April 20, 2006, singer Congfei finally closed his eyes forever without suffering from the torture of illness. He was only 37 years old.
This "touching Chinese figure" who has been doing charity for eleven years, has performed more than 400 charity performances, has volunteered for 6,000 hours, donated more than 3 million yuan, helped more than 150 people, and adopted 37 orphans. He left his young wife and his beloved daughter who had just learned to call him dad, and died suddenly.
This is a tragedy on earth.
I just didn't expect that 5 years later, on October 13, 2011, Xing Dan, the wife who raised her daughter alone, was also hit by a flying stone because of a prank by three boys.
was unable to rescue and followed Cong Fei's footsteps.
At this point, the 5-year-old love daughter became an orphan!
hemp rope is specially broken in detail, and God always bullies kind people.
Now 16 years have passed. Cong Fei and Xing Dan, who were fighting for "charity" during their lifetime, how are their beloved daughter Xing Xiaocongfei who stayed in the world?
What kind of admirable past does the singer Cong Fei have in his life?
What did his wife Xing Dan experience after his death?
makes her worthy of the title of "Shenzhen Rose"?
1: Cong Fei
1969, his original name was Zhang Chong, was born in a poor peasant family in Dawa County, Liaoning Province.
lives hard on just one acre of thin fields.
Although life is very difficult, Cong Fei is still full of hope for his future life under his words and deeds.
The intuitive way to express the optimism towards life is to sing.
In fact, perhaps it was the situation flowing in the bones without anyone guiding, even the parents didn’t know when Xiao Congfei started and fell in love with singing.
Because of this, Cong Fei became a little lark in the village when he was very young, and was often invited to sing a song in front of the whole village during major festivals.
Everyone thinks that he will definitely become a famous singer in the future.
Even the relatives and friends around him think so, and they persuaded Cong Fei's parents to let him learn systematic music knowledge.
Unfortunately, in the face of real life, parents have tried their best to support Cong Fei in completing his studies. How could
be able to support him in learning music?
So until before his debut, Cong Fei was a folk singer who had not undergone systematic training and learning.
Moreover, at the age of 13, Cong Fei could not even complete his basic studies.
can only drop out of school and go to Shenyang to work.
It is hard to imagine what a 13-year-old boy would experience when he traveled to a big city alone?
But one thing we can understand is that the whip of reality and the coldness of the world are not a little bit.
It is often difficult for people who have such experience to treat the world with gentleness, but Cong Fei is obviously an exception.
Not only did he not become gloomy because of this, he also took the time to get into Shenyang Conservatory of Music while working!
In his four-year college career, Cong Fei has never asked for a penny from his family.
After graduation, he dreamed of being a singer and looked for opportunities and stages everywhere. Unfortunately, he had no connections and background.
Relying on temporary performances on some small stages and bars, Cong Fei came to Shenzhen.
is in this place that changed his future.
The story originated from Cong Fei's experience in street singing. At that time, he was short of money because of the registration fee for the national singing competition of 80 yuan, and he did not want to give up this opportunity.
html, helplessly, began to sing loudly in the square and commercial street where crowds gathered.raising registration fee!
, but the results were not ideal after several performances.
Maybe it's a pity, just when Cong Fei wanted to give up participating in this game.
A strange girl was moved by Cong Fei's singing and gave him 600 yuan.
It was this 600 yuan that made Cong Fei stand on the stage of the singing competition, and by chance became the apprentice of the high-pitched singer Guo Song at that time.
With the guidance of the master, Cong Fei bid farewell to the wild path.
has officially embarked on the path of professional singers.
What followed was the increase in performances and income, and a business performance of tens of thousands became common.
Life has undergone earth-shaking changes. In addition to the teacher, Cong Fei is grateful to the woman who gave her 600 yuan from the bottom of his heart.
Cong Fei, who later became famous, also tried to find a girl, but it was not that easy in the vast sea of people!
After several searches, I can only bury my gratitude deeply in my heart.
planted the seeds that he wanted to help others.
1994, Cong Fei finally waited for this opportunity. A charity performance about out-of-school children allowed him to realize his dream of helping others.
and it will be out of control from now on!
is different from other celebrities doing charity, Cong Fei really invested all his wealth.
and even after becoming famous for a long time, he still lived in a small house less than 100 square meters.
