Patty Hou, it's time to say goodbye to Jay Chou

16 years ago, Jay Chou held a press conference on his 26th birthday to announce his love affair with Patty Hou .

The two broke up after a year of passionate love. Patty Hou lost 16 pounds at one time.

She is stuck in a bottleneck period, and she involuntarily consults the guests when she is hosting the show: If love hurts, is "love" important in the relationship?

Rainie Yang Persuaded, being hurt does not necessarily mean deep love, it may just be meeting someone who is not suitable.

Zhang Aijia Answer, love is not necessarily fierce. Some people can marry, some can only fall in love.

Big S said that the moment he broke up, he really broke up and will never reunite.

After listening to these replies,Patty Hou thoughtfully.

At the beginning of 2010, Patty Hou announced that he had married her boyfriend who had just met more than 4 months and was engaged to two people after she had been married to Huang Baijun.

During the two days of the wedding, Jay Chou, who was not invited, and his brother Liu Genghong blew on the rooftop for a long time.

—— The story comes this year.

On December 3, Patty Hou, who is about to celebrate his 43rd birthday, sold the mansion he bought during his wedding for NT$185 million.

A week later, Jay Chou, who has not released a new album for 5 years, appeared at the music ceremony and sang " I don't deserve " again.

This is a song written to Patty Hou.

original,It has been 10 years since Zhou Houlian's marriage ended first with his wife.

No one has seen Patty Hou fail publicly.

Highly educated, high EQ, the only girlfriend Jay Chou has ever admitted, "Taiwan's No. 1 Beautiful Anchor"... She is always smiling, dignified and sweet, proper, decent, and drip-proof.

2005 Golden Melody Awards Ceremony, Patty Hou appeared on the white piano, singing and dancing sexy, charming without losing the innocence of the girl, amazing.

After the interview, Patty Hou gently pushed the praise away, only emphasizing the "tension" and the process of practice, and "moved" by everyone's support.

She said that for the first time hosting a large-scale awards ceremony, she was afraid that she might have made any mistakes, so she repeatedly figured out Monroe's attitude. I was very nervous during the performance, worried that the audience would not be able to accept the breakthrough in the image. I was very happy to receive the most enthusiastic applause, and I felt very moved.

takes the initiative to ordinaryize its excellence, and after being recognized, it can also pass on positive feedback to the public.Give them emotional value that is quite satisfying because of this evaluation.

Patty Hou, sweet and harmless, is hard to be hated by others.

She is also too enthusiastic. When I first appeared on the variety show "Little Swallow Night", the host pretended to be aggressive and asked his mother more questions. Patty Hou smiled sweetly and immediately said, "We both love you so much."

has won the Golden Bell Award of Taiwan TV 6 times Variety Show Host Award Zhang Xiaoyan can't talk about it, I feel so dumb by this sweetheart. asked.

This sweetness is not limited to the show. When I met Xiao S for the first time in private, Patty Hou exclaimed, "S, you are really great, I really love you", and turned to Xiao S's in-laws and said, "You really got good wives. ,so lucky".

will use too sincere tones to praise the taste of little S's husband Mike, "Your home is so beautiful", "Awesome, so beautiful". When little S feels the atmosphere of the house is dull, he hopes Patty Hou came as a guest.

"Patty Hou is what makes our people obedient,The person who makes my in-laws happy is a good person... so passionate that you can hardly not like her. "The little S who has always been a poisonous tongue sums it up like this.

In 2020, Patty Hou’s birthday will be interviewed many times with the big and small S _span1 span1 _span5sp _span0 I once analyzed my personality and showed that I am not as dignified and quiet as the surface, speaking quietly, but rather a girl with a lot of laughter, who is full of emotions, easy to be happy, and can't hide the mood.

But judging from her growth experience, she who has always smiled to show others is not always carefree.

is accustomed to actively expressing kindness, and knows what to praise is exactly what the other person wants. It’s not always that simple.

maybe sometimes, just like singing in a song, Patty Hou laughs, just to disguise the tears that he wants to fall. _p11span Hou Cen is private Female, mother Lin Yueyun was unmarried all her life, but she got involved in the marriage of two girlfriends.

