
is influenced by the environment. Yu Rongguang was admitted to Beijing Fenglei Peking Opera Troupe at the age of 11. He studied Peking Opera for ten years. Until he was 21 years old, he was already well-known in the circle and was rated as a national second-level actor.
Then at the age of 24, he was discovered by Hong Kong director Xu Xiaoming and starred in "Kapok Robe", thus entering the film and television industry.
Yu Rongguang's "Kapok Robe" Stills
Yu Rongguang has a tall figure and handsome appearance. Although he plays the number one villain in the film, his years of opera experience have made him feel at ease in the role. After the release of the
movie, Yu Rongguang's performance was eye-catching and received great praise.
He himself fell in love with the filming of film and television dramas because of this. In fact, after Rongguang watched "Shaolin Temple" starring Jet Li , he had the idea of making kung fu movies, but he failed to apply for the Beijing Film Actor Training Class.
This time the shooting fulfilled his dream. Then he filmed " Blood and Tears and Love Hate " and " Ancient and Modern Warriors of Qin Warriors ", becoming one of the most popular kung fu actors at that time.
Yu Rongguang's "The Love of the War between the Qin Terracotta Warriors"
Yu Rongguang loves drama and focuses on film and television. He has no personal problems since his debut. It was not until after he was 25 years old that his parents began to urge him to get married that he devoted some energy to finding a partner.
Although you can meet many people in filming and have many actresses working with, Yu Rongguang felt that it was not suitable. At the age of 26, Yu Rongguang met Wang Yuling under the introduction of his relatives. After that, the two became husband and wife and spent half their lives.
02 I met you for the first time
Wang Yuling is an outsider. She was born and raised in Beijing, and is one year younger than Yu Rongguang.
Wang Yuling's parents both work in central enterprises. After graduation, she also worked in the Beijing postal and telecommunications system. It can be said that her family is well-off and is in line with Yu Rongguang.
In addition, the two are also very compatible in terms of talent and appearance. The most important thing is that they have the same views, like-mindedness, and can chat well.
That's it, the two began to fall in love.
Because he is an ordinary person, Wang Yuling was a little unconfident in front of Rongguang at that time, because he was not only a popular martial artist in their group, but also in the limelight on the big screen.
So Wang Yuling often asks why Yu Rongguang likes herself, he is so star-studded. Questions like
Yu Rongguang and actor Wang Like
are often asked between young couples, but the answers they get are mostly how good you are.
Yu Rongguang is no exception. He will answer Wang Yuling very simply, telling her that she is living with her, and not asking female celebrities to act on the screen for others to see.
Wang Yuling was very satisfied with this answer, so she didn't ask any questions in the future and just focused on talking about love with him.
After dating for two years, Wang Yuling's parents were very optimistic about Rong Guang, their future son-in-law, and Yu's parents were also very satisfied with their future daughter-in-law. So the two families asked the two young couples to get married as soon as possible and form their own small family.
1986, Yu Rongguang and Wang Yuling got married in Beijing. The couple lived in the wedding house assigned to him by their unit. Although the house was small, only more than ten square meters and the conditions were not good. , they were very happy at that time.
Shortly after marriage, Wang Yuling became pregnant. They are all looking forward to the arrival of this little guy.
At that time, Yu Rongguang's work nature was destined to be with his wife. As soon as he joined the group, he could not stay at home for at least a few months, or as long as he was a year or two.
Wang Yuling is a virtuous wife. She supports her husband's career and understands his job. Moreover, she is not a spoiled woman. She can take good care of herself even when she is pregnant.
Yu Rongguang is proud of having married such a good wife. With her support and understanding, he can let go of himself and fly forward.
But he forgot that no matter how strong a woman is, she needs people to care, and no matter how powerful she is, she needs people to care, let alone a pregnant woman.
Wang Yuling was working when she was pregnant, while Yu Rongguang was filming outside. When she was six months old, she was still alone in the prenatal examination. Her mother and mother-in-law felt sorry for her and would give her some food from time to time to see her.
Of course, Yu Rongguang is not a man who does not care about his wife at all. He will run home after filming and want to spend as much time with his wife as possible. But at that time, his career was just beginning. He wanted to provide better material conditions for his wife and children and give them a better life.
03 What I need is not marriage, but happiness
In April 1987, Wang Yuling gave birth to her son Yu Zilong and was upgraded to a mother. Her heart became softer and more tolerant.
At the same time, Yu Rongguang's career is developing better and better, and he is getting busier and busier. In order to fully support his work and take care of his family, Wang Yuling gave up her job and resigned and worked as a full-time housewife at home.