The electrical appliances at home were also repaired and repaired, and my wife could still tolerate them.
chose to support his charity, but later Cong Fei even borrowed money to do charity.
owed 120,000 yuan in debt, which also touched his wife's bottom line.
Finally unbearable Cong Fei's wife left her 4-year-old daughter and Cong Fei and chose to divorce.
After becoming a single father, raising his daughter and doing charity became almost the whole of his life.
people around can’t understand it!
except for his later wife Xing Dan.
2: Xing Dan
Compared with Cong Fei, Xing Dan's family conditions are much better.
Xing Dan was born in Panjin, Liaoning in 1981, in a middle-class family. Although his family is not rich.
, but it is not comparable to ordinary people.
And as the only daughter in the family, Xing Dan, who was held in his palm, almost never experienced the sufferings of the world.
Whether it is food, clothing, housing and transportation, it is one of the best among the peers around you. If a little princess like
cannot be educated well, they will most likely develop the habit of being arrogant and domineering and spoiling.
Obviously Xing Dan is an exception.
These bad habits are not only unrelated to them, but also sensible, kind, intelligent and brave. What is even more commendable is that Xing Dan’s academic performance is also very outstanding.
After graduation, he became a beautiful and generous stewardess as he wished.
That is the year when she became a flight attendant, she met Cong Fei, who was already single.
Although it was only the first time we met, the two of them were like old friends for many years, with endless topics to talk about.
is surprisingly consistent in terms of three views.
And Cong Fei seemed to have found a partner to express his experiences over the years and his mental journey of charity.
After listening to the narrative of this single father, the beautiful and kind Xing Dan felt heartbroken and admired the man from the bottom of his heart.
She feels that such a man with great love deserves a better life and her own happiness.
So this girl, who was 12 years younger than Cong Fei, had a bold idea.
She wants to take care of Cong Fei for the rest of her life!
Faced with such a move, not to mention that Xing Dan’s parents even Cong Fei disagreed.
I am already so much older than a girl, and I am still a divorced child.
Doesn’t this delay others?
It’s a pity that these truths are obviously just untenable excuses in the face of love, although Xing Dan’s parents are very opposed to even want to cut off relations.
still failed to stop the daughter from being determined to be with Cong Fei.
In fact, Cong Fei liked this girl with his three views as close as he did after the first meeting.
is just that he knows his situation and dares not admit it.
However, Xing Dan's determination still moved him invisibly. As a man, he cannot be as timid and cowardly as a girl.
That's it, the two people with 12 years apart, got together.
What is rare is that Xing Dan fully supports Cong Fei for almost giving up all his efforts to join charity.
takes care of the big rear at home, so that her husband Cong Fei has no worries.
The little princess was born in a wealthy way and became a stepmother who was willing to live a hard life.
The family of three is living a very difficult life.
3:
If life is as always, although it is poor, spiritual wealth may not be a happy thing.
But perhaps God is also jealous of Cong Fei, this man who is devoted to charity.
On May 12, 2005, he was diagnosed with gastric cancer and was in the late stage.
At that time, Cong Fei had already donated 186 out-of-school children. Not to mention treating gastric cancer, even if he had a minor disaster at home, he had no money to treat it.
The family was in trouble, and Cong Fei's charitable funding was also forced to be interrupted.
It is worth mentioning that just when he was extremely melancholy, his deeds were reported.
More and more people know this singer with great love, and remittances in society are coming one after another.
But at this time, Cong Fei, in need of treatment, still donated the remittances without hesitation, took out 30,000 of them, and set up the "Zhanhua Congfei Scholarship Fund" at Zhanhua Middle School in Shenzhen. More than 100 poor students benefited from it in the years that followed.
On February 9, 2006, Cong Fei was named "Top Ten News Persons in Touching China in 2005".
In the eyes of the outside world, he is a great and noble person.
But Cong Fei, after privately suffering from cancer, also said, "I'm sorry to my wife Xing Dan, I hope she divorces me. After all, her life still has a long way to go." People around
also explained this way.
However, at that time, Xing Dan had been pregnant with Cong Fei's child for more than 4 months.
Faced with her husband's request to persuade her to abort the child, Xing Dan just said lightly, "I will not leave you, and I will give birth to the child. This is the crystallization of our love."
