Some time ago Faye Wong eldest daughter Dou Jingtong debuted at Paris Fashion Week .
I have to say that the new look is too different from the image of the previous "tomboy".
Entertainment reporter also passed the raw pictures to Faye Wong as soon as possible.
result Faye Wong replied in seconds: tsk.
"Tsk tsk" Is it a marveling at Dou Jingtong's becoming sexy from a tomboy, or expressing the regret that "female stars will eventually grow into Song Dandan "?
Comment area has been full of imagination.
But after seeing the lives of Faye Wong and Dou Jingtong, the word "tsk" is actually a kind of wisdom.
The name comes from the father Dou Wei and Faye Wong’s former name Wang Jingwen . The names of the two are each one word.
Dou Jingtong at that time was just like this name. As soon as he was born, the entire Chinese music scene was watching the combination of the light of the magic rock and the Asian queen.
Results In August 1999, when Dou Jingtong was less than three years old, Faye Wong divorced Dou Wei and custody belonged to Faye Wong.
This time, only mom sees you growing up.
But there is not a lot of love. Faye Wong gave all her love and time to Dou Jingtong. The photos of various photos are the best proof.
In the " City of Fantasy ", Faye Wong even publicly praised her daughter.
He Jiong even felt incredible: Why are you embarrassed to praise your daughter like this!
Indeed, most mothers will probably be polite.
But on the other hand, the more embarrassed you are to be sure of the child, the more you will feel lost and inferior in your heart.
The greatest happiness and confidence is to be praised by your mother.
Of course, Faye Wong praises her children does not mean indulgence.
For example, Dou Jingtong cannot stay at night before the age of 16, and must go home within the specified time.
If you want to keep a pet, you must also write a written report and explain your motivation clearly on it.
But if it is violated, Faye Wong will not ask questions in a head-on manner.
Once Dou Jingtong went home one minute late, and Faye Wong only said one sentence: "You are late."
This non-painful and itchy word made Dou Jingtong feel more uncomfortable than being beaten, and he never dared to violate it again.
is actually easy to understand. A simple stick cannot produce a filial son.
Rough methods only make the child afraid for the time being, and the worst result is nothing more than being beaten.
The parents were reluctant to be beaten to death, so of course they would not change after repeated teachings.
Squat down and be calm and reasonable. The child will not misunderstand the good intentions of his parents.
But these are not enough.
After all, to outsiders, Faye Wong's marriage history is destined to be in line with the image of a Chinese mother no matter how she does it.
After giving birth to her eldest daughter Dou Jingtong, her boyfriend became Nicholas Tse , and then he continued Li Yapeng with almost no time.
After giving birth to Li Yan , he remarried Nicholas Tse in recent years.
Someone online joked, how many fathers do her child have? Have you ever looked for her father everywhere to consider Dou Jingtong's feelings?
Faye Wong's answer to this was: "I'm looking for a husband, Tongtong has a father."
People who like appreciate her personality revealed by this sentence, and people who don't like it think of Pan Jinlian when they hear this sentence.
We don't need to deeply understand the life of the queen, but in a sense, Faye Wong's answer shows that the boundary between her and her child is very clear.
Because Dou Jingtong has a biological father, finding a lover and finding a father for the child is two different things.
Every time Faye Wong's relationship storm is not involved Tell the child.
Think about it again, can a mother who lacks love raise a child with love?
It is Faye Wong who bravely pursues happiness that has become a role model for children. Dou Jingtong in front of the camera will be so confident.
The most commendable thing is that Faye Wong did not walk for the child because of her ups and downs.
"My desire to protect children is only in their infancy. After this stage, they must treat them as independent individuals to get along and communicate. "
Her only advice to Dou Jingtong's life is, "You can't learn bad things, you can't be too obedient."
In this scale, children can play freely and equally.
For example, Dou Jingtong dropped out of school , dyeing hair, shaving your head, not breaking the law, and doing it without distorting your views.
Dou Jingtong, who dressed up in an alternative way, looks "not close to someone", but she will help reporters pull chairs and hand them tissues every time she interviews.
So since it is not "rebellious", Faye Wong's attitude has always been "if you think about it, you can do it." "
Later, Dou Jingtong embarked on the musical path, and Faye Wong, who is in music style and canvassing, did not interfere.
Otherwise, Tongtong's album would not be unsalable all year round.
Let me mention Faye Wong's other daughter Li Yan.
Since Faye Wong and Li Yapeng's marriage broke down, outsiders always say:
"I hope Li Yan is carefree and grows up happily. "
In addition to regrets about the relationship between the two stars, it is more because Li Yan is born with cleft lip and palate.
People sympathize with this "ugly" girl and don't want her to be hurt again.
But unexpectedly, as she grows older, Li Yan slowly changes.
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She became the youngest popular beauty blogger in history. She not only taught others to put on makeup, but also taught people how to take selfies and pose bold poses.
There are also extra large earrings on her ears.
Seeing the girl on the "wrong way", everyone called out to Faye Wong, but Faye Wong said, "Treat her as an ordinary child, she is very beautiful, there is no problem at all! "
Now Li Yan has attracted countless fans with this love and confidence.
In fact, because of resentment, Faye Wong did not allow her ex-husband to see her children. She rarely heard Faye Wong talk about her ex-husband for so many years.
But later the child grew up, Faye Wong changed her mind and supported her full support for the relationship between several children.
There is a saying that adults are no longer destined to be together and separation is good, but the identity of parents is a lifelong thing.
As long as the love and companionship of parents are still there, happiness will always be there.
Now the vigorous happiness of Dou Jingtong and Li Yan vividly illustrates that the love of parents for her has never left.
Some people may say: their social status, their economic conditions and family background, what is there to talk about, it is not an ordinary family, it is not surprising that such a family will have a child.
It cannot be denied that celebrities do have the cost of trial and error, and we do not have the right to interfere with other parents' educational methods of their children.
But there are many children who are rich but have no "prosperity", and there are more children who can succeed even without money.
The key is not to let our parents' survival anxiety suppress the growth of their children.
In fact, when a child is born, the parents are mutual support and dependence beyond blood relationships.
has blood ties, but they are also independent individuals.
Just like Gibran 's "Child" writes:
"Your children are actually not your children; they are the children born of life's desire for themselves; they come to this world with the help of you, but they do not come because of you; they are by your side but do not belong to you."
So sometimes thinking about it, no matter how much parents do, it is really not as good as this "tsk tsk" that wants to speak but stops.
is standing at this end of the path of life, watching the child walk boldly at the turn of the path, and when she turns back, she will not hesitate because of your eyes, she only feels that you are always there.
Good parents will give their children free choices.
A child who can determine his own life is always happy.
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Pictures and sources:
"The only one who can make Queen Faye Wong praise her is right? 》, Sohu Entertainment, 2022.09.29
"Exit school, tattoo, smoking, pregnancy before marriage... Faye Wong, look at the good daughter you taught! 》, Little Ten Points, 2021.04.05
"Dou Wei: My marriage with Faye Wong is a conspiracy", Past Bar Sweet, 2022.10.05
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