Lin Yueyun was a famous Hokkien actor in Taiwan in the last century.With a sweet smile and good popularity, good friend Guo Chunmei brought Lin Yueyun home to play, but Lin Yueyun and her husband Hou Shihong , a TV producer from a prominent family in Tainan, met each other late.

Lin Yueyun

In 1977, Lin Yueyun was pregnant with Patty Hou, fearing that her lover would be bored during pregnancy, Hou Shihong introduced Cai Guizhao, the eldest daughter of the Cai family to her. After a few laps of mahjong, it was late at night. Cai Guizhao asked her husband Qiu Jiaxiong to send his new girlfriend Lin Yueyun home.

Lin Yueyun has a big belly, and secretly falls in love with Qiu Jiaxiong. While waiting for Hou Shihong's divorce, she waited for Qiu Jiaxiong's divorce on the other.

On December 20, 1978, 28-year-old Lin Yueyun gave birth to an unwed daughter, named Patty. Patzen grew up to 5 years old. Before Hou Shihong was divorced, Lin Yueyun broke up with him and lived with the married Qiu Jiaxiong with his daughter.

Lin Yueyun and Qiu Jiaxiong's affair began in 1982,Ended in 2013. Qiu Jiaxiong only broke up with Lin Yueyun six months ago.

Patty grew bigger and bigger, but he was never given his father’s surname. After breaking up with Lin Yueyun, Hou Shihong was still concerned about this and asked his wife Guo Chunmei to let Patty recognize his ancestor. She now has a surname, Patty Hou in full.

Hou Patty's name is Qiu Jiaxiong "papa" and Hou Shihong's father. He went to prestigious schools, drove famous cars, and studied abroad. He had never worked, and he carried a number of Hermès bags in his 20s. All these expenses are paid by Qiu Jiaxiong.

Perhaps because of the complicated growth environment, Patty Hou has developed a personality that hopes everyone around him can be happy since he was a child. He is very concerned about how others think about him, and is often tense, panicked, and sometimes like a frightened bird. Fear.

She is used to using a "smirk mask" to defend herself against all the problems she may encounter.

After studying at the University of Southern California, the professor left her in a psychology class at the podium after a lecture, and the professor asked why she had just left the lecture at the lecture? Is it out of happiness, or is it satisfied with the report?

she answered truthfully,I am actually very nervous at the moment. Professor

analyzed that laughter may be a defense mechanism for Patty Hou. Patty Hou has since realized that regardless of happiness, tension, anxiety, pain, etc., he will subconsciously face it with a smile.

"This kind of'fake' is the most real kind of reaction, and there is no way to control it."

Kangxi is a friend of Hou 11span In the episode of "Span5span", she added that she is not a double-faced person, but only the "fake" side. Her "fake" has eaten up all the truth.

The problems of the previous generation are passed on to the next generation. Patty Hou has no wayward freedom.

In 2004, Patty Hou became the most famous "Taiwan" anchor "Perfect" in the entertainment of the year, and then became the 50th most-notable female host of "Perfect in Asia". Vote for the champion of the event.

In August, Jay Chou entered the promotion period of his new album " Qilixiang ",He didn't like to be interviewed. He appeared on Patty Hou's show four times in a month, and took the initiative to clarify his scandal with Jolin Tsai .

It was also in 2004 that Patty Hou’s mother, Lin Yueyun, publicly admitted that she and Hou Shihong’s mother, Lin Yueyun, had maintained her husband for 22 years. affair.

The spectators were in an uproar, and the original match was furious. Hou Shihong’s wife, Guo Chunmei, immediately wrote a handwritten breaking news letter, which was published in the media, scolding Jing Lin Yueyun for intervening in his girlfriend’s marriage twice:

"How many tears do you have today? , Please give a hand... Patty Hou is a good girl, I hope her DNA inherits your intelligence, not anything else."

under the pressure of public opinion Lin Yueyun apologized to Cai Guizhao, “everything is fate, the slightest involuntary”

is the same as Guo Chunmei’s evaluation of Patty Hou. At that time, Patty Hou was recognized by the audience through her own efforts. The girls and their mothers behaved separately.

but inevitable,Patty Hou's emotional life was still greatly affected by his mother.