Like her husband, Xing Dan's kindness can be seen with the naked eye. She said this and did it.
When she was with Cong Fei, she did not live a materially prosperous life.
However, influenced by her husband, she not only agreed to her husband Cong Fei's request to donate her body organs after his death, but also, as a single mother in the future.
held up the burden of raising Cong Fei's ex-wife and children and Xing Xiaocong Fei, who belonged to the two.
took over Cong Fei's will of charity.
4: After
Cong flew away, Xing Dan worked to support his family while taking on the follow-up assistance work of the 183 sponsored children.
continued charity for a long time and inherited the volunteer number 2478 of her husband during his lifetime.
Work, charity, and taking care of children have become the whole of her life.
did not leave any spare time for herself. Perhaps only in this way can she temporarily forget her irresistible longing for her husband Cong Fei during the day.
Xiao Congfei is also very sensible, although he also wants to have a father like others.
But she never mentioned a word to her mother because she could occasionally see her mother crying secretly in bed late at night.
Mother and daughter depend on each other for life.
Xing Dan fulfilled his promise to raise his daughter step by step. He would visit Cong Fei without telling her daughter during Qingming Festival.
Maybe she wants to wait for Xiao Congfei to grow up before telling her the truth.
It’s a pity that there will never be a chance to say this sentence.
Time comes October 13, 2011, on the late night highway in Shenzhen, there were three idle minors in the nearby village.
Because attempted burglary , he attacked passing vehicles with stones to express his dissatisfaction with society.
Five cars were hit by three people that night.
But only one moving vehicle was smashed into the windshield by the flying stones, and the one sitting in the car was Xing Dan.
Flying stone passed through the windshield and hit Xing Dan's temple head-on, and blood suddenly surged like a spring.
Although he was sent to the hospital for emergency treatment in time, unfortunately, he closed his eyes because his injuries were too serious at 2 a.m. on the 14th.
At that time, Xiao Congfei, who was 5 years old, became an orphan.
5: Xiao Congfei
5 years later, his parents passed away one after another.
Xiao Congfei left sad tears at the memorial service where thousands of people saw their mother off.
is different from her father's ignorance when she died. At that time, she vaguely knew her father's existence from the mouths of her elders.
also understands that mother will never wake up, she is going to heaven to accompany her father.
And "Shenzhen Rose" Xing Dan was buried in the Yoshida Cemetery in Shenzhen 5 years later, with Cong Fei, sleeping in the same place as the same place as the same place as the same place as the same place as the same place as the same place as the same place as the same place as the same place as the same place as the same place as the same place as the same place as the same place as the same place as the same place as the same place as the same place as the same place as the same place as the same place
At this point, the growth of Cong Fei's two daughters has become a topic of concern.
Relevant parties urgently launched Cong Fei's orphan care plan, and donations came one after another.
The eldest daughter was taken back to her hometown by her grandparents. Xiao Congfei left by
grew up healthy under the adoption of "aunt" Feng Changhong , who was not related to blood.
is different from what I expected, despite losing the love of my parents.
, Xiao Congfei, with the care of all walks of life and the company of his "aunt", did not become gloomy or complain.
On the contrary, perhaps the kindness factor in parents' bones is too strong.
Xiao Congfei has also grown into an optimistic, cheerful, kind and versatile beautiful girl.
not only performed outstandingly in academic performance,
also started learning violin since she was a child, and participated in many performances and won many awards.
In 2021, she was admitted to the Southern Science and Technology Affiliated Middle School!
Use your own practical actions to let your parents in the nine springs rest in peace.
In the same flower season, the people involved in fate have completely different endings.
Back then, someone was embarrassed to mention this past even though he was donated by Cong Fei.
even said bluntly, "He sponsored me voluntarily. Everyone has his own purpose. I don't tell you what Cong Fei's purpose is."
Someone urged donations after Cong Fei suffered from cancer, not only did he feel grateful and comforted, but he said coldly without conscience, "When will your illness be cured? You promised me to sponsor me to the university, how can you keep your words?"
is heartbreaking,
, but it was a coincidence that Xing Dan's three teenagers killed, and they also went on a wrong path because of poverty and became dissatisfied with society.
still has no repentance after making a big mistake.
Why do several people live completely different lives and three views in the same flower season?
Is it just because Xiao Congfei has such parents?
What do you think about this?
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