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Lin Beibei is the dance star of Zhengzhou Song and Dance Theater. She is very talented and trained by the hospital as the chief successor.
But she is not active in practicing dancing, and being late and leaving early is the norm.
Because Lin Beibei believes that working in the theater, no matter how hard you work, the monthly salary will be capped. This is not the life she wants. She just wants to marry her rich second-generation boyfriend and easily do group dance within the compilation.
When Chen Ran, the director played by Bai Baihe, , could not find Lin Beibei, the male colleague sarcastically said in an authentic dialect:
"Hey~ Maserati took it away, it's so exciting."
"They are all going to marry into a wealthy family, so why are you still practicing?"
Lin Beibei was "brainwashed" by her wealthy boyfriend
Rich second generation Liu Ning is Lin Beibei's boyfriend. He proposed to get married next year and asked Lin Beibei to be a full-time housewife at home after marriage.
Liu Ning wants to marry Lin Beibei, but in fact, his parents asked him to get married first and then start a business, so that he could take over the family business after getting married.
Asking Lin Beibei to resign is also Liu Ning’s mother’s only request. His mother does not like Lin Beibei dancing, but does not like his daughter-in-law dancing.
Can a man like this still marry in such a family?
As for Liu Ning's meaning, he said this:
"Of course I don't want my wife to show up in public and show her to others. And you can rehearse, it's not white or black, which seriously affects my quality of life.
I think it's a half-hearted dance now, it's not a big deal. You don't have to go to work after getting married, and you're good at it. You don't have to do anything. You don't have to do anything at home. Command and command a nanny at home and go out to socialize with me. This life is still ideal."
From this point of view, Liu Ning's desire for control and possessiveness is too strong. He doesn't want Lin Beibei to dance. He thinks about it all, not that he doesn't want Lin Beibei to work too hard.
In the eyes of such men, women are their own accessories, and they must be devoted to themselves. When they don’t need her, they will be good wives and mothers at home. When they need her, they must serve as the storefront for themselves and be on call. It’s so terrible!
What's even more terrifying is that Lin Beibei didn't realize the sadness after marrying such a man. Instead, she felt that happiness came a little suddenly. She was stunned by the man's sweet words and fell into the whirlpool of "love".
Lin Beibei didn't know Liu Ning's true character at all, but Liu Ning understood Lin Beibei thoroughly and knew that what she cared about the most was her parents, so after she proposed to buy a house near their house and take Lin Beibei's parents over.
Lin Beibei's parents set up a night market in Kaifeng . Liu Ning also said that if they were really idle by then, he would set up a restaurant and leave it to them.
Who can't say good things? Liu Ning just touched his upper and lower lips and drew a big pie for Lin Beibei. Without seeing the actual action, Lin Beibei was successfully brainwashed and planned to quit and get married to become a full-time housewife.
Lin Beibei doesn't want to be the "second little girl"
The reason why Lin Beibei is so easy to be brainwashed by her rich second-generation boyfriend is not because she is vain and greedy for wealth, but because she sees the cruelty of reality.
Especially in the dance industry, it is a bowl of youthful meal. Lin Beibei saw the "sadness" of the dance leader Xiaoyan.
Xiaoyan has not dared to stop for a moment in the past 10 years. Even the chief is just a "chicken head". No matter how hard she tries, she can't compare to the "chicken head" that was airborne.
She practices dancing day and night, her body is covered in scars, but she can only dance at a B corner. During the rehearsal, the famous foreign aid director gave a lecture to A Point 10 times before he would tell her once. She suffered from neglect and humiliation.
Now, Xiaoyan is over 30 years old and can’t jump anymore. She is still persisting, and her family is giving birth again. She faces the double blow of her career and family, missed the best childbearing age, and has no major breakthrough in her career.
So, when director Chen Ran advised Lin Beibei not to waste his talent and not to let down the expectations of the hospital for her, she said this:
"What's wrong with a chief successor? It's the chicken head of a second-tier hospital group. The salary of a month has exceeded the sky, which is only about 6,000 or 7,000. It takes 365 days to jump and jump every day. Did you jump and jump and jump to become famous or profit?
Then I don't want to be the second little girl, I don't want to live a life that is particularly wronged.
Director Chen, I think your generation may be more concerned about love, but I Our generation pays more attention to cost-effectiveness and input-output ratio.
does not cost much. Even if you get the Lotus Award , the prize is only 3,500 yuan. I have to spend nine hours a week, and those three months are 108 hours. Isn’t it good to do something after such a long time? This is not a good deal, I just think that who doesn’t count the account..."
