spent a few days watching the first and second seasons of the Taiwanese drama " Vulgar Girls' Cultivation ". This drama can be said to be warm, funny and sad. It is said that an unfortunate childhood must be healed for a lifetime, and a happy childhood healed for a lifetime, while Chen Jialing's childhood is very happy. The heroine of "The Story of the Familiar Girls" is unmarried at the age of 39. After proposing to her boyfriend while drunk, the double pressure from the company and her mother-in-law made Chen Jialing sober. She chose to break up. When she was drunk and died of dreams after losing her job, she was dragged back to her hometown by her brother Chen Jiaming. She met bamboo horse Cai Yongsen again in her hometown and decided to buy the "haunted house" she was a child and at the same time became a tour guide.
Carina Chen is enviable because she can break off the engagement at the age of 39 and start another life bravely. Her soberness (or some people think it is pretentious) is because of her family. "The Story of the Growing of Vulgar Girls" is full of fireworks, recording Chen Jialing's life with two lines. Everything that Chen Jialing experienced in her childhood affects Chen Jialing now. She can still not forget her "self" at the age of 39. It is also because of the family environment. Although there is a little friction, the style of painting is warm and funny. She shows her family from the perspective of Chen Jialing. If this drama only focuses on "older unmarried leftover women", it is a bit superficial, but in fact it is more about finding oneself.
Grandma: My name is Li Yueying
Every character in "The Story of the Fresh Girls' Development" is very vivid, so vivid that it looks like the people around us, among which Grandma is even more so. She is a grandma who is frugal and stubborn and wants to be face-saving. She will have a little conflict with her daughter-in-law; she will be a little biased when her daughter takes her granddaughter home. The reason for being biased is that her daughter and granddaughter are guests, and Xiao Chen Jialing is the master, but at the same time she is a sober grandma. Grandma accepted that her youngest daughter had never been married for life and her granddaughter had retired from her older age. Before she passed away, she told Chen Jialing that when she was too lazy to breathe, she hoped that the ashes could be scattered in the sea and could be free to be Li Yueying.
Grandma said that before her marriage, her parents called her Ayue, and her friends called her Yueying. After getting married, she became Chen Li Yueying. She was called Mrs. Chen, Mother Chen, and the boss’s wife outside. She was a mother and grandma at home. She hadn’t heard her name for a long time. Grandma’s words sounded sad. Grandma's marriage life is very good, but she still can't be herself. The general environment has made her gradually lose her name. Grandma sings are not singing to her grandfather but to herself. Grandma wanted to move out for a while, not because she didn't like the Chen family, but because she wanted to live as Li Yueying for a while, but Grandma had forgotten that she was Li Yueying at that time, and only remembered that she was Chen Li Yueying.
The enviable but a little disgusting good father Chen Jinwen
Grandma has a kind of open-minded sadness. Even though she forgot her name, she still has the consciousness of "self" in her subconscious, while her daughter-in-law Wu Xiuqin is a bit heartbreaking. In the generation of Chen Jialing's mother, Wu Xiuqin, no longer needs to be named husband, but Wu Xiuqin's life is for her family, husband, and children. She is the most common mother. She likes to say, save money and hope that her son will succeed. Her catchphrase is "all for your own good". Such a "tiger mom" highlights her father Chen Jinwen's very good. She really envies Chen Jialing for having such a father. He pampers his daughter, can play with her, and will tell her daughter about the second and third things about menstrual period, but he is also very principled.
When Chen Jialing steals her classmate's pen, even if Chen Jialing is for her father, Chen Jinwen will pull Chen Jialing to the door in the middle of the night. He is simply someone else's good father and husband, but this good father changed after he was discharged from the hospital when he was sick in the old age. Chen Jinwen was crazy about teenagers and accompanied his first love to do some crazy things. He did not cheat physically, but it was obvious that had mentally cheated . When he was with his first love, he found himself who had not seen for a long time. He began to lose his temper at Wu Xiuqin and secretly lend money to his first love. When Wu Xiuqin was gloating about the news about the "pig killing plate", Chen Jinwen was angry and scolded Wu Xiuqin for being mean.
Treasure Mother Wu Xiuqin
Because she found that she had always thought that her good husband had problems, Wu Xiuqin ran away from home to find her daughter Chen Jialing, and Chen Jialing happened to break up with Cai Yongsen. Cousin Hong Yuxuan had problems with her marriage. The three women started a road trip together. When they came back, they were caught because of an alcohol-containing cake and were drunk together in the police station. This plot is very funny, and during this trip, Chen Jialing discovered that her mother was a treasure. Wu Xiuqin, who only has a primary school diploma, can speak foreign languages, drive, and swim. Wu Xiuqin is also very good at dancing, which is worse than Chen Jinwen's first love at all. However, Wu Xiuqin's starting point for learning these is because Chen Jinwen, because he likes them, because he can't.
Wu Xiuqin obviously knows a lot, but she has never shown herself, just like she has always known her son's sexual orientation, but she has never said that, no matter how nagging she is, she loves her family very much and even loses herself. After returning from the trip, Wu Xiuqin still lived at her daughter's house, but she lost her goal for most of her life. She didn't know what she should do and was confused. On that day, she calmed down and looked at the scenery of the yard and suddenly found that the sky was blue. On this afternoon, Wu Xiuqin found herself. Although Wu Xiuqin finally made up with Chen Jinwen, Wu Xiuqin's mentality was already different.
Canary cousin Hong Yuxuan
cousin Hong Yuxuan always likes to call herself in a third person. She kept saying "What about Yuxuan?" No matter what happens, she kept smiling and unable to shed tears. Why did the excellent cousin who was a child become like this? Because Hong Yuxuan lost herself in sweet words, she, a top student at NTU, became a wife of a certain person. After graduation, she had no job and became a housewife, revolving around her husband. When she was middle-aged, her husband cheated on domestic violence, and she had no work experience, she could only rely on her husband to survive. Gradually, she got used to smiling and enduring everything and could never shed tears. Fortunately, Hong Yuxuan woke up and found herself.
Transparent Chen Jiaming
Chen Jiaming's younger brother Chen Jiaming is a bit similar to a transparent person at home. Although he is a good brother and a good son, the plot points out that the family attaches more importance to his sister Chen Jialing. Perhaps because he is a son, he thinks that his son should take on everything and give his mother and sister support. Chen Jiaming's positioning for himself has always been a son and a successor of the pharmacy. He has never thought about what he wants and what kind of life he wants to live. This is also what Chen Jinwen expected of his son before. However, Chen Jinwen found himself after he got sick, hoping that his son would do it too, no matter where he wanted to go, what he wanted to do, or who he wanted to be with.
So "The Story of the Familiar Girls" is not the history of the struggle and love between middle-aged girls, but the discovery of "self" by three generations. Chen Jialing may be scolded for being pretentious, but she remembers that she is Chen Jialing, not just so-and-so, which is also the reason why she is awkward. Chen Jialing is also very lucky to have an open-minded family, and her relatives influence her, allowing her to be herself, and she also witnessed everyone find herself back. In fact, everyone has different positioning in social relations. They will become someone in a company and become someone else's father, mother, or children, but no matter who it is, don't forget to "self".
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