At that time, although Yu Rongguang was busy, his work unit was in Beijing and he still had some time for his family a year. But in the 1990s, he resigned from the troupe and went to Hong Kong to develop.
At this point, the life of separation from Wang Yuling began.
For Wang Yuling, she was ready to marry Yu Rongguang and knowing his identity. However, after her son was born, he worked outside for a long time, and everything at home fell on her alone.
My son is sick, she wants to take the hospital alone in the wind and rain, and it takes a night toss and make a night of trouble; her family is sick, she has to run around alone, and she has to take care of her son...
It’s okay once or twice, but who can stand it if this continues?
Wang Yuling is no exception. When she was in the most difficult time, she hoped that her husband could be by her side and help her, but he didn't.
Yu Rongguang has also known for his wife's difficulties for many years. He can develop comprehensively and move forward in his career pursuits because of his wife's unconditional support behind her back.
So he also handed over the money earned from filming to his wife for his work. He didn't tell his wife that he would make things worse. There were no scandals on filming outside for many years.
However, he forgot what his wife really needs.
For Wang Yuling, what she wants is not a rich life, what she wants is someone to care about her well-being, and she has someone to accompany her for three meals a day, but she has been alone for half her life.
She has had enough of this kind of life, and she has also tried to communicate with her husband, hoping that he can reduce work appropriately, spend more time with himself and his son.
But for Rongguang, filming is his job. What else can he do if he lets go? If he doesn’t film and let him stay at home for a week, he feels empty.
People who have worked with Yu Rongguang say that he is a workaholic, and two of the three sentences cannot be separated from work. Perhaps he will be suitable for living with work in this life.
Of course, this is not wrong.
But what is wrong with Wang Yuling?
She married a man because of love and because she wanted to live a life full of fireworks with him. But for many years, the family of three rarely had a meal together, and he didn't have much time at home all year round.
Earlier, he said he would work hard for his family and earn good conditions for his wife and children, but later, when the conditions improved, he became busier and busier, and he could no longer stop.
For her son, she endured herself. When her son grew up and had her own career, got married and had her own small family. She originally thought that when she was old, the two could stay together and stop and enjoy life, but he was still busy and still couldn't stop.
Yu Rongguang and Su Jin's "Persuading Reconciliation Group" stills
In the eyes of many people, men should understand and support more when men are busy with their careers.
Wang Yuling also supported her understanding, but her requirements were not high, but she had never been satisfied. Her heart and her love for him were gradually worn out in her marriage life for more than 30 years.
For her, their marriage began with love. It should have been easy, happy and happy, but many times it turned into a heavy shackle, making her give up her job and live for others.
What she wants is not marriage, but happiness, the love and company of a man.
04
Maybe it was because she had saved up enough disappointment, or maybe it was because her son got married and started a career, and she could finally live for herself once.
so she decided to divorce.
2021, Wang Yuling was 62 years old and Yu Rongguang was 63 years old. She filed a lawsuit with the court for freezing the other party’s account and filing a lawsuit...
It can be seen that she is already dead and has no nostalgia for this marriage. Even if she goes to court, she will divorce.
They have been married for more than 30 years. He has no scandals, no cheating, and no mistress. Their son has grown up and got married, and they still have so much money...
They seem to lack anything. But they divorced.
Yu Rongguang and Wang Yuling have been together for half a lifetime. He did not agree to the divorce, but she had decided.
One day couple has a hundred days of kindness. They have loved each other after all. During the divorce process, the two had ambiguities in terms of property division, but in the end they did not tear it too ugly and ended up decently.
After the divorce, Yu Rongguang was still stuck in his work, acting, directing and recording programs, without any influence.
Wang Yuling also lived the life she liked. Some media once wanted to interview her, but she refused them all.
She is not an insider, and getting married and divorce is all her own business. There is no need to explain to outsiders, let alone explain. She lived for others for the first half of her life, and she only wanted to live for herself once in the second half of her life.
Oscar Wilde said: "Loving yourself is the beginning of lifelong romance."
Since Wang Yuling got married to Yu Rongguang, she has loved, been happy, looked forward, but more of a disappointment. What she wants is not a nominal marriage, but real happiness.
But since he can't let go of work, she can only let herself go, let him go, so that everyone can live easily and be good to each other.
In fact, age has never been the reason that determines whether we start or end a marriage. Whether we are eighteen or eighty, we have the right to pursue happiness. What do you think?