Recently, the word "slack" has become popular on social networks.
The meaning of relaxation can be understood as: not twisting, not entangled, not anxious, emotionally stable, and live out oneself.
The feeling of relaxation is to accept everything happening with a good attitude.
Gao Yuanyuan is a recognized beauty in the entertainment industry, but compared to her beauty, I appreciate her "slackness" in her attitude towards life.
First known Gao Yuanyuan was when he was in college. Once in class, the teacher said that Gao Yuanyuan is the representative of the beauty world and is beautiful. I watched some of her TV series later, and later she got married and had children. I saw her again recently. During an interview, when "Sisters of Waves 3" was popular, a reporter asked her if she would participate in the "Sisters of Waves" program. She said generously that she would not go. The state and expression at that time were really elegant. Time seems to have not left any trace on her, but instead it has become more confident, elegant, calm and beautiful.
I remember Gao Yuanyuan once admitted in an interview program: When she was young, she was actually social terror, but later she gradually developed the experience of dealing with people into a kind of enjoyment;
Even though she was so beautiful, she had also had appearance anxiety, but later, she also accepted the fact that she would gradually grow old and took care of her skin care;
always wanted to be a good actor. She had high expectations and requirements for herself before. If she did not meet her expectations, she would be entangled and twisted, but now she would adjust her state in time and accept that she was just an ordinary person.
years did not abuse her beauty like a pig's knife, but it gave her more calmness and elegance like a rainbow. I have more tolerance and transparency towards myself, and more understanding and calmness towards life.
It turns out that "no matter how to be crafted", "no matter whether you are angry or not angry", will win the slightest and unpredictable attitude towards life. It turns out that a relaxed attitude towards life will give you a kind of confidence to be calm and fearless.
As there is a saying: "No one stipulates that a flower must grow into a rose. It is also good to be a gardenia that is fragrant and refreshing." In the variety show " Longing for Life ", the whole process made people feel very comfortable when Xu Zhiyuan visited.
When other guests were all working hard to show off and maintain their idol image, fearing that they would be criticized by the audience, Xu Zhiyuan was very casual. He wanted to stay alone and stay alone. He didn't want to work, but he didn't work. In the eyes of others, it was particularly unsociable.
When others will chat awkwardly for the performance of the program or try to cater to others, he runs out of the camera and enjoys his time.
In the words of Teacher He , he is a mysterious person.
However, he lives the way he wants. Not artificial, very real.
Although he escaped from the camera, he would help the people carry the burden and chat with them. This is the real experience of his yearning for life, rather than distorting his heart for the sake of the show.
is not affected by the outside world or disturbed by the world. Face everything calmly and firmly in your heart. This is the power brought by the feeling of relaxation.
is calm and fragrant alone, and the calmness and calmness of a sense of high-end will make you live independently.
Some people say: The top "slack feeling" comes from the fulfilling heart that is not kidnapped by the outside world.
I think the key to relaxation is to have the ability to "lift heavy weights as lightly". Not panic, with a high tolerance.
is just like Satya said:
accepts what I can't do yet, appreciate what I have done, and believe that after this process, you can finally live out and bloom yourself.
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