In Lin Beibei’s view, Xiaoyan is a kind of sorrow for the dancer. She has worked hard for more than ten years and has not obtained fame or profit. This is a particularly unprofitable thing, so her mind is very clear and she doesn’t want to be the “second little Yan”.
But Lin Beibei's talent is much higher than Xiaoyan. Xiaoyan has five points of talent and five points of hard work, while Lin Beibei has seven points of talent, why not fully realize her maximum potential?
Chen Ran said that the input and output of dancers are indeed not proportional to that of the dancers. She also wants to earn more, but no matter how much she earns, this is the fate and mission of the dancer, and this is her values in the dance industry.
Lin Beibei does not agree with Chen Ran’s values. She doesn’t care whether she can become the chief, but only cares whether dancing can make her live the good life she wants.
If dance cannot make money, it is just a hobby. If you regard hobbies as work and are still so poor in material terms, it would be a tragedy.
Since that's the case, why didn't Lin Beibei resign?
Because the opera and dance theater is organized, it is quite good compared to other places. Moreover, Lin Beibei also likes to dance. She can't do other jobs except dancing.
However, she now has a rich second-generation boyfriend. According to her boyfriend, after marriage, she can live a life of food and clothing without worry, and can help her parents. Why not do it?
people, once there is a shortcut to take, who is willing to take a detour?
Three things made Lin Beibei "get back to the road"
Lin Beibei went to Kaifeng to find her parents, told them about Liu Ning's proposal to get married, and planned to take them to Zhengzhou. She wanted to do what Liu Ning said and wanted to take her parents to live a good life together.
Lin’s father said, “Your mother and I are pretty good now, we are not tired at all.”
Lin’s mother said, “My parents have received Liu Ning’s wishes, but you live your own life after getting married. How can you tie your parents to your body and let others make things work together!”
I have to say that Lin Beibei’s parents’ views are too correct!
Although they are very hard to set up a night market, they enjoy it. After all, they make money by relying on their own hands, and there is no need to look at anyone's expression. My daughter works in a provincial musical and dance theater again, and their faces are very radiant, and this is a good day!
Lin's father and mother have always been proud of their daughter. Lin Beibei has loved dancing since she was a child and often danced next to the stall. Everyone praised her for her good dance and would definitely become a dancer in the future.
Now, just because of a man's words, he quits his job when he gets married. If Lin Beibei says he doesn't jump, he won't jump, and his parents will be unhappy from the bottom of their hearts.
They have never regarded their daughter as a money tree, and have never thought of letting her marry a wealthy family to help her family. They just want her to do what she likes to do. This is the real "for your own good".
Look at Liu Ning again, and asked Lin Beibei to accompany her to KTV to play with her friends. Her friend found a bunch of little girls to dance, and asked Lin Beibei to give her guidance and let her show her skills on stage.
text | Liangzi
Lin Beibei is the dance star of Zhengzhou Song and Dance Theater. She is very talented and trained by the hospital as the chief successor.
But she is not active in practicing dancing, and being late and leaving early is the norm.
Because Lin Beibei believes that working in the theater, no matter how hard you work, the monthly salary will be capped. This is not the life she wants. She just wants to marry her rich second-generation boyfriend and easily do group dance within the compilation.
When Chen Ran, the director played by Bai Baihe, , could not find Lin Beibei, the male colleague sarcastically said in an authentic dialect:
"Hey~ Maserati took it away, it's so exciting."
"They are all going to marry into a wealthy family, so why are you still practicing?"
Lin Beibei was "brainwashed" by her wealthy boyfriend
Rich second generation Liu Ning is Lin Beibei's boyfriend. He proposed to get married next year and asked Lin Beibei to be a full-time housewife at home after marriage.
Liu Ning wants to marry Lin Beibei, but in fact, his parents asked him to get married first and then start a business, so that he could take over the family business after getting married.
Asking Lin Beibei to resign is also Liu Ning’s mother’s only request. His mother does not like Lin Beibei dancing, but does not like his daughter-in-law dancing.
Can a man like this still marry in such a family?
As for Liu Ning's meaning, he said this:
"Of course I don't want my wife to show up in public and show her to others. And you can rehearse, it's not white or black, which seriously affects my quality of life.
I think it's a half-hearted dance now, it's not a big deal. You don't have to go to work after getting married, and you're good at it. You don't have to do anything. You don't have to do anything at home. Command and command a nanny at home and go out to socialize with me. This life is still ideal."
From this point of view, Liu Ning's desire for control and possessiveness is too strong. He doesn't want Lin Beibei to dance. He thinks about it all, not that he doesn't want Lin Beibei to work too hard.
In the eyes of such men, women are their own accessories, and they must be devoted to themselves. When they don’t need her, they will be good wives and mothers at home. When they need her, they must serve as the storefront for themselves and be on call. It’s so terrible!