Since childhood, Patty Hou has been living with Lin Yueyun. In an interview, she revealed that not only do mothers and daughters look alike, but also have the same preferences and behaviors. They also have the same makeup habits and the same direction of rubbing the body after swimming. Even skin care products and facial masks use the same brands.

Lin Yueyun's discipline on Patty Hou is deeply rooted. Patty Hou was taught to be polite and patient since he was a child. When answering the phone, he must first say hello and give his name. Even when he meets the apartment security, he must call his uncle so that the other party can hear him.

When I was a child, Patty Hou had an argument with a girl who came to play at home. After Lin Yueyun knew about it, Patty Hou was punished to stand for nearly half an hour and told her that others can have emotions and she must be polite.

Hou's mother Lin Yueyun, Hou Patty

11 Hou was asked about her milk. Why didn't she sleep yet, she asked, "Are you not yet asleep?" Lin Yueyun smoothly splashed the milk on Patty Hou's face and said, "Go and wash now."

After Patty Hou became the anchor,The mother even recorded her daughter's words and deeds one by one. After her daughter was off work, she reminded her of pronunciation, intonation, and the combination of voice and expression one by one. The etiquette of dealing with others was also instructed over and over again.

This strict requirement of politeness is close to smoothing out the control of a person's original character, presenting a deformed relationship of mother-daughter symbiosis.

Patty Hou always has a guilty heart, loves her mother, and thinks it is not easy for her.

"Everything I have now is inseparable from my mother." she said.

anchor Hou Patty

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Zhou Hou fell in love at first sight in the show, and was filmed while traveling to Daiguan Mountain. The reporter would open their relationship. Under the follow-up reports of the media and paparazzi, the two felt pressured and admitted to breaking up more than a year later.

Jay Chou, Patty Hou's fellow traveler Daiguan Mountain

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Patty Hou later recalled that Zhou Hou Lian was her only rebellion. After the love affair was exposed, the pressure of public opinion increased, and both of them began to think a lot. She felt very insecure for a while and was scared of everything.

"Originally, I had been walking safely according to the blueprint, but one day, I was finally willing to go all out. Later, I felt that I didn't seem to be so safe... The most important thing is that I was hiding from the camera. , Became a bit obscured, unlike the original self."

Since childhood, Patty Hou has always longed for an ordinary life, "I don’t need fireworks, romantic rituals. I am very Cherish the little housemaid who is fortunate in life. If you can let me cook a bowl of instant noodles, I will watch my favorite TV and I will feel very happy." The selection criteria for, first, you have to enjoy the intimacy with your family like yourself (especially the intimacy with your mother Lin Yueyun), and second, the other party wants sunshine and always smiles.

Girlfriend S told Lin Yueyun's rule of choosing her son-in-law, "Your mother cares whether that person treats herself well".

leaned low in front of the mother-in-law,Even holding Lin Yueyun's hand during their honeymoon, 's winning streak and Jay Chou may not be able to do it.

Huang Baijun and Lin Yueyun hold hands

11 span Jun, but after obtaining Lin Yueyun's consent, he could propose to Patty Hou again. More than a year later, the two had a flash marriage in Bali.

Hou Patty, who longed for stability, finally chose an outsider that his mother liked.

Unexpectedly, it is reasonable.

Married to Mr. Huang until the 10th year, Patty Hou, who has always been perfect, has shown flaws in his marriage recently.

On December 3, Patty Hou sold the mansion he bought during his wedding for NT$185 million. The news quickly aroused discussion among netizens.

"Going to divorce?" "Do you want to make up for your husband's deficit?" The husband of the anchor below, looks easy-going on the surface, and is actually very pretty. The life experience is really wonderful."

These criticisms are completely based on a life reality show that started in February this year. " mother-in-law and mother 2 " comes.

found that people who did not participate in the variety show together with the old man Pei Cen in this stall. Then there is the sweet girl who smiles when the media asks any questions about Jay Chou and Kunling. On the contrary, she is chattering, impatient, and sometimes showing a strong desire to control.

In the morning, her husband Huang Baijun had a meeting on the phone. Patty Hou was preparing breakfast in the kitchen, and she could have nothing to do with each other. However, she repeatedly shuttled the room and went through several rounds of “death” during her husband’s work. "Style" to ask,There are still some trivialities.