What's even more terrifying is that Lin Beibei didn't realize the sadness after marrying such a man. Instead, she felt that happiness came a little suddenly. She was stunned by the man's sweet words and fell into the whirlpool of "love".
Lin Beibei didn't know Liu Ning's true character at all, but Liu Ning understood Lin Beibei thoroughly and knew that what she cared about the most was her parents, so after she proposed to buy a house near their house and take Lin Beibei's parents over.
Lin Beibei's parents set up a night market in Kaifeng . Liu Ning also said that if they were really idle by then, he would set up a restaurant and leave it to them.
Who can't say good things? Liu Ning just touched his upper and lower lips and drew a big pie for Lin Beibei. Without seeing the actual action, Lin Beibei was successfully brainwashed and planned to quit and get married to become a full-time housewife.
Lin Beibei doesn't want to be the "second little girl"
The reason why Lin Beibei is so easy to be brainwashed by her rich second-generation boyfriend is not because she is vain and greedy for wealth, but because she sees the cruelty of reality.
Especially in the dance industry, it is a bowl of youthful meal. Lin Beibei saw the "sadness" of the dance leader Xiaoyan.
Xiaoyan has not dared to stop for a moment in the past 10 years. Even the chief is just a "chicken head". No matter how hard she tries, she can't compare to the "chicken head" that was airborne.
She practices dancing day and night, her body is covered in scars, but she can only dance at a B corner. During the rehearsal, the famous foreign aid director gave a lecture to A Point 10 times before he would tell her once. She suffered from neglect and humiliation.
Now, Xiaoyan is over 30 years old and can’t jump anymore. She is still persisting, and her family is giving birth again. She faces the double blow of her career and family, missed the best childbearing age, and has no major breakthrough in her career.
So, when director Chen Ran advised Lin Beibei not to waste his talent and not to let down the expectations of the hospital for her, she said this:
"What's wrong with a chief successor? It's the chicken head of a second-tier hospital group. The salary of a month has exceeded the sky, which is only about 6,000 or 7,000. It takes 365 days to jump and jump every day. Did you jump and jump and jump to become famous or profit?
Then I don't want to be the second little girl, I don't want to live a life that is particularly wronged.
Director Chen, I think your generation may be more concerned about love, but I Our generation pays more attention to cost-effectiveness and input-output ratio.
does not cost much. Even if you get the Lotus Award , the prize is only 3,500 yuan. I have to spend nine hours a week, and those three months are 108 hours. Isn’t it good to do something after such a long time? This is not a good deal, I just think that who doesn’t count the account..."
In Lin Beibei’s view, Xiaoyan is a kind of sorrow for the dancer. She has worked hard for more than ten years and has not obtained fame or profit. This is a particularly unprofitable thing, so her mind is very clear and she doesn’t want to be the “second little Yan”.
But Lin Beibei's talent is much higher than Xiaoyan. Xiaoyan has five points of talent and five points of hard work, while Lin Beibei has seven points of talent, why not fully realize her maximum potential?
Chen Ran said that the input and output of dancers are indeed not proportional to that of the dancers. She also wants to earn more, but no matter how much she earns, this is the fate and mission of the dancer, and this is her values in the dance industry.
Lin Beibei does not agree with Chen Ran’s values. She doesn’t care whether she can become the chief, but only cares whether dancing can make her live the good life she wants.
If dance cannot make money, it is just a hobby. If you regard hobbies as work and are still so poor in material terms, it would be a tragedy.
Since that's the case, why didn't Lin Beibei resign?
Because the opera and dance theater is organized, it is quite good compared to other places. Moreover, Lin Beibei also likes to dance. She can't do other jobs except dancing.
However, she now has a rich second-generation boyfriend. According to her boyfriend, after marriage, she can live a life of food and clothing without worry, and can help her parents. Why not do it?
people, once there is a shortcut to take, who is willing to take a detour?
Three things made Lin Beibei "get back to the road"
Lin Beibei went to Kaifeng to find her parents, told them about Liu Ning's proposal to get married, and planned to take them to Zhengzhou. She wanted to do what Liu Ning said and wanted to take her parents to live a good life together.
Lin’s father said, “Your mother and I are pretty good now, we are not tired at all.”
Lin’s mother said, “My parents have received Liu Ning’s wishes, but you live your own life after getting married. How can you tie your parents to your body and let others make things work together!”
I have to say that Lin Beibei’s parents’ views are too correct!
Although they are very hard to set up a night market, they enjoy it. After all, they make money by relying on their own hands, and there is no need to look at anyone's expression. My daughter works in a provincial musical and dance theater again, and their faces are very radiant, and this is a good day!
Lin's father and mother have always been proud of their daughter. Lin Beibei has loved dancing since she was a child and often danced next to the stall. Everyone praised her for her good dance and would definitely become a dancer in the future.
Now, just because of a man's words, he quits his job when he gets married. If Lin Beibei says he doesn't jump, he won't jump, and his parents will be unhappy from the bottom of their hearts.
They have never regarded their daughter as a money tree, and have never thought of letting her marry a wealthy family to help her family. They just want her to do what she likes to do. This is the real "for your own good".
Look at Liu Ning again, and asked Lin Beibei to accompany her to KTV to play with her friends. Her friend found a bunch of little girls to dance, and asked Lin Beibei to give her guidance and let her show her skills on stage.
Lu Ning didn't help stop it, but also agreed to let Lin Beibei dance, with a proud and proud attitude:
"Our Beibei is the future chief, and this is the top in the country after all. How can this dance catch her eye?"
At this time, Liu Ning had already exposed her true face.
He was saying before that he would not let Lin Beibei break her thighs in front of outsiders, and could only dance in front of himself; now in front of so many men, he asked Lin Beibei to dance to cheer up, and said that it was the same as dancing in front of him at home.
What did he treat his girlfriend as? A storefront or a toy?
Lin Beibei was angry and returned to her dormitory and asked her roommate Baoyuan: Is this the day you want?
Baoyuan said, of course yes, living in such a large dormitory is like living in a villa, with a salary of three to four thousand yuan a month and being able to dance, this is the day she wants.
In fact, Baoyuan has always envied Lin Beibei's talent, but Lin Beibei did not agree with it and did not make good use of her own advantages. What she didn't know was that what she didn't want was something that others could not keep up with it no matter how hard they tried.
Lin Beibei has been looking up at the farther distance, but ignores the prosperous avenue in front of her. Don’t forget that you are also the object of others’ attention.
After guidance from his parents, he saw through Liu Ning's true face and listened to what his roommate said. Lin Beibei finally figured it out and was no longer confused. She went to practice dancing early the next morning. This is the right way!
I am really grateful for Lin Beibei's final awakening. I am glad that she saw Liu Ning's true face in time and fortunately she did not give up her career.
was written at the end
In fact, when Lin Beibei first agreed to be a full-time housewife, she didn't think how sad it would be for a full-time housewife. She just said uncertainly:
should be fine. The days that I can't fight for so long have all come all at once.
You should know that for a man and for an uncertain future, it is the stupidest way to give up your career.
does not mean that men are unreliable, but that Liu Ning is unreliable. Even if Lin Beibei gave up her career and face for him, Liu Ning would only say:
"Isn't I just your face? You marry me, don't have to suffer. You are rich and well-behaved, but you are not worthy of your face?"
Liu Ning didn't consider what Lin Beibei thought at all, but only cared about her own face and feelings. Even after getting married, it is very likely to find another woman.
Lin Beibei said that if she had to quit her job when she got married, she didn't want to get married so early. She wanted to jump a few more years while she was young. Anyway, her youth has only been in these few years, and she has not been a few years.
Liu Ning was dissatisfied:
"Anyway, I have to wait for you to jump over your youth. Like your little sister, I am in my thirties, I can't jump anymore, and I have no chance. I will marry you again to protect you, right? What am I going to do?"
Look, this man only thinks about your youth and beauty, not true love at all. When you are old and weak, he will definitely despise you, and there will be a day when he will soon be disgusted with you.
So, women must have their own career at any time. Even if a man loves you enough, he must have the ability to deal with all changes.
No one is worthy of your giving up your career for him, and the worthy one will not let you sacrifice for him, but will support you.
In fact, there are many girls facing the "temptation of men" in reality. On one hand, there are hard work and on the other hand, there are suitors with good conditions. In the material trade-offs, many people choose the latter.
There are also some girls who work harder and strive for decades to choose a spouse and go for successful men.
Just like Guo Caiting in " Dear Life ", she is in her 20s and only wants to find a successful man who is older, so she was deceived by Zhang Zilu, who has a family, which makes the child born with a stillbirth, and after all, she is a waste of money.
After all, how many good men with successful careers are still "wandering" in society? Most of them were conquered by their families.
If men of similar age are not rich second generations, how many of them can succeed in their careers in their 20s?
It can be seen that some paths in life are ultimately taken by oneself step by step.
Some bitterness must be eaten. If you cannot endure material pain, you must be controlled by others spiritually and be free.
If men of similar age are not rich second generations, how many of them can succeed in their careers in their 20s?
It can be seen that some paths in life are ultimately taken by oneself step by step.
Some bitterness must be eaten. If you cannot endure material pain, you must be controlled by others spiritually and be free.
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