"Would you like breakfast?" "Toast or eggs?" "Do you want to add honey to toast?" "Eggs want poached or scrambled eggs?" _span1 was forced to go offline during the meeting, Huang Bojun was a bit depressed, but he had no temper at all;

order before meals, Patty Hou asked her husband who has never taken care of the meal to order takeaway according to the taste of the whole family. I’ve sent it to the wrong address or I didn’t order the hot soup my wife wanted;

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In the end, Huang Baijun ordered a that his wife likes to eat, and preserved egg tofu. Patty Hou was very moved and said that his husband had never been married for 10 years. I ordered this dish for her, because he himself does not eat preserved eggs.

Marriage is just a place of chicken feathers. The audience who expects the sweet lady to show high EQ in any place can’t help being disappointed.However, Patty Hou said in a media interview that he was lucky to be able to show "flaws" in his life.

"We are in a very comfortable marriage, and we can not make any sacrifices to conform to anything. This is where we are very grateful to each other."

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Only the parties know about the warmth and coldness of marriage, but some changes in Patty Hou are intuitive.

In the years after breaking up with Jay Chou, a media interview with Patty Hou described her round and bright eyes blinking, as if she was trying to suppress strong emotions, and described herself slowly and carefully. Conflict, happy but sad, it seems to want a sense of security, but in fact it wants danger.

Female celebrities with similar experiences told her that love is not necessarily fierce. Patty Hou replied with an understanding, is it possible that there is also warm love?

2009,After being introduced by many friends at the senior sister's wedding, Patty Hou got to know Huang Bojun, who will be called "Wen Wen" in the future. She found that this person's good temper, patience and positive energy have relieved a lot of her stress.

Huang Baijun tolerates Patty Hou because he is off work late, so he always takes care of her grandmother and mother Lin Yueyun at the changed date.

He knows Patty Hou and knows that she is easy to be nervous, so he has basically never put pressure on his wife or asked her to change, and when faced with many things that wives care about, Huang Baijun will say "No relation".

Patty Hou described his marriage as "the horrible wind hits the slow man", which is one loose and one tight, and a perfect fit.

More importantly, this marriage also gave her mother Lin Yueyun a great sense of need and security.

The warm relationship between Patty Hou and Huang Baijun makes the relationship between husband and wife not higher than the relationship between mother and daughter.

makes the 70-year-old Lin Yueyun still able to act as a bond between husband and wife.She also serves as the confidant mother-in-law who leads the son-in-law and encourages Huang Baijun, and the protector and discipliner of her daughter Patty Hou for more than 40 years.

Patty Hou also needs his mother Lin Yueyun to participate in his family life. Just like when Patty Hou got married in 2011, Qiu Jiaxiong handed her hand to Huang Bojun, and then handed the bouquet to Lin Yueyun, who was unmarried all her life.

In this regard, what the incumbent can give, changing the winning streak and Jay Chou to be the son-in-law, may not be able to do it.

Hou Patty and Lin Yueyun scratch Huang Bojun

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Wives and mothers are quite self-sufficient.

She thanked her husband for encouraging herself to be relaxed and happy. She can be brave and play the wife without worries.

The past affection and memory can already be opened with a smile to look again, it doesn’t matter.

After getting married,Patty Hou appeared on "The Night of Xiaoyan" twice, once in the second year after marriage, the title was "Weily Sweet Married Life", and in the 7th year after the second marriage, after giving birth to two sons, the title was "For Love And the strong super mom".

After becoming a mother, Patty Hou eased his tension in life and gradually became more comfortable.

Patty Hou posted a photo of a family of four

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11p Married...It's so beautiful. This time I met again and found out that she is actually an insecure girl. From the anchor to the variety show host, she has been trembling and being pointed out.

It is said that beautiful girls are the victory group in life, but this puts a lot of pressure on mothers and daughters, but Patty Hou always faces them with a smile. This time, it was still beautiful and still nervous.

Finally, Zhang Xiaoyan continued to write, "Being a wife, a career, and a mother are not easy, a beautiful woman is not easy, because others will be stricter on you."

"But you have lived out yourself,There is a husband, and a son laughs. Don't be afraid, feel safe, you are a mother.

"Sit on the opposite side, think of a song, how much you like you, would you know? ”

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